Thread: Kitne ajeeb Rishtay hai yaahan pe…

Originally Posted by itsmemad

Well, my ankle bone has recovered 100%... Therez no pain... Its just the little complications that normally arise after a surgery... Its just a skinny issue now...

oh! That's a great news

Originally Posted by itsmemad

I really don't have an idea what shez talking about... Maybe she can gimme couple of hints... I'm chatting with her since a long time... Maybe she remember my life better than I do...

@aakasha, time to reveal the secret....plz will you??

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

@Mannu bhai

the little experiences i have had so far taught me not to believe phrases like "one 4 all and all 4 one " , etc . We are alone here, each individual on their own.
i just walk the street i like best, doesnt matter if anybody walked along with me. some people are damn lucky, they just glide through their life without ever having to confront such disturbing aspects of life. but the others, who have to face it, learns to cope up with it. those who cant, well, they dont survive.

Oh our great leo also got some philosphy...

How are you bro??

how are wounds??

r ya kiddin .........i got loads of philosophy, just name the subject :lol:

what secrets r u guys talkin about ????

do i really have to go back through the entire thread to find out.

Originally Posted by Manish

What a beautiful song from the movie Page 3, you can’t judge if the depth of beauty of this song is more or the meaning of this song is deeper. But one thing is for sure, the lines are as true as god.
Many of you might not agree with this, but, if you’ll think and answer honestly you’ll agree, this is the harsh reality of Relationships.
"No one is for no one."

How many times it had happened with you, the most trusted person in your life had turned you down when you needed him/her the most. It could be anyone…it could be your brother, sister, mother, father, your best friend, your sweetheart…anyone.

Let me share one the moments of my life with you, I was into my graduation, things like recruitments, campus placement etc were common in college campus. We were a group of 3 friends, rather my best friends, and still we are. We all were trying our luck in interviews trying to grab the best opportunities, supporting each other, helping each other in preparation etc. Suddenly one of my “best friends” said he had to go somewhere urgently and he won’t be coming back for at least a weak. We tried our best to know what had happened suddenly, if everything is alright, but he said everything is fine and he can manage and went away.
Later, we came to know that the guy actually went to Delhi for an interview, from somewhere he came to know that there was a very good opportunity in some XYZ company who is paying healthy packages, the posts were limited, and the company will not be visiting to college campuses rather it’s asking for the walk in interviews. Our friend didn’t want to increase the competition so he didn’t tell us and went alone in interview. Good thing is, he got selected there and currently working as the Assistant Manager in the same company.
Later when he came back he told us everything, and said it was a sudden call. He asked us not to mind anything. To be honest, we didn’t. He is still my best friend. But I have learnt a lot from this experience. Now I take things more seriously. I don’t trust people easily. I am a changed man in some contest.

No, I am not trying to say that don't trust people; or there is no such thing like friendship;NO.

I just wanted to let you know my feelings, I hope you have understand what I am trying to express.

I am looking forward to hear your opinion, your view, your stories…

i completly agree wid u,this happens with almost evryone in life..............bt somehow it also depends on how do you percieve things in life.just take it easy man don't take it on heart ,or u wud be just left with hatred for evryone...........do cheers coz best friends remain best friends.this is wat i feel i dnt knw bout ur view.

Originally Posted by Munish_10

i completly agree wid u,this happens with almost evryone in life..............bt somehow it also depends on how do you percieve things in life.just take it easy man don't take it on heart ,or u wud be just left with hatred for evryone...........do cheers coz best friends remain best friends.this is wat i feel i dnt knw bout ur view.

i think but sometimes it is not what we get to see on the outside,there are pple n even they mite b ur best frnds,pple who wear mask on there faces,somone kind of diffrent on the outside than inside.so then its not but perception .its something about observing pple then trusting them.i dnt belive in perception n all

Originally Posted by krish_174

i think but sometimes it is not what we get to see on the outside,there are pple n even they mite b ur best frnds,pple who wear mask on there faces,somone kind of diffrent on the outside than inside.so then its not but perception .its something about observing pple then trusting them.i dnt belive in perception n all

no......no.......how cn evryone be so expert in observing people ,v cnt judge anyone ,v mite be rite or wrong........ultimately v hve to buid the relationship on trusts not on our observations,trust is the basis of evry healthy n surviving long lasting relationship,be it friendship,marriage or with our siblings or parents ,the word is trust not observation

Originally Posted by Munish_10

no......no.......how cn evryone be so expert in observing people ,v cnt judge anyone ,v mite be rite or wrong........ultimately v hve to buid the relationship on trusts not on our observations,trust is the basis of evry healthy n surviving long lasting relationship,be it friendship,marriage or with our siblings or parents ,the word is trust not observation

in my life i have been through such situations when even the pple i trusted the most broke my heart.or played with my feelings.

