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    you mean to say that a good schedule na

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    Yeah... Thats damn kool schedule... In bachelor life... I would love to work in that schedule...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Thats so correct... Nuclear families sometimes find it hard to maintain cordial relations... Some people have difficulty dealing with other people and such people will face problems whichever way they go...

    I've decided to vote on joint family now... Where is ur vote gonna be?
    I think i too will vote for a joint family now!

    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Yeah... Thats damn kool schedule... In bachelor life... I would love to work in that schedule...
    Your talking as if your married..........are you?
    Last edited by Preeti_20; 22nd October 2008 at 06:29 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeti_20 View Post

    Your talking as if your married..........are you?
    He is married in his own world.

    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    yup archer... u extracted the point
    I am glad someone understood my points.

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    previously maternal grandpa (expired in 99)
    Last edited by Archer; 22nd October 2008 at 07:21 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post

    what was the rolled eyes for archer??
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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    what was the rolled eyes for archer??
    Sorry! Felt like a joke when you said expired just like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeti_20 View Post
    I think i too will vote for a joint family now!

    Your talking as if your married..........are you?
    Thanks for the vote.. We r leading now!

    Noooooooooo.... I'm not married... And don't intend to for next 3-4 yrs. at least...

    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    what was the rolled eyes for archer??
    His eyes have become like that since couple of days... :lol:
    Last edited by itsmemad; 22nd October 2008 at 09:08 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Sorry! Felt like a joke when you said expired just like that.
    a person close to me dying is not a joke to me... he was like a father to me... i shudnt hav posted anything here; my fault sry..
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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    a person close to me dying is not a joke to me... he was like a father to me... i shudnt hav posted anything here; my fault sry..
    chill... u did nothing wrong... people learn to choose their words in time... I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt u...

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    U should apologize plz...

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    no need for apologies it was my fault...i get carried away...
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    Sorry! Kaushik.
    Didn't mean to hurt your feelings
    Sorry! Mohit.
    For the comment about marriage.
    Last edited by Archer; 22nd October 2008 at 11:07 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Sorry! Mohit.
    For the comment about marriage.
    :lol: I didn't even notice it... just chill...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    :lol: I didn't even notice it... just chill...
    Thanks! Well everyone have their on problems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Thanks! Well everyone have their on problems.
    n they shud never post em online...
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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    n they shud never post em online...
    I agree

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    n they shud never post em online...
    True.
    But we can do nothing for something which already happened. Can we ?
    Actually we can I am deleting my problems now.

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    now returnin back to topic, this is whats gonna happen if we are gonna live like a bunch (or spend a lot of time together), discussions and in turn issues.... jus like a silly joint family.
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    and for all the offtopic things come to Chaat Thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    now returnin back to topic, this is whats gonna happen if we are gonna live like a bunch (or spend a lot of time together), discussions and in turn issues.... jus like a silly joint family.
    I never realized. This was a good example for joint family issues. Nice finding. We are really like a family now. Aren't we ? RJ/Mohi do you feels like changing your vote now ?
    Last edited by Archer; 22nd October 2008 at 11:30 PM.

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    I think that those who think that joint families are not good to live in, have seen the wrong side to it, or are too young to know about it!

    I'm not saying that nuclear families are bad to adapt, both nuclear and joint families have their good and bad points as i have said before.

    But you have to see both sides of it and also refer to different opinions and experiences from people and not just go on what you have seen! As every person is different and they way families are handled is different, sometimes, well actually 90% of the time it all depends on the head of the family how they are!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    RJ/Mohi do you feels like changing your vote now ?
    No Thanks...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeti_20 View Post
    I think that those who think that joint families are not good to live in, have seen the wrong side to it, or are too young to know about it!

    I'm not saying that nuclear families are bad to adapt, both nuclear and joint families have their good and bad points as i have said before.

