
Originally Posted by
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Its ok you love talk and all that... for a min keep love aside and think about the person as a person and imagine what would it be like if you didint love him/her ... would you be able to put up with your partner if that love angle diminishes a bit?
Dont come up with stuff like love is for ever and all that... been there done that and I know what I am talking about.
Try finding a match for yourself who is like you in almost ever respect be is academically, relegion or even the iq level... if you dont think about 20 years down the line I am sure you are in for a surprise and this choosing your partner thing is not something you do ever day ... for some may be they get a second chance but for most of us its a one time affair ... either you do it right or you commit a mistake but you wont get a chance to correct it.. (in most cases)
Dont get carried away with all that modered culture and all that... get selfish when it comes to choosing a partner... find some one who is like you and would be a perfect match... dont make yourself an example just coz you want to stand apart.