Originally Posted by Munish_10

no......no.......how cn evryone be so expert in observing people ,v cnt judge anyone ,v mite be rite or wrong........ultimately v hve to buid the relationship on trusts not on our observations,trust is the basis of evry healthy n surviving long lasting relationship,be it friendship,marriage or with our siblings or parents ,the word is trust not observation

in case of blood-ties, we generally dnt have to try to hard on trust. In other cases its really tough. what if someone lost his faith in everybody ? what happens then. u cant blame that man just because he has been let down by every other person he tried to trust/rely on.
In the end its all ur own game, do whatever u want, just dont get shot. Conscience, trust, forgiveness, kindness, not everybody can afford these feelings. Such things are too darn costly if u dnt have proper back-up. Nobody listens to a beggar even if he is the greatest philosopher on earth, but everybody respects a murderer who has the honours(????) to run a major temple/mosque/church.

any thoughts, any comments ???????
i want to know ur views.

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

in case of blood-ties, we generally dnt have to try to hard on trust. In other cases its really tough. what if someone lost his faith in everybody ? what happens then. u cant blame that man just because he has been let down by every other person he tried to trust/rely on.
In the end its all ur own game, do whatever u want, just dont get shot. Conscience, trust, forgiveness, kindness, not everybody can afford these feelings. Such things are too darn costly if u dnt have proper back-up. Nobody listens to a beggar even if he is the greatest philosopher on earth, but everybody respects a murderer who has the honours(????) to run a major temple/mosque/church.

any thoughts, any comments ???????
i want to know ur views.

u seem to have gone through all such things ,somtime evn i feel jus go n get it kind of attitude ,actually this makes us free ,free of boundaries

[QUOTE=Evander Leopold;79566]in case of blood-ties, we generally dnt have to try to hard on trust. In other cases its really tough. what if someone lost his faith in everybody ? what happens then. u cant blame that man just because he has been let down by every other person he tried to trust/rely on.
In the end its all ur own game, do whatever u want, just dont get shot. Conscience, trust, forgiveness, kindness, not everybody can afford these feelings. Such things are too darn costly if u dnt have proper back-up. Nobody listens to a beggar even if he is the greatest philosopher on earth, but everybody respects a murderer who has the honours(????) to run a major temple/mosque/church.

any thoughts, any comments ???????
i want to know ur views.

ya i smewat agree wid u

Originally Posted by Munish_10

u seem to have gone through all such things ,somtime evn i feel jus go n get it kind of attitude ,actually this makes us free ,free of boundaries

definitely, its hard to live like this, i know. but in the end its worth it if u can force urself far enough. what is the point in living a life of fear and oppression. what is the point in walking the path where u see in every corner someone breaking the basic rules of humanity and u cant even stop to look at it. my motto is destroy/attack anything u dont like and make the world around u a place which is worthy of u, instead of waiting and waiting and waiting for u to change under pressure. in the process u may lose everything u had and i know that is a hell of a price to pay when u could just glide through the slime like everybody else. but in the end, i feel its worth it.

[QUOTE=Munish_10;79571]u seem to have gone through all such things ,somtime evn i feel jus go n get it kind of attitude ,actually this makes us free ,free of boundaries

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

in case of blood-ties, we generally dnt have to try to hard on trust. In other cases its really tough. what if someone lost his faith in everybody ? what happens then. u cant blame that man just because he has been let down by every other person he tried to trust/rely on.
In the end its all ur own game, do whatever u want, just dont get shot. Conscience, trust, forgiveness, kindness, not everybody can afford these feelings. Such things are too darn costly if u dnt have proper back-up. Nobody listens to a beggar even if he is the greatest philosopher on earth, but everybody respects a murderer who has the honours(????) to run a major temple/mosque/church.

any thoughts, any comments ???????
i want to know ur views.

ya i smewat agree wid u

i have been in 3 relationships,,,,,,n all of the wer real bitches

[QUOTE=krish_174;79580]

Originally Posted by Munish_10

u seem to have gone through all such things ,somtime evn i feel jus go n get it kind of attitude ,actually this makes us free ,free of boundaries











i have been in 3 relationships,,,,,,n all of the wer real bitches

girls to evn i dnt trust them

Originally Posted by krish_174

i have been in 3 relationships,,,,,,n all of the wer real bitches

:lol: thats a funny way to put it bro,

i m sorry that i laughed, i know how u feel and i sincerely hope that ur next encounter with the opposite sex would be a success.

try to look at it this way, 50% of all people are basically too darn bad for ur morale. they are nasty, disgusting villains. ur former lovers may have been in that category, but that doesnt mean all the others will be like em.

