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Don't you think they need some advices on not to start a relationship at a very early age?
Young teens What are your opinions about young teens starting to indulge in opposite sex relationships?
Don't you think they need some advices on not to start a relationship at a very early age?
Last edited by jhellie_baby; 09-29-08 at 10:01 PM.
they shd, but i feel let them do what they want, u cant teach them evry thing , u just hav to learn certain things the hard way.
Recently I had been to a mall (City Central, Chennai). Most of the couples I saw were very young (i guess,they must be studying in school).
I dont understand why is there a need to such a relation @ such an young age...They aren't matured enough...to know what is right & what is wrong...
May be they them self dunno what they are doing....
Do you guys think movies are one of the reason for this,bcoz here in south we have a lot of movies where the hero plays a character of a student....& then the hero sees a girl,goes behind her,then they fall in love...
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When you say 'young' what exact age are you talking about ?
14~18Originally Posted by vishnus89
when you say young what exact age are you talking about ?
What's the Big deal ? Why would you say its Bad ?
i think movies do have a great influence on the young generation and its obvious they going to do what they show in movies and like you said if its especially showing college students in love and in relationships. I teens should not get involved in relations this early, i mean they have the rest of their lives for that and during studying times its important not to drift away as that time wont come again and the student times are when one can work hard to make something out of their lives.
Something like 5 years ago i saw a young school girl at a complex with her boyfriend who was much older than her, she went to the loos got changed out of her school clothes and wen off with him and that too in the morning hours of 10am, so she was bunking to be with this guy, quite bad!
Its bad cause there is a time for things, and teens are too young, if they get themselves into relationships at that age when are they going to concentrate on their future, and the thing is that most teens in relations go to extreme, bunk school, lie to their parents and do other things which all result in their life going down and them doing things they shouldn't do. Im not saying being in a relationship is bad, but there is an age too which i think starts from 18.What's the Big deal ? Why would you say its Bad ?
Every fruits takes it own time to Ripen.
Raw fruits should not be plucked from tree.
You guys always love goin against nature knowin that the results will not be good..... just for sake of development, progress, the (economically, psychologically, physically CRASHED) western world.
This is DOOM. This is Kalyug.
I feel even 18 a bit early....First plan for the future & then get into the relationship...Bcos...what ever they plan & become will feed that relationship.
And now a days how many of those relationships are Genuine.
Most of them are just for timepass....Its a show off to say that I have boy/girl friend.....
Use your imagination. Can we change the flow of the river with a stick.
We can't change other people.
The best we can do is change ourself to match the everyone else.
Yes. On 2 Primary conditionsCan we change the flow of the river using a stick.
1) No water should be there
2) Its should not be monsoon
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Oh.......I forgot you are lovelyMe.
I was serious(no need for doctor though) Okay.
its easy to say this and what we actually think, but the influence of others changes what teens do, and when they will see that their friends or other around them are in a relation they will want to be in a relation too no matter what it takes, like you said its just for time pass and also to look cool in front of other people.
We can share our opinions and say its wrong but at the end of the day its difficult to explain this to the teens especially those who are in a relation ship, what we can do bring our children up to understand this better and make them know what the right age for relationships is as upbringing has a lot to do with what teens do and don't do, but we cant control what others do!
Oh.......I forgot you are lovelyMe.
I was serious(no need for doctor though) Okay.
Arey yaar... dont be serious so early in the day !!! We still have lot more hours to go !!!
This Guy is not letting me get serious. :lol: :lol: :lol:
Last edited by Archer; 09-30-08 at 12:58 PM.
Maybe like 13 or 14 years old. That's too young for a relationship. Why should they start dating in an early age? What is to hurry anyways..When you say 'young' what exact age are you talking about ?
if a young teen is falling in relationship then its not bad till the time he/she try to behave mature and go for any physical relation, i think getting involved in physical relation is wrong for young teen apart from that falling in relationship is not that bad.
As we were talking about Live in reations, so just like that only these kids or young teens got guts to show and express what they feel.
Just try to be honest here and think few years back when you was between 13~18, how many times you felt curious about other sex and about the new things which you discoverd at that age. I still remember my all classmates use to feel shy talking about things but they use to read about all in closed rooms due to restrictions of society.
Today these young teens are aready aware about all this and already exposed to media so it's normal and something exciting for them
I totally agree with that.:14:if a young teen is falling in relationship then its not bad till the time he/she try to behave mature and go for any physical relation, i think getting involved in physical relation is wrong for young teen apart from that falling in relationship is not that bad.
As we were talking about Live in reations, so just like that only these kids or young teens got guts to show and express what they feel.
Just try to be honest here and think few years back when you was between 13~18, how many times you felt curious about other sex and about the new things which you discoverd at that age. I still remember my all classmates use to feel shy talking about things but they use to read about all in closed rooms due to restrictions of society.
Today these young teens are aready aware about all this and already exposed to media so it's normal and something exciting for them
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Young teens certainly need some advices.But its hard to give them advices too.It is totally hard to make them understand.Only way which could help them best is through experience.
If thats the case the what was the point of this discussion.
"Leave the world as it is". huh..............:001_rolleyes:
There is a huge generational gap(Read mentality/attitude ) between today's teens and their guardians . I have seen that most of the teens who go against the rules dont have a strong parent-child relationship ... this makes them rely more on themselves than their parents ... obviously it ll lead to undesirable consequences .... I think the fault is as much as on the parents as the teens themselves .... parents should try to understand the changing minds of teens ... agreed its a monumental task .......but hey ! they r ur children ....
yeh true their should be mutual understanding between parents and children, but then should be a line drawn too.
For example its ok to hang around with boys but the relationships part should be kept till a little later when kids are matured enough to understand it, at a young age its just infatuation and looks which attract the opposite sex.
What makes kids go beyond what their parents say is when their parents restrict them to normal things, like to girls they say you cant talk to boys you can not go out with them, if most parents are ok with the mixing of boys and girls then i don't think the kids would push themselves into relationships and hide things from their parents.
Ive also seen that children who get into relationships at a very young age then later on don't understand the meaning of them, as they would think its normal to move from one person to another.
Like i have also mentioned before when teens go into relationships it diverts their minds and it does affect their education, and education is something which is best done at the right age once education is over, well the tough part of education they can then go into relationships. They have a long life ahead of them so why rush into relationships only at the age of 14 or so.
If thats the case the what was the point of this discussion.
"Leave the world as it is". huh..............:001_rolleyes:
True.. That is the reason i stopped commenting on relationship...
I thought that even if i comment.... what different will it make ??
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