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StarK · 10-22-08, 12:34 AM

U shud know preeti that Issues are directly proportional to the no. of people around...

smoothvibes · 10-22-08, 12:35 AM

i am with Nuclear Family and i really support this idea till the time it is not causing any issues to your parents or grand parents.

Archer · 10-22-08, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Thats not true, as there are educated and modern people who are fine living in a joint family and enjoying the fact of being in a joint family, so i can not agree with you on that. It may be that you are giving your experiences, but you got to remember its not always the same with everyone! With the working families it works out better to be in a joint family, so no one really gets in your way and you have your own time and space!

Yeah! I already said it's my thoughts. I have seen arguments even in Nuclear Families about this subject (about living together with other members). Isn't it better to separate the family early than doing it after a fight. That's all I am saying. Family is family no matter where the live. And the more distant they live the more we like them. And family is just for show now a days. Why take a risk for something like this ?

BTW. RJ you have my repo for starting this thread.

StarK · 10-22-08, 12:50 AM

+100 on that archer...

itsmemad · 10-22-08, 12:57 AM

Thanks Archer... Seems everybody having fun here...lol.. I'm keeping an eye... with some comments from my side too...

As I said earlier... The joint family is ideal for the woman who wants to work as well as have a family... Working women have someone to leave their children with when they are away at work, rather than leaving their children in a creche or with servants... They can be assured that their children are being looked after by people who care for them almost as much as they do themselves... After all, as they say, "blood is thicker than water!"

Also, children need not have to go out of the home to seek companionship... They always have their cousins or to play with... Daughter inlaws of home can share family responsibilities and social duties... They take turns cooking, dropping the children to school and baby-sitting...

Not every family is a happy family even if its nuclear... What is most important is the atmosphere in a joint family... If there is a congenial atmosphere in a joint family, it can be a virtue...

Archer · 10-22-08, 01:04 AM

What kind of family you live in. Nuclear Family or Joint Family?
I like to hear everyone answer if possible. I used to live in a Joined family system. Now I live in a Nuclear Family system. Just wanted to make sure everybody is on the same page here.

smoothvibes · 10-22-08, 01:21 AM

I live in Nuclear Family

itsmemad · 10-22-08, 01:25 AM

My grandparents have always lived with us... but none other... if u call that a joint family... then, I'm still living in joint... My mother is a working woman... And she used to leave the responsibility of me n my bro at my grandparents when she was out to earn...

But there were times mum was really pissed off... Grandparents used to undermine mum's authority because they felt that they have more experience in raising children... They used to pass adverse remarks to mum in front of me n my bro like, "You don't know how to handle children" - As a result, mum felt suppressed, depressed and frustrated...She, in turn, took her frustration out on her own children...lol .. Those were funny days...

But now she doesn't regret... She says though it was torcherous sometimes... But shez really grateful to my Grandparents who took care of her children more than she could herself...

Archer · 10-22-08, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by itsmemad

My grandparents have always lived with us... but none other... if u call that a joint family... then, I'm still living in joint... My mother is a working woman... And she used to leave the responsibility of me n my bro at my grandparents when she was out to earn...

But there were times mum was really pissed off... Grandparents used to undermine mum's authority because they felt that they have more experience in raising children... They used to pass adverse remarks to mum in front of me n my bro like, "You don't know how to handle children" - As a result, mum felt suppressed, depressed and frustrated...She, in turn, took her frustration out on her own children...lol .. Those were funny days...

You call that funny.

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Originally Posted by itsmemad

But now she doesn't regret... She says though it was torcherous sometimes... But shez really grateful to my Grandparents who took care of her children more than she could herself...

I am also grateful to my Grandma(my mother's mother) for taking care of me. That's one reason why I don't joined family. I mean seeing them suffering in the middle of everyone's family problem is simply painful.

StarK · 10-22-08, 01:36 AM

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itsmemad · 10-22-08, 01:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Archer

You call that funny.

I meant I like being beaten by my mother... Sometimes when she was kicking my ass... I stood with all my hands up... And took all the beating with laugh... and shouted "I'm He Man... I've power of Universe"...(He man was my fav. cartoon character at that time... and those were his lines)...