@munish

there are bloody males too mate, who deserve to be hanged for how they treat good girls. so, there are possibly girls who think about men just the way u think about them.
even i have faith that at least one person can understand what i try to say, so u must have faith in ur case too.

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

definitely, its hard to live like this, i know. but in the end its worth it if u can force urself far enough. what is the point in living a life of fear and oppression. what is the point in walking the path where u see in every corner someone breaking the basic rules of humanity and u cant even stop to look at it. my motto is destroy/attack anything u dont like and make the world around u a place which is worthy of u, instead of waiting and waiting and waiting for u to change under pressure. in the process u may lose everything u had and i know that is a hell of a price to pay when u could just glide through the slime like everybody else. but in the end, i feel its worth it.

dont u think this wud make us aggressive,i mean breaking free is a gud feeling but trying to change evrything v dnt like wud be kind hell lota of job

@munish

there are bloody males too mate, who deserve to be hanged for how they treat good girls. so, there are possibly girls who think about men just the way u think about them.
even i have faith that at least one person can understand what i try to say, so u must have faith in ur case too.[/QUOTE]


but evry time this happend .......bestest friends whom i trusted almost blindly n d same the othr way.but one fine day u wake up to a diffrent reality....then u feel like a piece of junk trashed

Originally Posted by Munish_10

dont u think this wud make us aggressive,i mean breaking free is a gud feeling but trying to change evrything v dnt like wud be kind hell lota of job



but evry time this happend .......bestest friends whom i trusted almost blindly n d same the othr way.but one fine day u wake up to a diffrent reality....then u feel like a piece of junk trashed

u have got me there. i know my previous post contradicts the latest one on love , but if u look closely u can find that i have suggested going for something which means a lot to u. if ur gf doesnt want u anymore (hypothetically) and u truely love her, its best to go all the way to make her change her mind. u cant just give up. if u give up once, who knows it may start a chain of events where u end up being a loser even in the simplest of runs.
another way to get over it without having the feeling of being ditched is to prioritize things. life is the most valuable stuff u can ever get, love is an added bonus, no point in getting out if u miss one bonus. there will be more, and i m not talking about getting other girls. look at urself, how much of this planet have u seen, how much of it u know. go for it, push urself to the extreme. then u wont feel like being trashed, u will feel different, positively different.

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

u have got me there. i know my previous post contradicts the latest one on love , but if u look closely u can find that i have suggested going for something which means a lot to u. if ur gf doesnt want u anymore (hypothetically) and u truely love her, its best to go all the way to make her change her mind. u cant just give up. if u give up once, who knows it may start a chain of events where u end up being a loser even in the simplest of runs.
another way to get over it without having the feeling of being ditched is to prioritize things. life is the most valuable stuff u can ever get, love is an added bonus, no point in getting out if u miss one bonus. there will be more, and i m not talking about getting other girls. look at urself, how much of this planet have u seen, how much of it u know. go for it, push urself to the extreme. then u wont feel like being trashed, u will feel different, positively different.

hmm ...i think i hv been in tht limited space ,my own comfort zone ,may be i have nevr tried to cme out of it . u r rite ,world is open book but i hve been sticking to one page ,not reading further..i think nxt page or pages wud bring the change ......

my best wishes are with u on this.

just a little word of advice from a friend : I have seen that many women and some men try to detach themselves from past failure in love by promptly falling into another. these things( what else might i call em!!! ) never last and leaves them in a much worse condition. this is true, i have seen it happen. So, the best way is to give some time to urself and enjoy the non-romantic aspects of life yaar
go grab some fries and chicken-pakoras and i will join too.

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

my best wishes are with u on this.

just a little word of advice from a friend : I have seen that many women and some men try to detach themselves from past failure in love by promptly falling into another. these things( what else might i call em!!! ) never last and leaves them in a much worse condition. this is true, i have seen it happen. So, the best way is to give some time to urself and enjoy the non-romantic aspects of life yaar
go grab some fries and chicken-pakoras and i will join too.

thanx bro.........

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

my best wishes are with u on this.

just a little word of advice from a friend : I have seen that many women and some men try to detach themselves from past failure in love by promptly falling into another. these things( what else might i call em!!! ) never last and leaves them in a much worse condition. this is true, i have seen it happen. So, the best way is to give some time to urself and enjoy the non-romantic aspects of life yaar
go grab some fries and chicken-pakoras and i will join too.

even i agree .....being single is being happy n free

:lol: i m not promoting bachelorhood ( i m a confirmed one myself though ) , all i m saying is that dont fall in love just for the sake of it or by following bollywood morons. :lol:


anyway, the primary topic was a discussion on kindness, getting hurt, revenge and such matters. now, i am goin to give all of u some hypothetical situations, tell me what u guys will do if such a case happens -----

>> U are walking down a busy street when a person of same sex comes and tells u about his/her undying love for u. What would u do? kick his/her as#, just ignore and walk away, talk to him/her and get out of it.

