Thread: Kissing in Public: OK or Not OK

Originally Posted by mail2sc

Its inadequate to come to some conclusions without asking the female members.i know we have less female members here.but still just like Our own Aaka did.princess preety-dreamy sapna and others must give their views too about if girls find it easy and ok to kiss in public.
Just like no clap is possible without two palms.no kiss is possible without two humans.

-F

:lol: :lol:

That was witty!

Lol..ask the cup.

Originally Posted by just4kix

Can't men kiss (other men) in public too?

yes, they can kiss. If a father is kissing his son in market then it is not a problem at all know

even i got some friends and whenever we meet after long time we really don't feel bad in kissing on forehead or cheek.

As i already said kiss is just a way to show the care and affection

Originally Posted by farce

-F

Second that. Extremely witty, indeed.

Thanks guys. I am glad you like my wierd sense of humor ;-)

-F

i think this is so far the summary of the thread that: kissing to show ur love and affection in public is ok. but when it becomes too passionate it may look vulgar to some people who interpret indian culture and "sanskriti" in a traditional way

what ever you guys think....but personally i dont like this.....just imagine what if you are going somewhere with your sister/brother and a couple was lip locked in your way.........what you feel........???

Originally Posted by amitkool21

what ever you guys think....but personally i dont like this.....just imagine what if you are going somewhere with your sister/brother and a couple was lip locked in your way.........what you feel........???

Do you think your brother/sister don't know anything about kissing or it is a sin or something else. Can you please tell me what is wrong with kissing and why you don't think that its OK.
man please come out the home now and see this world is so beautiful and don't tell me that you never kissed your mom or sister to share any memorable moment or to show that yes you care and you love them.
Bro please try and understand kissing is not a sin in any language or in any culture.
If we don't get any bad feelings in kissing mom then why we need to think in such a conservative way about this topic. Kissing is just a way to express love and affection and it can be towards your mom, dad, sister, brother, girlfriend, friend or anyone you like. trust me on this amit.

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

Do you think your brother/sister don't know anything about kissing or it is a sin or something else. Can you please tell me what is wrong with kissing and why you don't think that its OK.
man please come out the home now and see this world is so beautiful and don't tell me that you never kissed your mom or sister to share any memorable moment or to show that yes you care and you love them.
Bro please try and understand kissing is not a sin in any language or in any culture.
If we don't get any bad feelings in kissing mom then why we need to think in such a conservative way about this topic. Kissing is just a way to express love and affection and it can be towards your mom, dad, sister, brother, girlfriend, friend or anyone you like. trust me on this amit.

i wont said that it was an any kind of sin but the thing is doing it on public is not a good idea.........my point is only for COUPLES.........everyone dont have same mentality.........what can i say.........i think i'm saying this because i never kissed my mother/father/sister/brother...........

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

Do you think your brother/sister don't know anything about kissing or it is a sin or something else. Can you please tell me what is wrong with kissing and why you don't think that its OK.
man please come out the home now and see this world is so beautiful and don't tell me that you never kissed your mom or sister to share any memorable moment or to show that yes you care and you love them.
Bro please try and understand kissing is not a sin in any language or in any culture.
If we don't get any bad feelings in kissing mom then why we need to think in such a conservative way about this topic. Kissing is just a way to express love and affection and it can be towards your mom, dad, sister, brother, girlfriend, friend or anyone you like. trust me on this amit.

I agree with you in general. But there are many different kinds of
kissing for example friendly, affectionate, religious, social, erotic, sexual etc.
I am OK with everything except the last two in public, atleast when
children/parents are present.

-F

Originally Posted by farce

I agree with you in general. But there are many different kinds of
kissing for example friendly, affectionate, religious, social, erotic, sexual etc.
I am OK with everything except the last two in public, atleast when
children/parents are present.

