Thread: Ex-love: U learnt anything from that Relation?

The other day, not so long ago, ahem , actually yesterday , I was updating my profile on orkut... When I hit upon, "from my past relationships I learnt" I was like, wow thats a neat one... Never paid much attention to it anyway when i was creating my profile... But now that it set me thinking, I can really think of so much that my relationships taught me... So here they are in no particular order:

-Love is not enough in a relationship

-Communication is priceless

-Relationships take a lot of energy from everyone, and sometimes they just arent sustainable

- Sex is often a canary in my relationship at this age... Decrease in sexual intimacy always spells doom

- There is nothing to understand when you break up... Just walk away with as much of your sanity intact as possible

- Nobody deserves abuse (physical/verbal/psychological/emotional)

- If someone changes in a big way right after you get into a realationship, start thinking how to break up... He/she is not the same person you thought you knew

- Some things are worth the possibility of a broken heart (I've been thru it, I know it, for sure.)

- Too Many expectations kill a relationship

- Geographical proximity is essential

- People are neither projects nor goals... Dont try to achieve them

- If you are somebody's second choice, dont bother ( I truly believe in this)

- Go slow and steady in a relationship... Rushing in a relationship will have its own repercussions

- The ultimate test of a relationship is to hold hands at the time of disagreement

And i'm still learning... Each day all of us learn something new in our relationships... Its an ongoing process... I've seen people changing overnite, people cringing, people obsessing, people pining and what not have you... So all you guys and gals out there, let me know what you learnt from your relationships... Waiting for comments...

u sound politically right,
but im sure u urself have/will not follow/followed at least half those rules, if not all, at some point or the other.

Well, I just realized them... And yeah... it seems I'm currently following half of them... but would like to improve on my said points in future...
hav u learnt anything from ur past relations(if had any)? if yes, plz share with us...

excuse.... nmy:
can i come in please

I got a signature about love, please check :lol:

darkness ?
darkness???

thats either a very intense line or a very corny one.
i just cant figure out which!

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

excuse.... nmy:
can i come in please

I got a signature about love, please check :lol:

Yeah smoothie... sure... shout whatever u've to say...

Originally Posted by itsmemad

Yeah smoothie... sure... shout whatever u've to say...

i already said mate, check it again

Originally Posted by Alexina

thats either a very intense line or a very corny one.
i just cant figure out which!

For me there is a naughty meaning... now what do you think

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

For me there is a naughty meaning... now what do you think

I think this is the point were i should stop thinkin or rather stop voicing my thoughts.

Originally Posted by Alexina

I think this is the point were i should stop thinkin or rather stop voicing my thoughts.

i think i need to laugh like a devil now...
bwaha ha ha ha ha :lol:

Originally Posted by itsmemad

The other day, not so long ago, ahem , actually yesterday people pining and what not have you... So all you guys and gals out there, let me know what you learnt from your relationships... Waiting for comments...

YOU 'VE SHOT THE BULLS EYE !!
I REALLY LIKED THAT. REP FOR YOU (...)

The only thing is that you dont need to follow 100% of these. Following 50% is great untill unless you have these thoughts out of your own mind. This means you know them or you consider them.

Bina aag dhuaan nahi hota.

(ps I think i'll have to rep admin before i do it for you...)

Well, thanks buddy... In this relationships section especially... I find ur thoughts very similar to mine so far...

@Admin

U promised that u will do something about REP system very soon... I'm losing precious points here... :32:

Well some say that you have to be in previous relationships to learn from them, but i dont think this is true.

A close friend of mine was never in a relationship before and she found someone and she got married to him and they are both fine. The same was for her husband too he too was not in a relationship before in his life and married his first gf.

Although on some notes i know a few people who have been in previous relations, and some of them learn and some just over look things!

Thats true... There is no need to be in a relation before marriage... just for the sake of learning things... And ur second point is also correct... that some learn.. and some don't...
but I guess, u knowingly or unknowingly avoided the question of this thread...

Comeon gals... none of u had opportunity to learn something from ur past relation? Give us a female version... :thumbup1:

What i'll do is that i'll ask a few females around and post it for you Mad....
U may too do the same while the girls are thinking....

Yeah... we can do that... but who cares... I'm happy to listen to guys experiences as well... and I won't deny gals from enjoying a peep show in here either...

Things I learnt from my ex-love(r(s)) may not be appropriate for this forum ;-)

Farce
You make me feel as if you've never even spoke to your Ex-love !!

Originally Posted by lovelyMe

Farce
You make me feel as if you've never even spoke to your Ex-love !!

I am not sure I understand your reply,
especially with two conflicting emoticons ;-)

-F

mind bending words from all of ya. now, what i learned frm x-lov,
" HELP ME MOTHER MERCY. I WILL NOT DO IT AGAIN. "

Originally Posted by farce

Things I learnt from my ex-love(r(s)) may not be appropriate for this forum ;-)

Originally Posted by farce

I am not sure I understand your reply,
especially with two conflicting emoticons ;-)

-F

i mean.. its clear that you've learnt somethin but dont find it appropriate to post.. well my question was did you ever speak to your ex-love or were busy learning only ??

Originally Posted by lovelyMe

i mean.. its clear that you've learnt somethin but dont find it appropriate to post.. well my question was did you ever speak to your ex-love or were busy learning only ??

I see, well some were only talk and some no time for any talk ;-)

Originally Posted by farce

I see, well some were only talk and some no time for any talk ;-)

Originally Posted by DZire

Farce
You make me feel as if you've never even spoke to your Ex-love !!

Conflicting emoticons :lol:

Comical

Originally Posted by DZire

i mean.. its clear that you've learnt somethin but dont find it appropriate to post.. well my question was did you ever speak to your ex-love or were busy learning only ??

oooooooooooooooooooooh .....Naughty Naughty

Originally Posted by farce

I see, well some were only talk and some no time for any talk ;-)

I dont think u caught his drift yet ... He s communicating at a different frequency :devil:

What have i learnt ?

Some bones are best left untouched in its resting place[its a little philosophical]........
Misunderstandings which arise due to a lack of communications is the root of most problems in a relationship.........

ye ex love kya hota hai :sad:

Are u asking y there is an X love ?
or did i misunderstand u?

Cause without X there is no Y love or Z love