Thread: Can friendship survive sex?

i'll say once the line is crossed things will definitely be diff....
most cases the friendship does get messed up, if not ruined.

but yes a lil effort can get u back on track, but i dont think that ll be easy.

once again i would like to say that its not like that, the only thing which matters is your understanding and the way you think, trust me its not a sin or a crime to get involved in it after getting a feel, its just like the other way to show love and care and people please don't mess with other relations here coz i know some people can come up with bright ideas and views like how come it the way to share love or to show care when you can not do it at home or insest or anything like that.

Its just like a normal act which can happen coz you love each other or you care for him/her.

People laugh at me coz i am different
but
i just smile coz they all are same

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

once again i would like to say that its not like that, the only thing which matters is your understanding and the way you think, trust me its not a sin or a crime to get involved in it after getting a feel, its just like the other way to show love and care and people please don't mess with other relations here coz i know some people can come up with bright ideas and views like how come it the way to share love or to show care when you can not do it at home or insest or anything like that.

Its just like a normal act which can happen coz you love each other or you care for him/her.

People laugh at me coz i am different
but
i just smile coz they all are same

Well Said....!!!! I totally agreee wid u!

thanks girl

same same types

Yeah, it seems both of u share very good chemistry... Thats good!

Lol.....!!!!

LOL Chemistry :lol:

Originally Posted by powerdoc

Friends ending up as lovers is really cute.
Has been my dream...

ending a true love is always painfull acording to my experiance........

Originally Posted by amitkool21

if the friend was she than i'll try to start a new relationship if she wants........but if the friend was he than.......no ways man i cant do anything with a guy....

did you read the subject clearly?

"can friendship survive sex?"

The premise is 1. you have a friend and 2. You have had sex with that person

and now the question is can you be friends again.


unless you are bisexual your second point is not applicable ;-)

-F

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i think i have to post my view again



now fine farce bro.........

yes, that is fine with me ;-)

-F

Just started reading the initial post of this thread and the answers given by India Broadband Forum - View Profile: farce suits fine with me too. Incase u r curious about it, here it is : http://www.indiabroadband.net/relati...html#post70689

Originally Posted by farce

did you read the subject clearly?

"can friendship survive sex?"

The premise is 1. you have a friend and 2. You have had sex with that person

and now the question is can you be friends again.


unless you are bisexual your second point is not applicable ;-)

-F

farcey u tryin to explain him wht is the post about in detail......cant it be understood jus by the title.......????

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

farcey u tryin to explain him wht is the post about in detail......cant it be understood jus by the title.......????

theres some misunderstanding happend in me nd farce thats why he tried to explain it......the other posts are deleted from here thats why u cant understand the scene which happened at that time..........???......nd the last post was still there for members to understand that what happened.....

Originally Posted by amitkool21

theres some misunderstanding happend in me nd farce thats why he tried to explain it......the other posts are deleted from here thats why u cant understand the scene which happened at that time..........???......nd the last post was still there for members to understand that what happened.....

now thats a difficult post to understand.

hope the differences were cleared nyways

Originally Posted by Alexina

now thats a difficult post to understand.

hope the differences were cleared nyways

ya that was the main thing which matters........

okie dok......

very good thread ... i think having physical relation with a friend without at all being inclined towards him/her in a different way is not possible.

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

very good thread ... i think having physical relation with a friend without at all being inclined towards him/her in a different way is not possible.

I disagree with such blanket statements. Such things can happen.
Unless you have researched each and every case in the world
and observed that, you cannot say "it is not possible"

-F

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

this is true and i have something to add here, may be f**ckin can make you a man but keeping control on mind makes you a complete man
we need to choose that what we need and what we don't

And the tautology for being a complete woman.... "" "

To make the man again incomplete

Originally Posted by bingbang

And the tautology for being a complete woman.... "" "

To make the man again incomplete

xcuse me???

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

very good thread ... i think having physical relation with a friend without at all being inclined towards him/her in a different way is not possible.

how can u be soo sure....??? btw can u elaborate the different way?

by different way i mean - feelings like love, physical attraction etc ... having physical relation with only a friend all of a sudden is really wierd

It is not wierd, its beautiful, may be you can take it in different way, like your friend trusts you so much that he/she can share that part or even those moments with you. May be that is the bonding or the depth of friendship.

People say that we can not share each and everything with anyone but a friend is someone which whome we can share everything so what is this everything in the above line, if you say then you need to mean it.

It is just a human act which come up without any such intentions, if it comes in air then its pious but if you make it with all those intentions then it is incorrect. May be my terms are very complex to understand but that is how i think.

I know every human is not same so thinking depends.

i totally agree wid aadi......!!!

its the kind of relation u share wid ur fren....n how comfortable u r ....!!!! its the best thing tht wud happen....widout any conditions n lots of memories to live all ur life....!!!!

thanks aashaka

yes and i agree that is the best thing which can happen coz after that you know each n everything of your frined, he/she can share his/her each n every moment with you no matter if it is a bad moment or a good one but he/she will not hesitate to share anything with you in any case by which you can share atlease some part of his/her problems or joyful moments.

If your frined is feeling anything about his/her ex relation or something which he/she can not share with parents or anyone else then also you will be there to support your friend or to advice something.

ah never been that situation so cant say much about it.....
people get the real thought about the situation only when they are in it.

hmmm if i was then (just guessing) when something has happened between us means we are very much close to each other & when we both are so comfortable with each other i don't hesitate to go and ask for marriage ........
In that way friendship also remains good & relation also....