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jhellie_baby

What are your opinions about young teens starting to indulge in opposite sex relationships?

Don't you think they need some advices on not to start a relationship at a very early age?

sb21pro

they shd, but i feel let them do what they want, u cant teach them evry thing , u just hav to learn certain things the hard way.

Rameshjeee

Recently I had been to a mall (City Central, Chennai). Most of the couples I saw were very young (i guess,they must be studying in school).
I dont understand why is there a need to such a relation @ such an young age...They aren't matured enough...to know what is right & what is wrong...
May be they them self dunno what they are doing....

Do you guys think movies are one of the reason for this,bcoz here in south we have a lot of movies where the hero plays a character of a student....& then the hero sees a girl,goes behind her,then they fall in love...

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Archer

When you say 'young' what exact age are you talking about ?

Rameshjeee

14~18

Archer

What's the Big deal ? Why would you say its Bad ?

Preeti_20

i think movies do have a great influence on the young generation and its obvious they going to do what they show in movies and like you said if its especially showing college students in love and in relationships. I teens should not get involved in relations this early, i mean they have the rest of their lives for that and during studying times its important not to drift away as that time wont come again and the student times are when one can work hard to make something out of their lives.
Something like 5 years ago i saw a young school girl at a complex with her boyfriend who was much older than her, she went to the loos got changed out of her school clothes and wen off with him and that too in the morning hours of 10am, so she was bunking to be with this guy, quite bad!

Its bad cause there is a time for things, and teens are too young, if they get themselves into relationships at that age when are they going to concentrate on their future, and the thing is that most teens in relations go to extreme, bunk school, lie to their parents and do other things which all result in their life going down and them doing things they shouldn't do. Im not saying being in a relationship is bad, but there is an age too which i think starts from 18.

DZire

Every fruits takes it own time to Ripen.

Raw fruits should not be plucked from tree.

You guys always love goin against nature knowin that the results will not be good..... just for sake of development, progress, the (economically, psychologically, physically CRASHED) western world.

This is DOOM. This is Kalyug.

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Rameshjeee

I feel even 18 a bit early....First plan for the future & then get into the relationship...Bcos...what ever they plan & become will feed that relationship.
And now a days how many of those relationships are Genuine.
Most of them are just for timepass....Its a show off to say that I have boy/girl friend.....

Archer

Use your imagination. Can we change the flow of the river with a stick.
We can't change other people.
The best we can do is change ourself to match the everyone else.