Thread: Husband and Wife Understanding

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

"every one has aright to put in their opinion n a point of view.....from whteva they ve seen n understood wid the situations arnd em....but that doesnt mean everyones the same...!!!!!"

@leo, how can you say that the above doesn't make sense, when it does and it something that many have to get into their brains!

"every one has aright to put in their opinion n a point of view.....from whteva they ve seen n understood wid the situations arnd em....."
this part elaborates on how different peoples can make a point on one topic, OK.
"but that doesnt mean everyones the same..."
where does this part come from ?????? does this mean that "..... if those different people are making it a point to go against a race/tribe/community, they are wrong cause every element within a community is not the same ".
isnt this a repetition.

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

n leo.....well india -pak buddies :w00t:......i dont think so its happening......!!!!!1 n after all this i dont think so it shud happen as well!

I rest my case.
It was supposed to be a circustic remark.

Hi frnds, i have gone through the whole blogs posted....
preeti.. i m a married man.. n i care for my wife..so.. i always listen to her.. sometimes she talks very negative n worthless but still i listen.. coz i understnd dis thng tat she wants sum1 to listen her. Nw she is happy with me coz she doesnt have anything in her heart to tell sum1...

nw if i talk abt myself ! everytime it becomes a issue when i try to tell sumthing wat i feel or wat i want...the things goes on another track n become worse.

n one more thing which is totly opposite to you (preeti). She tells me everything n tat doesnt matter wat i m doing, wat i m thinking and my mood.. i hav to listen othrwise situation become worse.. n from ma side.. i hav to check wether she is in mood to listen or not.

N she start crying on very small - small things..

We r living happy life.. coz i always try to give her wat she wants .. but on my end.. i hav to do compromise.

Hi frnds, i have gone through the whole blogs posted....
preeti.. i m a married man.. n i care for my wife..so.. i always listen to her.. sometimes she talks very negative n worthless but still i listen.. coz i understnd dis thng tat she wants sum1 to listen her. Nw she is happy with me coz she doesnt have anything in her heart to tell sum1...

nw if i talk abt myself ! everytime it becomes a issue when i try to tell sumthing wat i feel or wat i want...the things goes on another track n become worse.

n one more thing which is totly opposite to you (preeti). She tells me everything n tat doesnt matter wat i m doing, wat i m thinking and my mood.. i hav to listen othrwise situation become worse.. n from ma side.. i hav to check wether she is in mood to listen or not.

N she start crying on very small - small things..

We r living happy life.. coz i always try to give her wat she wants .. but on my end.. i hav to do compromise.

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Excuse me but I didn't say it happened to me, as im not even married!

So why is it that when a guy wants to talk he wants full attention, and a total standstill, and then if the women hasn't heard him, he moans saying that she doesn't listen and talk to him!

Are you saying that a wife can also say to her husband talk to the hand when the same situation arises!

Im not being one sided, and i know there are a lot of women who throw their weight around in a married relationship, but non of my male friends have every complained about this to me, so therefore i can not say anything in particular, but i do agree that their are women who make a man's life hectic and full of problems. But in some cases a women wants to show she cares and the husband takes it the other way round.

For example a friend of mine really cares for her husband more than anyone else in the world, but her husband just complains that she doesn't care for him or love him! I mean what should she do then?????

Why do you men take it personally?

Hi frnds, i have gone through the whole blogs posted....
preeti.. i m a married man.. n i care for my wife..so.. i always listen to her.. sometimes she talks very negative n worthless but still i listen.. coz i understnd dis thng tat she wants sum1 to listen her. Nw she is happy with me coz she doesnt have anything in her heart to tell sum1...

nw if i talk abt myself ! everytime it becomes a issue when i try to tell sumthing wat i feel or wat i want...the things goes on another track n become worse.

n one more thing which is totly opposite to you (preeti). She tells me everything n tat doesnt matter wat i m doing, wat i m thinking and my mood.. i hav to listen othrwise situation become worse.. n from ma side.. i hav to check wether she is in mood to listen or not.

N she start crying on very small - small things..

We r living happy life.. coz i always try to give her wat she wants .. but on my end.. i hav to do compromise.

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Excuse me but I didn't say it happened to me, as im not even married!

So why is it that when a guy wants to talk he wants full attention, and a total standstill, and then if the women hasn't heard him, he moans saying that she doesn't listen and talk to him!

Are you saying that a wife can also say to her husband talk to the hand when the same situation arises!

Im not being one sided, and i know there are a lot of women who throw their weight around in a married relationship, but non of my male friends have every complained about this to me, so therefore i can not say anything in particular, but i do agree that their are women who make a man's life hectic and full of problems. But in some cases a women wants to show she cares and the husband takes it the other way round.

For example a friend of mine really cares for her husband more than anyone else in the world, but her husband just complains that she doesn't care for him or love him! I mean what should she do then?????

Why do you men take it personally?

Hi frnds, i have gone through the whole blogs posted....
preeti.. i m a married man.. n i care for my wife..so.. i always listen to her.. sometimes she talks very negative n worthless but still i listen.. coz i understnd dis thng tat she wants sum1 to listen her. Nw she is happy with me coz she doesnt have anything in her heart to tell sum1...

nw if i talk abt myself ! everytime it becomes a issue when i try to tell sumthing wat i feel or wat i want...the things goes on another track n become worse.

n one more thing which is totly opposite to you (preeti). She tells me everything n tat doesnt matter wat i m doing, wat i m thinking and my mood.. i hav to listen othrwise situation become worse.. n from ma side.. i hav to check wether she is in mood to listen or not.

N she start crying on very small - small things..

We r living happy life.. coz i always try to give her wat she wants .. but on my end.. i hav to do compromise.