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01-30-09, 06:58 PM

i think we all should respect our parents more than anyone else in this world ... i dont really understand why such things happen in our society .. its very sad ... movies like baghban are eye-openers for youngsters

01-30-09, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

well one of the main reasons for all these crappy things n issues is these daily soaps.....a lot of females usually look upto these characters n inturn some of it reflects......

Ditto (aaka's copyright)

I totally agrees with your point

udayan · 01-30-09, 10:04 PM

Siding with your mom would earn you the title "mama's boy" while pandering to your wife would make you a "bibi ka ghulam". It is a tough balance to keep. However, as much it is the son's duty to alienate no one, it is also important that neither the parents nor the wife create any situation where the son has to take sides.

cool_techie_tvm · 01-30-09, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

i think we all should respect our parents more than anyone else in this world ... i dont really understand why such things happen in our society .. its very sad ... movies like baghban are eye-openers for youngsters

Respect the parents more than anyone else in the world? Ok it may sound good until the boy/girl is married. After that, personally i think more weightage should be given to the life partner.

02-01-09, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by udayan

Siding with your mom would earn you the title "mama's boy" while pandering to your wife would make you a "bibi ka ghulam". It is a tough balance to keep. However, as much it is the son's duty to alienate no one, it is also important that neither the parents nor the wife create any situation where the son has to take sides.

being a married man, i can understand the balance thing. I agree sometimes it become really tought to maintain that

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Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm

Respect the parents more than anyone else in the world? Ok it may sound good until the boy/girl is married. After that, personally i think more weightage should be given to the life partner.

Don't think that way techie, it shouldn't be like this dude, both should be treated equally unbiased.

cool_techie_tvm · 02-01-09, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Manish

Don't think that way techie, it shouldn't be like this dude, both should be treated equally unbiased.

According to the need at hand weightage should be given. We all commit mistakes and frankly i dont think any absolute rule or guide book has to be followed in a relationship. Nor can any such guidelines be posted in a forum. Yes also its true people can derive conclusions from their day to day life.

These are my humble opinions

02-02-09, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm

According to the need at hand weightage should be given. We all commit mistakes and frankly i dont think any absolute rule or guide book has to be followed in a relationship. Nor can any such guidelines be posted in a forum. Yes also its true people can derive conclusions from their day to day life.

These are my humble opinions

I respect your opinions but don't agree with your first point.

you can't do that to your family, i mean i strictly disagree this "According to the need"

but again this is your opinion so can't comment much.

02-03-09, 02:25 PM

your life partner should be understanding enough to not create a difference between you and your parents. it is upto you how you manage such strange situations.

02-03-09, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

your life partner should be understanding enough to not create a difference between you and your parents. it is upto you how you manage such strange situations.

Correct. I support that.

Punch Farce · 02-03-09, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

your life partner should be understanding enough to not create a difference between you and your parents. ..

Yes, and I also wish I win the lottery.

-F

Gary4gar · 02-04-09, 01:31 PM

For me,
First,My Parents are First than everything else.
Second,Then Comes my Future Wife
Third, and Finally me

02-04-09, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Gary4gar

For me,
First,My Parents are First than everything else.
Second,Then Comes my Future Wife
Third, and Finally me

Do tell this to your wud be wife

Gary4gar · 02-04-09, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Manish

Do tell this to your wud be wife

No, this is the truth.

And few have the courage to face the truth

I would her whatever she wants to listen

02-04-09, 09:51 PM

R.i.p

Gary4gar · 02-04-09, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Manish

R.i.p

for whom?

02-04-09, 10:00 PM

just kidding man,

so you got any plans to get marry sooner or later?

Gary4gar · 02-04-09, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Manish

just kidding man,

so you got any plans to get marry sooner or later?

Well, My wish is stay single all my life but life has its own problems. so we need a partner to live it properly.

So sooner or later I have to marry

02-04-09, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Gary4gar

Well, My wish is stay single all my life but life has its own problems. so we need a partner to live it properly.

Very true, hope you'll get your headeater very soon

Gary4gar · 02-04-09, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Manish

Very true, hope you'll get your headeater very soon

Not so early, its old way to go

FYI, Currently I am 20yrs old

02-05-09, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm

Respect the parents more than anyone else in the world? Ok it may sound good until the boy/girl is married. After that, personally i think more weightage should be given to the life partner.

Quote:

Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm

According to the need at hand weightage should be given. We all commit mistakes and frankly i dont think any absolute rule or guide book has to be followed in a relationship. Nor can any such guidelines be posted in a forum. Yes also its true people can derive conclusions from their day to day life.

These are my humble opinions

i forgot to mention in my previous posts. i really respect your opinions here. these are very practical indeed.

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