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02-03-09, 02:35 PM

by different way i mean - feelings like love, physical attraction etc ... having physical relation with only a friend all of a sudden is really wierd

smoothvibes · 02-03-09, 03:39 PM

It is not wierd, its beautiful, may be you can take it in different way, like your friend trusts you so much that he/she can share that part or even those moments with you. May be that is the bonding or the depth of friendship.

People say that we can not share each and everything with anyone but a friend is someone which whome we can share everything so what is this everything in the above line, if you say then you need to mean it.

It is just a human act which come up without any such intentions, if it comes in air then its pious but if you make it with all those intentions then it is incorrect. May be my terms are very complex to understand but that is how i think.

I know every human is not same so thinking depends.

aashaka_gandhi · 02-03-09, 03:44 PM

i totally agree wid aadi......!!!

its the kind of relation u share wid ur fren....n how comfortable u r ....!!!! its the best thing tht wud happen....widout any conditions n lots of memories to live all ur life....!!!!

smoothvibes · 02-03-09, 03:52 PM

thanks aashaka

yes and i agree that is the best thing which can happen coz after that you know each n everything of your frined, he/she can share his/her each n every moment with you no matter if it is a bad moment or a good one but he/she will not hesitate to share anything with you in any case by which you can share atlease some part of his/her problems or joyful moments.

If your frined is feeling anything about his/her ex relation or something which he/she can not share with parents or anyone else then also you will be there to support your friend or to advice something.

02-18-09, 06:50 PM

ah never been that situation so cant say much about it.....
people get the real thought about the situation only when they are in it.

hmmm if i was then (just guessing) when something has happened between us means we are very much close to each other & when we both are so comfortable with each other i don't hesitate to go and ask for marriage ........

In that way friendship also remains good & relation also....

02-18-09, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by kirankumargb

ah never been that situation so cant say much about it.....
people get the real thought about the situation only when they are in it.

hmmm if i was then (just guessing) when something has happened between us means we are very much close to each other & when we both are so comfortable with each other i don't hesitate to go and ask for marriage ........

In that way friendship also remains good & relation also....

hmm... that sounds good ... but is it really possible to maintain the relationships of love and friendship with a single person simultaneously!

02-18-09, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

hmm... that sounds good ... but is it really possible to maintain the relationships of love and friendship with a single person simultaneously!

at that time cant say its really just friendship, we cross the line of friendship but still call it as friendship thats all, but no harm if both are comfortable with it. many people as i have seen do the friendship for that purpose itself(just to show off its friendship but actually it will be flirting) yet both are happy so no harm....

Punch Farce · 02-18-09, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

hmm... that sounds good ... but is it really possible to maintain the relationships of love and friendship with a single person simultaneously!

Sure, why not.

-F

02-18-09, 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kirankumargb

at that time cant say its really just friendship, we cross the line of friendship but still call it as friendship thats all, but no harm if both are comfortable with it. many people as i have seen do the friendship for that purpose itself(just to show off its friendship but actually it will be flirting) yet both are happy so no harm....

very realistic comments indeed ..

smoothvibes · 02-18-09, 11:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

hmm... that sounds good ... but is it really possible to maintain the relationships of love and friendship with a single person simultaneously!

Yes, for sure.

aashaka_gandhi · 02-20-09, 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

hmm... that sounds good ... but is it really possible to maintain the relationships of love and friendship with a single person simultaneously!

yes y not.....!!!

also there is alot of harmless flirtin happening in the name of frenship this days ......but i guess till the time both frens r ok with eacch others intentions...there shudnt b much of an issue...

02-20-09, 05:26 PM

i doubt how many are really honest about their intensions in such relationships ... i may be getting numbered out here ... everyones replying "sure", "why not" .... but give it a serious thought ...

aashaka_gandhi · 02-20-09, 06:20 PM

again depends on tht individual.....

02-22-09, 07:16 PM

yes as said it surely depends on the individual ...... until both of them dont have any problem its fine ...... if one has some problem then the other should solve it rather than forcing the other person.... if really want to continue the relation then solve it not force it......

aashaka_gandhi · 02-23-09, 03:02 PM

yes when u call it a relationship it is always both ways.....a relationship cannot b forced!

smoothvibes · 02-24-09, 06:59 PM

forced one is not relation its compromise, in fact you can not push or force anyone to stay in any relation and can not keep the person with you by any such means.

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02-03-09, 02:35 PM	#121
saurav_k Guest Posts: n/a	by different way i mean - feelings like love, physical attraction etc ... having physical relation with only a friend all of a sudden is really wierd

02-03-09, 03:39 PM	#122
smoothvibes Aditya Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,914 Rep Power: 11	It is not wierd, its beautiful, may be you can take it in different way, like your friend trusts you so much that he/she can share that part or even those moments with you. May be that is the bonding or the depth of friendship. People say that we can not share each and everything with anyone but a friend is someone which whome we can share everything so what is this everything in the above line, if you say then you need to mean it. It is just a human act which come up without any such intentions, if it comes in air then its pious but if you make it with all those intentions then it is incorrect. May be my terms are very complex to understand but that is how i think. I know every human is not same so thinking depends.

02-03-09, 03:44 PM	#123
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	i totally agree wid aadi......!!! its the kind of relation u share wid ur fren....n how comfortable u r ....!!!! its the best thing tht wud happen....widout any conditions n lots of memories to live all ur life....!!!!

02-03-09, 03:52 PM	#124
smoothvibes Aditya Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,914 Rep Power: 11	thanks aashaka yes and i agree that is the best thing which can happen coz after that you know each n everything of your frined, he/she can share his/her each n every moment with you no matter if it is a bad moment or a good one but he/she will not hesitate to share anything with you in any case by which you can share atlease some part of his/her problems or joyful moments. If your frined is feeling anything about his/her ex relation or something which he/she can not share with parents or anyone else then also you will be there to support your friend or to advice something.

02-18-09, 06:50 PM	#125
kirankumargb Guest Posts: n/a	ah never been that situation so cant say much about it..... people get the real thought about the situation only when they are in it. hmmm if i was then (just guessing) when something has happened between us means we are very much close to each other & when we both are so comfortable with each other i don't hesitate to go and ask for marriage ........ In that way friendship also remains good & relation also....

02-20-09, 05:26 PM	#132
saurav_k Guest Posts: n/a	i doubt how many are really honest about their intensions in such relationships ... i may be getting numbered out here ... everyones replying "sure", "why not" .... but give it a serious thought ...

02-20-09, 06:20 PM	#133
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	again depends on tht individual.....

02-22-09, 07:16 PM	#134
kirankumargb Guest Posts: n/a	yes as said it surely depends on the individual ...... until both of them dont have any problem its fine ...... if one has some problem then the other should solve it rather than forcing the other person.... if really want to continue the relation then solve it not force it......

02-23-09, 03:02 PM	#135
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	yes when u call it a relationship it is always both ways.....a relationship cannot b forced!

02-24-09, 06:59 PM	#136
smoothvibes Aditya Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,914 Rep Power: 11	forced one is not relation its compromise, in fact you can not push or force anyone to stay in any relation and can not keep the person with you by any such means.