Husband and Wife Understanding

**Preeti_20** · 11-29-08, 12:44 AM

It doesn't matter what age you are, you have your views thats fine.

Yes i too agree that their should be mutual understanding, and the situation you gave was absolutely right.

But what Im also adding to this situation is that there are husband's who don't take interest at all even something his wives have brought, and if she then buys something herself and wears, he moans and says its not good! This is not an argument, but just an example, that understanding is required in everything to a limit and things should be said and done at the right time and both husband and wife should try to be involved in each others things even if it means a little bit!

**Evander Leopold** · 11-29-08, 12:53 AM

thats very true.

But I have already said that there are all sorts of guys and all sorts of gals. So this problem will always be there. The only solution is, be extremely careful whom u marry ....

no britney spears stuff.

**Archer** · 11-29-08, 07:47 AM

I noticed similar line in almost every posts. "I am not saying every men are like that" & "I am not saying every women are like that".
(Or basically the idea is same) I am confused. :confused1:

**Evander Leopold** · 11-29-08, 07:57 AM

:lol:
thats because this is too disturbing a topic my sire.......

if we dont use those kind words, we might end up hurting the feelings of every man and woman either married or waiting to get married. Thats why we chose to use shrewd diplomacy my young majesty.

its essential.

**padnar** · 11-29-08, 03:23 PM

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Maybe the wife should giving the husband attention, then see what happens, and i know the answer to this too!

what can yu expect from a society where husbands are treated a sGods . There are funcions where the wives pray for their husband's long lives , is there any function for husbands praying for their long lives.
padma

**Punch Farce** · 11-29-08, 03:31 PM

Originally Posted by padnar

what can yu expect from a society where husbands are treated a sGods . There are funcions where the wives pray for their husband's long lives , is there any function for husbands praying for their long lives.
padma

that probably started long time back when the husbands went to
war and stuff so they need the extra prayers, the wives probably stayed
back home and were not in any great imminent danger. This is just my
theory and I might be totally wrong. On the other hand I might
be exactly right too

-F

**Archer** · 11-29-08, 04:20 PM

Actually your theory is right.

**Evander Leopold** · 11-29-08, 07:14 PM

@farce

great reply buddy, no one could have given a better reply. Thanks.

**itsmemad** · 11-29-08, 07:30 PM

Originally Posted by padnar

what can yu expect from a society where husbands are treated a sGods . There are funcions where the wives pray for their husband's long lives , is there any function for husbands praying for their long lives.
padma

We don't need a function to pray for long life of our female counterparts... We always pray that... And give their lives greater value than ours... We are expected to become protectors right from childhood...

For an Indian man, earlier its raksha-bandhan which puts a sense in him to protect his female sibling... Later, its mangal-sutra which surely makes him a NSG guard of his wife's life... So who cares for who's life more now?

**Evander Leopold** · 11-29-08, 07:36 PM

adding a little bit,

We never harp on continuously about what we do for our femme fatales.
there are no ceremonies for our part in the act, we do it silently and steadily.

**Punch Farce** · 11-29-08, 10:35 PM

I think with all these discussions, Preeti is in the lead to win this contest

-F

**Preeti_20** · 11-29-08, 11:18 PM

Originally Posted by padnar

what can yu expect from a society where husbands are treated a sGods . There are funcions where the wives pray for their husband's long lives , is there any function for husbands praying for their long lives.
padma

Well i personally think that no one should be treated like god, only god has that place! Looking up to someone can be done which is different!
The tradition where wives pray for their husbands long lives (known as karva chauth), well i think thats something personal and its tradition too which is followed by choice and in some places it has to be done!

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

adding a little bit,

We never harp on continuously about what we do for our femme fatales.
there are no ceremonies for our part in the act, we do it silently and steadily.

Thats because these were traditions and things done which started long time ago, and they were named as being a festival or ceremony! These festivals or ceremonies have been carried forward now. Men may do the same thing, but there is no such tradition which is why you are saying men do it silently!

**Evander Leopold** · 11-29-08, 11:29 PM

Thats what I said.

**Preeti_20** · 11-29-08, 11:40 PM

i know, but have to put my point in front too!

**Evander Leopold** · 11-29-08, 11:45 PM

:lol:

**Punch Farce** · 12-01-08, 03:25 AM

Congrats Preeti. As I predicted this thread won the contest!!!!

-F

p.s where is our cut of the Rs280?

**Preeti_20** · 12-01-08, 03:27 AM

thanks people, but i hope this doesn't stop the discussion on this thread!

**aashaka_gandhi** · 12-01-08, 11:52 AM

omg u ppl .......

u guys ve gone crazy arguing like cats n dogs....!!!!

every one has aright to put in their opinion n a point of view.....from whteva they ve seen n understood wid the situations arnd em....but that doesnt mean everyones the same...!!!!!

we shud rather discuss things n learn from these experience....which goes for both guys n gals in their cumin life.....(for unmarried ones..) n the married ones can try n deal wid it....nicely, calmly......with a lil maturity rather than arguing like 2 crazy ppl to get their things done....!!!

Between every husband n wife, there ll b arguments n issues at sum point of time in their life.....but these can be sorted out always...!!!!

n all u guys n gals on da forum....discuss things.....than blaming a husband or a wife....!

**itsmemad** · 12-01-08, 12:28 PM

Well, what u r saying is right... but everyone tries to assert his/her point... then eventually blame game begins... lol

**aashaka_gandhi** · 12-01-08, 12:55 PM

Originally Posted by itsmemad

Well, what u r saying is right... but everyone tries to assert his/her point... then eventually blame game begins... lol

so thts wht we need to understnd yea!!!!

**Preeti_20** · 12-01-08, 01:39 PM