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    Default difficulty to make eye contact during talking?

    Do you find yourself confused in social

    situations? Are you passionately interested

    in a single topic? Is it tough for you to

    make and maintain eye contact? Then you,

    like many talented and intelligent adults

    may be diagnosable with Asperger’s Syndrome.


    asperger's syndrome is development disorder

    that characterized by significant

    difficulties in social

    communication,repetitive behavior of

    patterns,poor social skill and special

    interest. people who have asperger's

    syndrome look like normal that's why its

    called as hidden disability its

    often diagnosed in child and adult.they call

    them selves as an aspie parents

    can know weather their child is normal or

    aspie after 3 years of birth by his/her

    behavior.

    common symptoms and sign of asperger syndrome:

    ~~they have difficulty to talk with same age people
    example:
    i can't talk properly with my classmates.
    i can't talk properly with my relatives

    ~~they have difficulty to make eye contact with other people
    example:
    i can't talk with people when i try to stare at others eye.
    i feel something strange when i try to stare at others eye.

    ~~they may have shy nature
    example:
    avoid to talk with people..

    ~~the have narrow interest means they have special interest.
    example:
    they have extreme interest their favorite subject.. suppose cars then he/she will find much information about cars.

    ~~they may have difficulty to meet other people and make new friends.
    example:
    i have very few friends and don't like to meet people.

    ~~they can talk much on their favorite subject and may be unaware that weather listener is interested or not.
    example:
    if he/she interested in computer then he/she will talk very much related to computer.
    if he/she interested in wild animals/birds then will talk much everything about it

    ~~they are very sensitive to smell,noise,light etc...
    example:
    sound - if they hear loud noises continuously, they can not think clearly.
    touch - they have problem wearing some type of clothes, because the texture feels rough.

    ~~they may talk like professor not talk like normal people.
    example:
    they may speak in monotone. no expressions on face,always talking seriously.

    ~~they may like to do something again and again.
    example:
    they may like to eat same food again and again.
    if he/she child then may be play same game again and again.

    ~~they take things literally

    example:if i say grab your partner for dance then they will really grab the dancer instead of understanding call dancer to dance with him/her..

    ~~it is difficult for them to tell lies, even when it is important
    example:i can't find suitable example for this symptoms but want to say they really honest


    ~~they face difficulty explaining their emotions...

    ~~they face difficulty understanding other people's emotions

    ~~poor motor skills
    example:i find difficulty to catch the ball,riding the bike..
    may be clumsy walking style

    ~~~WHAT CAUSE ASPERGER'S SYNDROME~~~
    this is most asked question that why some people born with or affected by asperger syndrome??

    answer is, we don't know! now a days

    scientist came to the point that there are
    structural and functional differences in

    specific region of brain of normal vs aspie's..they also says that its depends on

    genes but never identified still..

    ~~~positive points of aspie~~~

    -see and remember the details of things that other people miss

    -are very good at remembering rules, laws, systems and important facts. This talent is useful in many types of work

    -are better at writing than at talking to people, because they are careful to choose words that mean exactly what they want to say

    -do well at maths, computer programming and science

    -do well at drawing, painting, photography, acting or music

    -have a special interest that they become experts in

    -enjoy doing the same thing many times over, which some people find boring. Many people with Asperger Syndrome are good at practicing scales on the piano,

    - at adding up long sums, and at searching through books and papers to find information and mistakes

    -Some people with AS can mimic voices if they are scripted, even just slightly..

    ~~~movies based on asperger syndrome~~~
    -Adam(2009)

    Mozart and the whale(2005)

    My name is Khan


    note:different people may have different symptoms not necessary that every symptoms should match with every aspie.

    please don't decide by just reading this weather you are aspie or not..its not official symptoms manual..!! at least half symptoms should match for aspergers criteria[/color]

    please help me to find such a people and be a part of my community where aspie meet each others and share your experience

    don't take as a curse just think it is God gift and it has many advantage..don't worry about it and some people says that its happen due to mobile,pc,internet but see i'm not just talking about social difficulty i'm also talking that they have sensory problem,eye contact problem and my advice to search on google .........
    plz comment here if your nature match with above signs

    plz who have problem just pm me bcoz i need your help also and search about it on GOOGLE..
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    Jhomes i respect you and your this post is very very informative and should be helpful to many people.

    But please do change the colored and fancy fonts to the default (black) ones, it distracts alot of people who have problems regarding eyes.(including me)..

    Thanks, hope you dont mind.
    Site from home gaya bhad mein... AIrtel se bolo FUP band kare.. BSNl se bolo 3G signal do!!!!>: (

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    Quote Originally Posted by mickey View Post
    Jhomes i respect you and your this post is very very informative and should be helpful to many people.

    But please do change the colored and fancy fonts to the default (black) ones, it distracts alot of people who have problems regarding eyes.(including me)..

    Thanks, hope you dont mind.
    sorry i'm new here so i don't know..now changing it to fully black wait..

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    Dont worry if you cannot edit your post some moderator or the admin himself will do..

    its all ok. i am looking for more such informative posts from you

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    I've edited, just want to aware people about it thats why...in western country most of people know about it..hope it will help indian people who have aspergers syndrome...

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    its a very good article.. i must rep you..

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    Quote Originally Posted by mickey View Post
    its a very good article.. i must rep you..
    thanx for reputing!

