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Joint Family Vs. Nucleus Family

  1. #121
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    Quote Originally Posted by baldev View Post
    More members mean more helping hands.
    If each member of the family thinks likes this, then there is no problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    If each member of the family thinks likes this, then there is no problem.
    Joint family concept will return very soon.Nuclear family is end product of so called western industrial revolution.
    To consume there products.In joint family we can share 1 thing in whole family for example a fridge ,1 phone line , 1 electric meter and many other things.IN nuclear family each family will buy such things.

    Sorry for bad english.

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    I can't see the latest posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Punch Farce View Post
    I can't see the latest posts.

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    Why? I am abler to see all the posts upto yours - which is the last!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    May be u r right... I'm totally confused at this... I'll have my own family in few yrs... And its gonna be hard for me to leave my parents at old age... Even my GF is single child of her parents... I want to take care of them all... but lets see what the future has in store... Meanwhile I'll just keep a watch on this thread... To know in general... which option will be better...
    Hi,

    Happy to read this reply..
    I think every unmarried man will say like this.. After marriage they will change, they will take care of their parents only..
    if he married a working woman, he will get her salary also.. she cant even spend a single paisa to her parents..
    There are exceptions also,
    only 2% of them will take care of girl's parents also.

    I wish u will also join in that 2%

    Thanks

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    In joint family, usually ego arises..
    Everyone has to adjust with family.. But all of them think, the newly married girl has to accept everything, she shouldn't talk, etc...,

    We can try to change them..
    But watever u do, some people wont change..
    That time, u hav to take a decision..

    I have experience in joint family.
    Instead of staying in joint family with quarrels, better to stay in a nuclear family with peace.
    This is my suggestion..

    Again it may vary from person to person..

    There is a saying,
    God cannot be eveywhere, so he created "Mother"
    Devil cannot be everywhere, so he created "Mother-in-law"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Guest View Post
    In joint family, usually ego arises..
    Everyone has to adjust with family.. But all of them think, the newly married girl has to accept everything, she shouldn't talk, etc...,

    We can try to change them..
    But watever u do, some people wont change..
    That time, u hav to take a decision..

    I have experience in joint family.
    Instead of staying in joint family with quarrels, better to stay in a nuclear family with peace.
    This is my suggestion..

    Again it may vary from person to person..

    There is a saying,
    God cannot be eveywhere, so he created "Mother"
    Devil cannot be everywhere, so he created "Mother-in-law"
    All mothers in law are not devils!!
    It is strange that a woman who is a God to a man becomes a devil to his wife!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kangaroo View Post
    All mothers in law are not devils!!
    It is strange that a woman who is a God to a man becomes a devil to his wife!!
    Yes. I already told, there are exceptions.
    Very rare.
    Usually mother-in-law will get ego.
    Watever daughter-in-law does, she will always finds fault in it.

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    Nuclear family is the best.

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    Nuclear family... why?
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    [QUOTE=itsmemad;58896]

    As I said earlier... The joint family is ideal for the woman who wants to work as well as have a family... Working women have SOME1 2 LEAV THEIR CHILDREN with when they are away at work, rather than leaving their children in a creche or with servants... They can be assured that their children are being looked after by people who care for them almost as much as they do themselves... After all, as they say, "blood is thicker than water!"

    Also, children need not have to go out of the home to seek companionship... They always have their cousins or to play with... Daughter inlaws of home can SHARE FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES N SOCIAL DUTIES... They take turns cooking, dropping the children to school and baby-sitting...
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    hey there im sindhu...jus a passerby,im 16, ive been raised in a nuclear family n tht was ideal 4 us cuz my moms had differences wid my aunt n grandparents n she's t emotional drama type(no worries v stil visit vry often)...n shes a housewife but also helps dad wid business(u'v made a gud point bout it being CONVINIENT 2 liv wid mor family but workin moms can handle fine wid help from contributin husbands or arrangaments wid close-frnds havin kids)

    honestly i wud hav liked livin in a joint family but i noe i wudnt b vry com4table...not much privacy n also i cudnt b myself completly in my own home n wud feel suppressed as i cant express my personal veiws 2 elders(traditional thinkin v/s modern) widout dem thinkin tht i speak only 2 contradict dem!!

    the ideal siuation 4 me wud b a SEMI-JOINT FAMILY...lik separate home but livin really close by....i think dis wud solve al probs lik in-law diffrences, fights, handelling children, n still b close 2 family

    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Yeah... I think my friend LOST EVERYTHING he had in life that day... but I also believe that both love should have been equal to him... even if his GF was loving him since few yrs... Only problem is that his judgment tilted in her favor too soon without giving it a proper thought, without making it clear that he can't live with one love and abandon other... I do think if a GIRL CAN'T ACCEPT his family, she won't accept his thoughts which he has inherited from his parents but has suppressed them for now...

    And thats right... a person can't regret after death!


    y is it tht al of u blame UR DILEMMA of livin in a joint family or nuclear on basis tht EVERYTHIN WIL DEPEND ON HOW T WIFE WIL B WID IN'LAWS???
    or tht SHE DOESNT WANT 2 LIV WID HUSBANDS PARENTS???
    t wife is goin out of her way 2 liv wid practically strangers 2 respect her husband wen he doesnt even consider LIVIN WID HER FAMILY???

    4 ALL U GUYS OUT DER-1st ask urselves wud u go n wid wid ur patners parents 4ever???


    oh n F.Y.I living in a nuclear family doesnt mean tht ur ABANDONIN UR PARENTS!!!! n IN MOST CASES livin in a joint family means ur forcin ur wife 2 abandon hers
    Last edited by newbiee; 13th July 2010 at 06:39 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    ^^ it also depends upon the culture that you come from...

    if you are raised in an advanced family you will never get troubles like that... joint families are a boon not just to woman but also to the kids and everyone else.. kids are brought up normal, they can see their grandparents and so the grands will do in their late days.
    similary the kids will be afraid of doing the wrong things in front of them(atleast feel ashamed)..

    woman gets easy when she feels more secure as there are many people to protect her and not just husband.. now if she is not feeling safe in a family of his brother - in - law and papa-in-law, she must not feel safe anywhere..

    kids will get more of brothers and sisters to play with.. that will make them more active if they are single children of their parents.. i can bet that a boy from Mumbai or Bangalore who lives in his "nucleus" at a place somewhere there in the 20th floor will be less active than a kid from a joint/ "atom" family... they can do much chutter putter..



    its also about necessity sometimes,. some people will have to leave their parents in home because to find some job in an outside city and thats what keeps the laying stone of a nuclear family or maybe some inbuilt family tensions may arise.. but thats all i think is an abnormal situation..


    in short.. if you have your own "gang" its much better than paid ones..

    and now a quiz... since the thread starter picked the word "Nucleus" for nuclear.. i have this question from Science , "Atom Structure" that my elder brother just asked me some days off now..


    Which is the Father-son duo to have won nobles for their atomic structure theories..

    the father has won for his thoery, while the son gave antithesis on his own father's theory and has won noble...
    take time, and please dont look onto google and map here.. _i_
    Last edited by mickey; 13th July 2010 at 07:01 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost
    job takes the child away.

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