>> U and a loved one are walking on the moonlit beach. no ones around. a thug comes and punches u and her and runs with her costly necklace. she is injured but not much. what do u do ??

>> someone just called ur mom names on the crowded street, they are ruffians. nobody would come to ur aid if u go fight path, they wont listen and continue even if u try to reason with them. what do u do ??

>> u happen to come face to face with a huge celebrity whom u hate with gr8 passion. reporters are there and he tries to greet u with a hand shake, what wld u do???

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

definitely, its hard to live like this, i know. but in the end its worth it if u can force urself far enough. what is the point in living a life of fear and oppression. what is the point in walking the path where u see in every corner someone breaking the basic rules of humanity and u cant even stop to look at it. my motto is destroy/attack anything u dont like and make the world around u a place which is worthy of u, instead of waiting and waiting and waiting for u to change under pressure. in the process u may lose everything u had and i know that is a hell of a price to pay when u could just glide through the slime like everybody else. but in the end, i feel its worth it.

Ok , i was keeping off this thread 'Cuz my Hinglish is nt fluent and i could nt really understand what the topic was about . :lol: :lol:
After explicitly being invited to share my views here i am

I have read thru only a few previous posts , so forgive me if i go slightly offtopic

Well in my experiences i have come across my share of fickle friends and some really good friends . As far as i know its not a good idea to trust somebody too quickly .
Initially you should not trust anybody wholly . Time will reveal everything . My closest friends are those who have been my friends for long , in which case i know everything about them .
Thats not to say that i am not friendly with the rest . I am very friendly , but i also know enough to understand that they may not turn up at the time of need .
But there are some really good heart ed people i know who go out of their way to help people . They are easy to spot and are few . These people i trust completely .

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

:lol: thats a funny way to put it bro,

i m sorry that i laughed, i know how u feel and i sincerely hope that ur next encounter with the opposite sex would be a success.

try to look at it this way, 50% of all people are basically too darn bad for ur morale. they are nasty, disgusting villains. ur former lovers may have been in that category, but that doesnt mean all the others will be like em.

@munish

there are bloody males too mate, who deserve to be hanged for how they treat good girls. so, there are possibly girls who think about men just the way u think about them.
even i have faith that at least one person can understand what i try to say, so u must have faith in ur case too.

Yeah there are good people and bad people ... if you have had bad experiences with your Gf ... you should also realize that part of it was your fault .... Choosing somebody bad as your partner was your fault , was nt it ? .....

take my test, take my test

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

:lol: i m not promoting bachelorhood ( i m a confirmed one myself though ) , all i m saying is that dont fall in love just for the sake of it or by following bollywood morons. :lol:


anyway, the primary topic was a discussion on kindness, getting hurt, revenge and such matters. now, i am goin to give all of u some hypothetical situations, tell me what u guys will do if such a case happens -----

>> U are walking down a busy street when a person of same sex comes and tells u about his/her undying love for u. What would u do? kick his/her as#, just ignore and walk away, talk to him/her and get out of it.

>> U and a loved one are walking on the moonlit beach. no ones around. a thug comes and punches u and her and runs with her costly necklace. she is injured but not much. what do u do ??

>> someone just called ur mom names on the crowded street, they are ruffians. nobody would come to ur aid if u go fight path, they wont listen and continue even if u try to reason with them. what do u do ??

>> u happen to come face to face with a huge celebrity whom u hate with gr8 passion. reporters are there and he tries to greet u with a hand shake, what wld u do???

Hmmm

>>Talk to him and make it clear that i am not queer and am straight as a rod [pun unintended] .... and then walk out of it

>>First ofcourse tend to the wound .... Money is less important than life , huh?

>>Thats a conundrum [google it ] really ...

>>Greet him back with a hand shake and go my way :lol: :lol: ...........

why is it a conundrum !!!! i m not going to judge and comment on any answers, just want to see how others would tackle such a situation. nothin more, nothin less. it may give me new ideas and views which i may never have thought of before.

Originally Posted by Evander Leopold

why is it a conundrum !!!! i m not going to judge and comment on any answers, just want to see how others would tackle such a situation. nothin more, nothin less. it may give me new ideas and views which i may never have thought of before.

You dont have any options right ?

I mean you def cant walk away

thats right,
its a very complicated case. we cant compare this with cases like mannu bhai told us.