    I'll be much happy if you will aware people about it bcoz its very difficult life for aspie..i'm one of them!

    do you have this problem??

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    Yes.. some points are close..

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    but overall, my problem is mostly with opposite sexes. old aged people. teachers..

    i was quite jolly to most others..

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    i have one friend who has just same features as you wrote here..

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    Quote Originally Posted by mickey View Post
    i have one friend who has just same features as you wrote here..
    ok..tell him/her about it..and don't judge by this only bcoz this thread made by me!!..google will help more about it i think..

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    i think its better to tell their parents so that they can work on it..

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    I have same problems like.
    1.I not talk with somebody with eye contact.
    2.I hate parties,not go to any. and don't like loud sound from surrounding.
    3.love to wear 1-2 shirts always.except that not wear any other shirts.
    4. I have selective friends but they use me as I am silent boy.
    5.love pets, cat and dog where as not like human baby
    6.always fear,tension, thinking, ashame.
    7.want to live like others but unable to change myself.
    8.always I stuck in home and became home sicker.
    and always I think lots and many things comes on my mind.
    either I am intelligent among all or a dumb.
    don't know
    is I am also suffering from this disease??
    how to cure. I want to change myself how to do that.
    sometimes feel life is waste and societ comes in my.mind not stable always in different moods.
    what to do any cure.
    thanks

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    @Anil

    Forums are not a place to self diagnose and decide that you have a disease. If you don't feel good about yourself go see a doctor and they will refer you to the appropriate specialist if need be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Admin View Post
    @Anil

    Forums are not a place to self diagnose and decide that you have a disease. If you don't feel good about yourself go see a doctor and they will refer you to the appropriate specialist if need be.
    sorry but at least we can interact using forum and its not necessary that you have to show doctor..and i also want to say that "ASPERGER'S SYNDROME IS NOT A DISEASE, IT'S JUST DIFFERENT PERSONALITY! "
    Last edited by jhomes; 01-30-12 at 10:01 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anilsethi04 View Post
    I have same problems like.
    1.I not talk with somebody with eye contact.
    2.I hate parties,not go to any. and don't like loud sound from surrounding.
    3.love to wear 1-2 shirts always.except that not wear any other shirts.
    4. I have selective friends but they use me as I am silent boy.
    5.love pets, cat and dog where as not like human baby
    6.always fear,tension, thinking, ashame.
    7.want to live like others but unable to change myself.
    8.always I stuck in home and became home sicker.
    and always I think lots and many things comes on my mind.
    either I am intelligent among all or a dumb.
    don't know
    is I am also suffering from this disease??
    how to cure. I want to change myself how to do that.
    sometimes feel life is waste and societ comes in my.mind not stable always in different moods.
    what to do any cure.
    thanks
    see, this is not actually disease and not judge only by this thread, if you really want to know more about it then search about it on internet.

    and we can improve our social skills but unfortunately its lifelong problem..you may experienced that when we try to copy normal people's behavior but always fail...I've made this thread only for information purpose but you can get more info. through internet..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Admin View Post
    @Anil

    Forums are not a place to self diagnose and decide that you have a disease. If you don't feel good about yourself go see a doctor and they will refer you to the appropriate specialist if need be.
    yes, one should not self diagnose but they can just discuss and know better?

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    Great ! Now we have Resident Psycho Analyst consulting free between midnight to 4 am.

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    He is not a psychoanalyst. He has aspergers himself, so he has what you can call inside information on the topic, and he just wants to help others like him.
    And yes, I got the sarcasm .

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    you mean they are trying to create an environment here??

    i was surprised no wiki article on this issue if it was so much documented:P

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    I'm not sure if I understand mickey's response clearly, but here's the wikipedia article -
    Asperger syndrome - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    Also,
    Asperger syndrome - Simple English Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    And from Hindi wikipedia - http://hi.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E0%A4%...A5%8B%E0%A4%AE


    I'm not sure what you mean by creating an environment. Can you elaborate?

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    ohh sorry i wrote aspheger like something else so it didnt show on wiki..
    thanks for the links..

    no, you said he is writing at midnight, what it means?? i also replied him in midnight tooo.. i meant if he is advertising his stuff, like that..

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    Oh that is what you mean. No I didn't say that, tolkapiam said that he is writing in midnight. I know jhomes from past few months, he is a 20 year old student, and he is not advertising any products

    Actually I didn't give my proper introduction here, I should have done that first. I'm Dhawal from Ahmedabad, I'm a web designer. I have aspergers syndrome, I found out about it 6 years ago. Jhomes discovered only few months ago when his friend told him. He is very dedicated to the cause of spreading awareness about aspergers, so that other people don't suffer like we did before. But we don't know how to tell people about it.

    If you or anyone in this forum can give us any ideas, we would be very grateful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mickey View Post
    ohh sorry i wrote aspheger like something else so it didnt show on wiki..
    thanks for the links..

    no, you said he is writing at midnight, what it means?? i also replied him in midnight tooo.. i meant if he is advertising his stuff, like that..
    no bro..its just information purpose only...i'm not advertising anything here even i haven't used any link here..

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    Quote Originally Posted by jhomes View Post
    no bro..its just information purpose only...i'm not advertising anything here even i haven't used any link here..
    Actually don't you think, you should add some links. Like wikipedia article, and aspie-quiz so that people who have doubt whether they have aspergers or not, some of their doubt will be cleared?

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