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Old 11-22-08, 07:35 PM   #1
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You have an amazing buddy with whom you love hanging out and feel perfectly comfortable with. You just love his/her company and would never want to give up on this friendship, but one fine morning when you wake up, you find him/her sleeping right next to you.

It may not be intentional...but the line has been crossed. So what happens now? Do you go ahead and enter into a relationship with your friend? Or are you too embarrassed to be able to continue being 'friends'?

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You have an amazing buddy with whom you love hanging out and feel perfectly comfortable with. You just love his/her company and would never want to give up on this friendship, but one fine morning when you wake up, you find him/her sleeping right next to you(1)

It may not be intentional...but the line has been crossed. (2)So what happens now? (3)Do you go ahead and enter into a relationship with your friend? (4)Or are you too embarrassed to be able to continue being 'friends'?

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(1) This happens a lot, the question is did anything happen before the sleep

(2) I think brushing of teeth happens now

(3) Sometimes

(4) No

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Old 11-22-08, 10:23 PM   #3
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(1) This happens a lot, the question is did anything happen before the sleep

(2) I think brushing of teeth happens now

(3) Sometimes

(4) No

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I m voting this post for Reply-o-the-week........WoW, what an answer

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Old 11-22-08, 10:39 PM   #4
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Why did RameshJee who never posts in the relationship section get this doubt ???
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good point shadow......

why Rameshjee, whats cookin ??????

did anything really happen before falling asleep...
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Old 11-22-08, 11:35 PM   #6
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I have a question

Why did RameshJee who never posts in the relationship section get this doubt ???
I was reading through an article (about friendship,love,sex) today.So I thought let me post a thread on this "Can friendship survive sex?"
As Evander thinks,there's nothing. To be honest, I never had any female friend.

Can friendship survive sex?
I am pretty much clear on my views (i don't have any doubt), that first of all it should not have happened.& now as it has happened.The relationship (friendship) should move to the next level (love). But now a days it has become common.People forget things & move ahead.

The reason why I never posted much in the relationship's thread is the some of the things I have never experienced in my life like:
Teacher crushes!
Ex-love: U learnt anything from that Relation?

& in the other threads I have left my views.Its not that I am completely new to this thread.I just post my views (1 or 2 posts) not more than that.
These threads (in relationship) we can keep on posting,there's no end.

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good point shadow......
why Rameshjee, whats cookin ??????
did anything really happen before falling asleep...
Wasn't expecting such comments.
I will think twice when I start a thread next time.
(I dint want to express what I felt,but could not stop myself)

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dude point !!!
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Old 11-23-08, 12:57 AM   #8
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@ Rameshjeee

those comments were meant to be funny and not-offensive ,Rameshjeee. dont know about shadow, but I have been black-listed as inhuman-nazi-chauvinist-bastard by many .
so dont take my comments at face value. and please dont stop posting in rela... pages dude.

PS : dont ever think twice
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Wasn't expecting such comments.
I will think twice when I start a thread next time.
(I dint want to express what I felt,but could not stop myself)
You took it seriously

Did nt u see this --> <-- in my post
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I think yes Friendship can survive sex, if this thing just hppnd/ happens without any cruel intentions and if it came in picture with all emotions then its allright and friendship can survive without any issues, i know some people will not agree with me here but trust me, just imagine if you are sitting with a friend and you get some feeling for him/her n just let them go on then there is no harm in this, its all about your wish and need.

Every human needs a touch and feel, now don't tell me that you never feel this or something. In this case you are just feeling it for/ with a friend thats it.
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agree with smoothie..... If friendship (only wid opposite sex ) crosses the stage , there ought to be something more required between them...
I mean if sex happens in good friendship..... its agreed and can survive as both the Parties need that.
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I think yes Friendship can survive sex, if this thing just hppnd/ happens without any cruel intentions and if it came in picture with all emotions then its allright and friendship can survive without any issues, i know some people will not agree with me here but trust me, just imagine if you are sitting with a friend and you get some feeling for him/her n just let them go on then there is no harm in this, its all about your wish and need.

Every human needs a touch and feel, now don't tell me that you never feel this or something. In this case you are just feeling it for/ with a friend thats it.
A very good thread must say.....!

yep i agree wid u.....!!!!

Everyone knos about frenship....n sex....well its a supernatural thing....which every human needs.....

My saying on Can frenship survive sex...? wud be definately a yes.....!

i mean y not....? when its frenship....there is always some emotion, sentiments n attachments so if intentionally or unintentionally....had sex...isnt a big deal....! n its like a practical world.....jus speak out the feelings once u ve found out......cant b embarresed.....n not meet ur fren all ur life....!!!!! if theres a scope of relationship or love...be it.....best thing.....but if its only frenship....than be frens......!!!!!!

thts my take on it......!
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thanks for support

but i think it is not a bad thing if it comes with emotions or something, i am still waiting for some more members to post on this topic, elders please say something
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Call me old fashioned, but I have to be in a relationship of some substance before I engage in sexual intimacy with someone... and at the foundation of that relationship is some kind of trust and friendship... So I suppose a more crude way of saying that is I can only have sex with real good friends... lol
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I can only have sex with real good friends... lol
its not like that maddy, thing which we are talking is totally different.
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I know what you people are talking about... and yes, friendship can survive sex... no doubt...
but we should try to avoid such things from happening in 1st place, if we know it very well that therez no future together...

and I follow it religiously... I've many female friends in mumbai... who when come down to Pune to meet me and some other friends... I make it a point that no female is sleeping next to me... lol.. Its better to shut all the doors, if u know that therez no light outside...

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LOL

maddy i am not saying that mate but i am saying that if this happens and in fact thats what we are discussing that what if this happens and can friendship survive sex
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I already answered that short n sweet... yes..
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i got that bro
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I know what you people are talking about... and yes, friendship can survive sex... no doubt...
but we should try to avoid such things from happening in 1st place, if we know it very well that therez no future together...

and I follow it religiously... I've many female friends in mumbai... who when come down to Pune to meet me and some other friends... I make it a point that no female is sleeping next to me... lol.. Its better to shut all the doors, if u know that therez no light outside...
well whts da issue being in the same room when u dont ve nything on ur mind?? pls clarify dis madz....

common its no big deal now....till the time u ve a free mind set.....

well u neva kno....about the future......u meet a stanger n get married to him/her or u kno a fren since ages n than all of a sudden u get da feeling n get married.....so it all depends....when it clicks.......u c!
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