    But you have to see both sides of it and also refer to different opinions and experiences from people and not just go on what you have seen! As every person is different and they way families are handled is different, sometimes, well actually 90% of the time it all depends on the head of the family how they are!
    yes i understand that preeti but don't you think in nuclear families we get more space or you can say personal space apart from that you face less quarrels and stuff like that

    may be i am wrong but still i think like that

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    His eyes have become like that since couple of days... :lol:
    since the time he became ARCHER he keeps one eye of his closed for aiming targets...
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    well i ll go for a nuclear family anytime, but if the need arises i dont mind being a bit flexible and including a few more members of the family for a while.
    if its inevitable then yes i wont be stubborn.

    but i personally think it can be hard for two people (married ppl) to get along without issues, so more ppl will only add to the confusion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexina View Post
    well ..... i dont mind being a bit flexible and including a few more members of the family for a while.
    if its inevitable then yes i wont be stubborn.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DZire View Post
    oh Dzire that doesnt mean i ll let my husband have a mistress, if thats the issue thats confusing you

    wat i meant is if its inevitable and i shall agree to live with the parents (either side)
    or let a single sibling stay along, but then again i prefer nuclear families anyday.

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    thanks Alexina for clarifying !!!
    u know this cud have taken away nights of sleep out of sumone !!!!
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    I believe, its always good to have blessings of elders at home... Ofcourse few things like Generation gap will come into play... But doesn't that happening even now, when we are living our bachelor life with them? There are few more questions that will make us take wise decision after our marriage...

    Why we r staying with our family right now?

    Why we don't abandon our parents straight after reaching legal adult age?

    Why to abandon them after marriage when they always stood by us?

    Why do we need more space and privacy when they sacrificed all their space and privacy for us the day we were born?

    They took happiness from our success, they were encouraging in our failure... Why to deprive them from that right after our marriage?

    One of my friend parted ways with his girlfriend when she refused to stay with his family after marriage...

    One of my friend who was in a live in relation with his gf at his parents (they r ultra kool) home... Left his parents just before his marriage recently... Just cuz girl was angry that his mum was worrying about her son's extravagant life-style... They cudn't even wait to marry 1st then separate...

    In both cases LOVE won.... Only time will tell which one was for better...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    One of my friend parted ways with his girlfriend when she refused to stay with his family after marriage...

    One of my friend who was in a live in relation with his gf at his parents (they r ultra kool) home... Left his parents just before his marriage recently... Just cuz girl was angry that his mum was worrying about her son's extravagant life-style... They cudn't even wait to marry 1st then separate...

    In both cases LOVE won.... Only time will tell which one was for better...
    1st case - Give him a Rep from me !!!

    I guess in second case love lost..and not only love but relation, responsibility, sincerety everything lost. ... love of parents for their son was much older than that of GFs.... secondly (Take it too seriously) time will not tell which was for better....its death of a person which tells what life did the person lived !!! and after death, you cannot regret.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DZire View Post
    I guess in second case love lost..and not only love but relation, responsibility, sincerety everything lost. ... love of parents for their son was much older than that of GFs.... secondly (Take it too seriously) time will not tell which was for better....its death of a person which tells what life did the person lived !!! and after death, you cannot regret.
    Yeah... I think my friend lost everything he had in life that day... but I also believe that both love should have been equal to him... even if his GF was loving him since few yrs... Only problem is that his judgment tilted in her favor too soon without giving it a proper thought, without making it clear that he can't live with one love and abandon other... I do think if a girl can't accept his family, she won't accept his thoughts which he has inherited from his parents but has suppressed them for now...

    And thats right... a person can't regret after death!

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    well one things for sure...
    dont count on your own kids for a joint family..
    so everyone better set aside some cash to go chill at some silent land wen they are really really old.

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    thats right... we sudn't hope that from kids... but will feel good if they live with us...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Yeah... I think my friend lost everything he had in life that day... but I also believe that both love should have been equal to him... even if his GF was loving him since few yrs... Only problem is that his judgment tilted in her favor too soon
    Yeah i may agree that both love are equal if you conside love minus responsibility....
    Parenting has its own associations too.

