Thread: Love/Love Marriage in India

When will Mr. Incredible find time to save the world if he is busy with daily chores?

jeee i neva knew u were a maru.....i always thought u a southie....!!!! even i wondered getting married by 25 26 for a guy...wow...n tht too a south indian.....as far as my knowledge goes.....southies get married late...!

now i kno...!!!so how does it feel to be married @ 25???

Originally Posted by dhaneshv

:lol:

You were married???
I didn't think so...

farce even i didnt kno abt it...!!!!

Originally Posted by Admin

Its a good time to move to states you will get a house at half the cost it was available a year ago

LOL......though its true.....!

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

now i kno...!!!so how does it feel to be married @ 25???

I feel more responsible.

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

Ramesh Chandra Lahoti, Former Chief Justice of India.

Your Name is here na Rameshjeee

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

I feel more responsible.

wow.....i m still wondering.....!!! being responsible or things change soooo much once a person gets married......!!!!

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

wow.....i m still wondering.....!!! being responsible or things change soooo much once a person gets married......!!!!

Try getting married and see for yourself ... :lol:

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

Do we have anyone in this forum who has had a love marriage? (I know, most of you must be in Love.) Mine was a arranged one,no regrets.

Originally Posted by just4kix

You are already married at 25?

Congrats Ramesh, didn't know that. Mine was the Love marriage. I hope everyone knows about me too. Me and Ramesh shares the same age and marital status.

Here's a second one....

Share you love story,Manish.....Abt mine, its some what like Vivaah... There was a 1 year gap between engagement & marriage.My family knew my wife's family even before we got engaged.There was some relation....Its a bit complex...

i hold a six year long affair. We were introduced by a common friend, actually he use to take tutions from her. She is 2 years elder to me. we never planned to get married this early. but my grandma insisted, she said before she dies she wants to see me married. But to be honest, I m very happy now. No more long mobile bills, late night talk even if you want to sleep...just kidding

Abt mine, its some what like Vivaah

I didn't know, Shahid is too on IBB

Originally Posted by Manish

But to be honest, I m very happy now. No more long mobile bills, late night talk even if you want to sleep...just kidding

Same thing here...

but you said you had an arrange marriage?

let me guess, you mean the period between the engagement and marriage,rite?

Originally Posted by just4kix

Try getting married and see for yourself ... :lol:

oh well.....tryin to find my mr. right now.....!!! parents after me.....!!!!! soo hopefully soon!

Originally Posted by Manish

Congrats Ramesh, didn't know that. Mine was the Love marriage. I hope everyone knows about me too. Me and Ramesh shares the same age and marital status.

wow....didnt kno abt u as well manish!!! neat.....nice.....!!!!

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

oh well.....tryin to find my mr. right now.....!!! parents after me.....!!!!! soo hopefully soon!

wow....didnt kno abt u as well manish!!! neat.....nice.....!!!!

Thanks Hope you'll find your Mr. Right soon.

Please, no, Im married

nice yaa....!!!

hmmm i m hopin on to tht as wel.....

Originally Posted by Manish

but you said you had an arrange marriage?

let me guess, you mean the period between the engagement and marriage,rite?

Yes...

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

nice yaa....!!!

hmmm i m hopin on to tht as wel.....

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

Yes...

Long time before marriage for me...long MBBS studies....
Hope I find a girl till then coz I want a Love Marriage.

Originally Posted by Admin

How about talking about love and life partners seperately?

Love at first site doesnt really mean you have decided to spend the rest of your life with the person youve fallen in love with.

Should you really be talking about love and marriage in the same sentence?

Try thinking about these two things seperately for once and everything will start falling in place on its own

Having an arranged marriage i wont to know what Love is ? Does thunder and lightning struck when you see your partner. how do yu know yu are in love . when i asked in a website how they know that they know that he or she is only made for yu . i had some interesting answers. pl I would love to hear your views?
Padma

Originally Posted by padnar

Having an arranged marriage i wont to know what Love is ? Does thunder and lightning struck when you see your partner. how do yu know yu are in love . when i asked in a website how they know that they know that he or she is only made for yu . i had some interesting answers. pl I would love to hear your views?
Padma

You will never know as long as you are still
in love. You'll know only when you breakup.

