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Preeti_20 · 01-29-09, 03:52 PM

Didnt know what to call this thread so just called it relations, what i wanted to ask was that if things go wrong in a relationship, can that relationship still survive and be as happy as ever, can life be back to normal, or will there still be grudges in the relationship.

Its doesnt matter which relation it may be but you can comment regarding all relations such as child parents, husband wife, brother sister, friends and so one, but these are the main ones!

I want to know what you guys think and if you were in such a situation what would you think or do!

aashaka_gandhi · 01-29-09, 04:14 PM

u forgot the ones dating.....

as per me......

relationships if broken can always survive in the same way it was before....!!! definately for parents-kids, brother - sisters .... these two relationships can be the way it is.....provided there r no grudges n things vve been sorted out...!

in todays world...no one is bothered for the other person...in most of the cases !!!! still in India it matters, as the upbringing of a child is a major factor....!!!

when it comes to frens.....well relations can survive when the issues r sorted out, there is no more ego clash.....also both the person will take time as the trust factor is a lil difficult to achieve once things like this happen but in long run....it shud b fine.....

its pretty much similar with husband wife relation also......

this is totally my point of view...!

the biggest thing is to find wht went wrong....????

Preeti_20 · 01-29-09, 05:08 PM

for forgot to add people who are dating!

that's true once grudges are out of the way then its fine, if you hold them in your relationship the relationship will not go far and only get worse!

I suppose parents and child relationship can always get mended because its that kind of relationship!

Regarding husband and wife, its good to forget some things and move on in life as you will be with that person for the rest of your life, unless you are planning separation and if you mend the relationship it will be best for both and the children and there will be a much happier life!

With friends i think its easy to forget things, especially if your good friends, if your not good friends you wont bother patching things up!

I think life's too short to hold grudges and think of bad things!

smoothvibes · 02-09-09, 02:51 AM

blood relations can come back to normal only if you want to but in other cases something remains there means once there is a crack in relation it is always visible but if you really want to stay together then you can fill up that crack.

It all depends upon you like how you take things and what you need out of that relation or if you want to continue or not.

means mental satisfaction and dissatisfaction makes you think.

02-09-09, 03:06 AM

Not every relation is come back to normal including blood relation another thing in such situation really i don't know what to do because it's not easy to control our emotion some times it's very difficult to forget.Now you ask that "if things go wrong in a relationship" it depends upon that particular situation in case of me i can say i don't have any relation with few of my close person.Although still we are not happy because after all it's very painful to all of us but still I strongly believe there is no other way also present.

aashaka_gandhi · 02-09-09, 04:24 PM

in all it depends the way both the ppl think about each other n the relationship thy share....

Rameshjeee · 02-09-09, 04:29 PM

I would just say that: Life is too small to find faults,so forgive, move ahead & enjoy life.We may never get an another opportunity to live again...

02-18-09, 02:58 AM

people change. things go wrong.just remember. life goes on.........

aashaka_gandhi · 02-20-09, 04:13 PM

yea MOVE ON....theres lot more in the future stored for u.....so.....jus go on...n stop being sad over the past!

01-29-09, 03:52 PM	#1
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: In my Castle Posts: 3,280 Rep Power: 7	Relations Didnt know what to call this thread so just called it relations, what i wanted to ask was that if things go wrong in a relationship, can that relationship still survive and be as happy as ever, can life be back to normal, or will there still be grudges in the relationship. Its doesnt matter which relation it may be but you can comment regarding all relations such as child parents, husband wife, brother sister, friends and so one, but these are the main ones! I want to know what you guys think and if you were in such a situation what would you think or do!

01-29-09, 04:14 PM	#2
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	u forgot the ones dating..... as per me...... relationships if broken can always survive in the same way it was before....!!! definately for parents-kids, brother - sisters .... these two relationships can be the way it is.....provided there r no grudges n things vve been sorted out...! in todays world...no one is bothered for the other person...in most of the cases !!!! still in India it matters, as the upbringing of a child is a major factor....!!! when it comes to frens.....well relations can survive when the issues r sorted out, there is no more ego clash.....also both the person will take time as the trust factor is a lil difficult to achieve once things like this happen but in long run....it shud b fine..... its pretty much similar with husband wife relation also...... this is totally my point of view...! the biggest thing is to find wht went wrong....???? Last edited by aashaka_gandhi; 01-29-09 at 04:14 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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01-29-09, 05:08 PM	#3
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: In my Castle Posts: 3,280 Rep Power: 7	for forgot to add people who are dating! that's true once grudges are out of the way then its fine, if you hold them in your relationship the relationship will not go far and only get worse! I suppose parents and child relationship can always get mended because its that kind of relationship! Regarding husband and wife, its good to forget some things and move on in life as you will be with that person for the rest of your life, unless you are planning separation and if you mend the relationship it will be best for both and the children and there will be a much happier life! With friends i think its easy to forget things, especially if your good friends, if your not good friends you wont bother patching things up! I think life's too short to hold grudges and think of bad things!

02-09-09, 02:51 AM	#4
smoothvibes Aditya Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,914 Rep Power: 11	blood relations can come back to normal only if you want to but in other cases something remains there means once there is a crack in relation it is always visible but if you really want to stay together then you can fill up that crack. It all depends upon you like how you take things and what you need out of that relation or if you want to continue or not. means mental satisfaction and dissatisfaction makes you think.

02-09-09, 03:06 AM	#5
rupu1983 Guest Posts: n/a	Not every relation is come back to normal including blood relation another thing in such situation really i don't know what to do because it's not easy to control our emotion some times it's very difficult to forget.Now you ask that "if things go wrong in a relationship" it depends upon that particular situation in case of me i can say i don't have any relation with few of my close person.Although still we are not happy because after all it's very painful to all of us but still I strongly believe there is no other way also present.

02-09-09, 04:24 PM	#6
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	in all it depends the way both the ppl think about each other n the relationship thy share....

02-09-09, 04:29 PM	#7
Rameshjeee Aadhavan is Coming Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Leaving Chennai Age: 26 Posts: 3,075 Rep Power: 10	I would just say that: Life is too small to find faults,so forgive, move ahead & enjoy life.We may never get an another opportunity to live again...

02-18-09, 02:58 AM	#8
saurav_k Guest Posts: n/a	people change. things go wrong.just remember. life goes on.........

02-20-09, 04:13 PM	#9
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	yea MOVE ON....theres lot more in the future stored for u.....so.....jus go on...n stop being sad over the past!

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