U can call that my arrogance... But I guess, I took pleasure in giving comfort to my mum by letting her take all her frustrations out on me...

Archer · 10-22-08, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by itsmemad

U can call that my arrogance... But I guess, I took pleasure in giving comfort to my mum by letting her take all her frustrations out on me...

Well if you put it that way.

Preeti_20 · 10-22-08, 01:58 AM

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Originally Posted by StarryKnight

U shud know preeti that Issues are directly proportional to the no. of people around...

Not true, i have seen large number of people live in one family and they are all fine, and issues are in every household whether in a nuclear or joint family!

Archer · 10-22-08, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Not true, i have seen large number of people live in one family and they are all fine, and issues are in every household whether in a nuclear or joint family!

Yes! But at least those problems won't affect anyone else if we live as Nuclear Family.

StarK · 10-22-08, 02:01 AM

Well thats not the case with me, if u can see my last post....

yup archer... u extracted the point

itsmemad · 10-22-08, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Preeti_20

issues are in every household whether in a nuclear or joint family!

Thats so correct...

Nuclear families sometimes find it hard to maintain cordial relations... Some people have difficulty dealing with other people and such people will face problems whichever way they go...

I've decided to vote on joint family now... Where is ur vote gonna be?

StarK · 10-22-08, 02:07 AM

but the issues are more in joint families... thats it for me tonite... not feeling too well too... nn folks...

Archer · 10-22-08, 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by StarryKnight

but the issues are more in joint families... thats it for me tonite... not feeling too well too... nn folks...

Me too.
I will find some more obstacles to put in your way. Till then good bye.

smoothvibes · 10-22-08, 02:18 AM

i am living in nuclear family and most of the times i am alone at home coz i work in nite shifts when my parents are at home and they work in day shift when i am at home

so most of the times i see my parents only once or twice in a week

itsmemad · 10-22-08, 02:30 AM

People with ur schedule can live in any family structure...

10-22-08, 01:36 AM	#50
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itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Pleasure drome Posts: 3,514 Rep Power: 10	Thanks Archer... Seems everybody having fun here...lol.. I'm keeping an eye... with some comments from my side too... As I said earlier... The joint family is ideal for the woman who wants to work as well as have a family... Working women have someone to leave their children with when they are away at work, rather than leaving their children in a creche or with servants... They can be assured that their children are being looked after by people who care for them almost as much as they do themselves... After all, as they say, "blood is thicker than water!" Also, children need not have to go out of the home to seek companionship... They always have their cousins or to play with... Daughter inlaws of home can share family responsibilities and social duties... They take turns cooking, dropping the children to school and baby-sitting... Not every family is a happy family even if its nuclear... What is most important is the atmosphere in a joint family... If there is a congenial atmosphere in a joint family, it can be a virtue...

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10-22-08, 01:25 AM	#48
itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Pleasure drome Posts: 3,514 Rep Power: 10	My grandparents have always lived with us... but none other... if u call that a joint family... then, I'm still living in joint... My mother is a working woman... And she used to leave the responsibility of me n my bro at my grandparents when she was out to earn... But there were times mum was really pissed off... Grandparents used to undermine mum's authority because they felt that they have more experience in raising children... They used to pass adverse remarks to mum in front of me n my bro like, "You don't know how to handle children" - As a result, mum felt suppressed, depressed and frustrated...She, in turn, took her frustration out on her own children...lol .. Those were funny days... But now she doesn't regret... She says though it was torcherous sometimes... But shez really grateful to my Grandparents who took care of her children more than she could herself...

10-22-08, 02:01 AM	#55
StarK Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Nayi Dilli Posts: 1,392 Rep Power: 4	Well thats not the case with me, if u can see my last post.... yup archer... u extracted the point

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StarK Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Nayi Dilli Posts: 1,392 Rep Power: 4	but the issues are more in joint families... thats it for me tonite... not feeling too well too... nn folks...

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smoothvibes Aditya Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,914 Rep Power: 11	i am living in nuclear family and most of the times i am alone at home coz i work in nite shifts when my parents are at home and they work in day shift when i am at home so most of the times i see my parents only once or twice in a week

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itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Pleasure drome Posts: 3,514 Rep Power: 10	People with ur schedule can live in any family structure...