-F

p.s I am particulary intrigued by your opening sentence. Don't
you love your husband? even though yours was an arranged
marriage.

p.p.s I am not really expecting you to answer this soon.
Some of your previous threads, you post something
and then disappear for a few months ;-)

true farcey.........

even if a person does arranged marriage obviously thy tend to fall in love once thy decide getting married.....in their golden period or after the wedding......

In my family (both parental and maternal side), mine was the first "arranged" marriage in 50 years. So seen a lot of love marriages and resultant couples, including my parents (they got married some 46 years ago) and also gone through an arranged one.

But at the end, all marriages are arranged, either by Self or by Family. "Love" and "Marriage" are two different cups of tea. Marriage requires commitment, adjustment and compatibility. Whether its self arranged or family arranged its essential to ensure that there is adequate compatibility, between the partners, between the girl and the boy's family, between the boy and the girl's family. Also, its also important to have patience and understanding and also the willingness to adjust. Otherwise, once the initial honeymoon period is over, the conflicts start. Its one thing to be all love-crazy in the best dress and mood, its a completely different proposition to face the same person in their or your worst mood and state.

Marriage, whether self-arranged or family -arranged, has only one enemy. And that is EGO (with capital E). I have seen people getting married after 5-6 years of courtship getting divorced within 2 years and also people who have met only a month prior to marriage having a happy married life.

The family works as the support system. To my knowledge, most of the people who had ran away to get married ended up getting divorced within 5 years. Most probably because they lack this support system. Even if they remain together, when they themselves become a parent, particularly if that of a girl, they always remain in the mortal fear of history repeating itself. So if you really love someone and want to be "together for ever" make sure to introduce that person to your family and make him/her feel a part of your family even before you propose. Likewise you should also be a part of his/her family. Every parent in the world wants to see their children be happy. And marriage is the biggest thing that is to happen to their child. So there is no reason for them to disagree with their children's chosen partner, as long as they feel its the right person.

p.s.
One of my friends once said that its always advisable to marry the person who loves you most rather than the person whom you love. Sounds selfish, but coming to think of it, seems to be quite a sensible thing to do.

Originally Posted by farce

You will never know as long as you are still
in love. You'll know only when you breakup.

-F

p.s I am particulary intrigued by your opening sentence. Don't
you love your husband? even though yours was an arranged
marriage.

p.p.s I am not really expecting you to answer this soon.
Some of your previous threads, you post something
and then disappear for a few months ;-)

I am a middle age woman . I love my husband but at this stage we look for companionship and love which I receive and that is not my question. My question is those who marry for love do they hear thunder as romantic books say or what is the feelings ?
I am sorry I was busy with my script and now i intend to post more and communicate with fellow Indians
padma

hi to every 1 i m a new user to this site
i read this article so i want to share ma prob with all of u


i m in love since last 3 yrs she lives in gujraat n i m in U.P.
we love each other as much as we both can do nythig for each-other.we plan for run away n get marry after completion my MBA
her father died 2 year ago n her mother get shocked because of this n now se is in depration her mother tried to Suside 10 days ago 3 times in a day.
now when she see d condition of her home se say hat she laove me a lot but she can`t run away with me because her mother got died hearing this news
n she will ner marry to nyone.

i m in a situation that mind just got stop working.


so pls pls pls pls help me n pls reply for me

that what should i do

Either in Love marriages or arranged marriages, the girl or boy
do impose/ make some conditions ,or if married with parent's consent( they also add some conditions on their part !)
TRUE LOVE scores in the end !

If you meet the girl's mother, and tell her that she can stay with her daughter, even after marriage.

You ask them to wait
till you complete your studies and get a nice cozy job.

TIP:
Time to give special attention to your English Language skill !!!!