    Mind got tilted just because the love for GF was more active than the love for Parents, which is quite dormant but not dead.

    By the way what is infatuation ??? Is there a difference between Love and Infatuation ??
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    The difference between infatuation & love is huge... Infatuation is characterized by an unrealistic expectation of blissful passion without positive growth and development... Characterized by a lack of trust, lack of loyalty, lack of commitment, lack of reciprocity, an infatuation is not necessarily foreplay for a love scenario...

    Most people are infatuated with their love partners to a certain degree... People who are in love think of their partners periodically when they are apart (some more than others)...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Characterized by a lack of trust, lack of loyalty, lack of commitment, lack of reciprocity, an infatuation is not necessarily foreplay for a love scenario...
    ...
    Is it only love in waiting ??? What if this lack is removed... there's always an expectation for it.
    Not a foreplay exactly but a ground definately.

    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Most people are infatuated with their love partners to a certain degree...
    I dont really see a difference now... there used to be times, yes.
    Infatuation to love in a single smile / yes / reciprocity..

    I beleive.. Love is never in Haste !! but infatuation is !!
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    >>Is it only love in waiting ???
    Yes & No... It depends person to person...

    >> What if this lack is removed...
    If lack is removed then its all love...

    >>Not a foreplay exactly but a ground definately.
    I agree...

    >>I beleive.. Love is never in Haste !! but infatuation is !!
    Its better if Love isn't in haste... But love can just happen... In many cases it doesn't need reasoning...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Its better if Love isn't in haste... But love can just happen... In many cases it doesn't need reasoning...
    Love cannot be in haste but surely needs reasoning...
    You Can Only Love Something (Someone) You Like !!!
    (Demand / DZire - Availability / Supply Scenario)
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    Quote Originally Posted by DZire View Post
    You Can Only Love Something (Someone) You Like !!!
    except when it is a love-hate relationship

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    No kids allowed here. Okay. I will watch from a distance then. :sad:

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    We went off-topic... good that the kid is back with his online family...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    We went off-topic... good that the kid is back with his online family...
    Okay! I understood. Everyone who voted for Nuclear Family are kids.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Okay! I understood. Everyone who voted for Nuclear Family are kids.
    :no: I said that... cuz u urself referred urself as a kid in ur previous post...

    And smoothvibes has also opted for nuc family... he aint a kid... cuz kids don't drink rum...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    And smoothvibes has also opted for nuc family... he aint a kid... cuz kids don't drink rum...
    See Manish's Signature

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    BTW: I am having coffee.... Black coffee

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    kids don't like black coffee too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    kids don't like black coffee too...
    Well I don't like Milk either.

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    but i like milk in morning before sleeping and coffee after reaching office

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    I have milk twice daily... since I was a child... I don't like tea... I like normal coffee but have it occassionaly...

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    but i like milk in morning before sleeping and coffee after reaching office
    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    I have milk twice daily... since I was a child... I don't like tea... I like normal coffee but have it occassionaly...


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    I used to eat that too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    I used to eat that too...
    Eat Milk.

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    Not milk.. beef..

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Not milk.. beef..
    You don't what vibes to hear that. You know he is Vegetarian.



    Anyway it's a lot cleaner that my head.
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    He has non-veg family members...

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    Mine would look something like this.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Mine would look something like this.

    You like noodles?????

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    You like noodles?????

    -F
    Yes, I do. :lol:

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    yes i am veggie but my dad never miss a chance to grab non veg food

    i am not veg coz i love animals, i am veg coz i hate vegetables :lol:

    just kidding friends, i really don't like eating non veg but i am open for non veg talks
    LOL :lol:

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    We should watch Finding Neverland to understood the importance of remaining a child in some respects. Quite a good movie. ( probably the Depp best one according to me).
    I like Joint family though have currently a nuclear one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Nuclear Family. The less family members there are in the house, less the problems there will be.
    This mean we have no responsibility for our parents.
    More members mean more helping hands.

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