-F

ya thats what i want to say.........

yes farce i understand that erotic kissing can not happen in public, here we are talking about kissing only know and as amit you said

Originally Posted by amitkool21

my point is only for COUPLES

so there is nothing wrong in that too.

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

so there is nothing wrong in that too.

i guess the couples do it only in erotic way........if they are husband wife than they wont do it outside of home.......only those couples do it who are unmarried means boyfriend/GF.....and when they wont found any room than they start it on openly.......thats what i think

I hope non of you get in a situation when you are with your parents,and some guys and gals out there are lipping.just hope.

Most of you are pathetic hypocrites.i dont think you will allow your kids or someone younger than you in your house to lip like thats.its just so ridiculous.i am in love too but never wanted or wished my gal will kiss in public.its just so uncomfortable.hope you understand.

Originally Posted by mail2sc

i am in love too but never wanted or wished my gal will kiss in public.its just so uncomfortable.hope you understand.

ya we understand but i want to correct your lines........it was comfortable to us but not for other public.........

Originally Posted by amitkool21

ya we understand but i want to correct your lines........it was comfortable to us but not for other public.........

yes indeed true as you said.

Originally Posted by Manish

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The poll says that around 82% of us thinks that we need to change, we should be open minded and kissing should be allowed in public while around 12% of us thinks that No, kissing is against our culture.

I am bit confused. I found that most of us in our posts said that there should be some decency in ourself and there should be some limit means small kiss can do but kissing or smooching not allowed and we all say no to it.

So why there is a difference in what we say and what the polls are reflecting.

Are we all trying to say that, yes we got a problem with this but this should change.

i dont think soo...it always depends on the two individuals....yes a simple kiss does not harm ...... it can be btwn lovers, frens, parents - daughters/sons, etc etc.....

Originally Posted by mail2sc

Its inadequate to come to some conclusions without asking the female members.i know we have less female members here.but still just like Our own Aaka did.princess preety-dreamy sapna and others must give their views too about if girls find it easy and ok to kiss in public.
Just like no clap is possible without two palms.no kiss is possible without two humans.

i dont think so there is anything wrong.....

Originally Posted by Admin

It wasent just adam and eve... God actually made Adam, eve and steve ... I have no idea why people just pair up adam and eve and always forget about steve

Some countries now allow an Adam-steve marriages so why not kissing in public LOL

LOL

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

yes, they can kiss. If a father is kissing his son in market then it is not a problem at all know

even i got some friends and whenever we meet after long time we really don't feel bad in kissing on forehead or cheek.

As i already said kiss is just a way to show the care and affection

i agreee smoothie

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

yes farce i understand that erotic kissing can not happen in public, here we are talking about kissing only know and as amit you said
so there is nothing wrong in that too.

yeah

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i guess the couples do it only in erotic way........if they are husband wife than they wont do it outside of home.......only those couples do it who are unmarried means boyfriend/GF.....and when they wont found any room than they start it on openly.......thats what i think

well more than lovers ....husband n wife do things like these more in open....coz thy dont ve much fear....but lovers do ve issues like sumone wud recognise n all tht....


i ve a question....when we go abroad whr kissing in public is not new n has been always there ......even indians who go from here dont ve issues n kiss n smooch in public.....?

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

i ve a question....when we go abroad whr kissing in public is not new n has been always there ......even indians who go from here dont ve issues n kiss n smooch in public.....?

i have never gone out of INDIA, not alone and not with my parents too.......whenever i'll i reply your answer.........

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i guess the couples do it only in erotic way........if they are husband wife than they wont do it outside of home.......only those couples do it who are unmarried means boyfriend/GF.....and when they wont found any room than they start it on openly.......thats what i think

I am feeling sorry for this amitkool

its not like that at all.

^^^ sorry dear but i wont get it why you are feeling sorry for me........can you please explain....................

just read your post again mate what you said is

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i guess the couples do it only in erotic way........

what makes you think that couples do it in erotic way only, don't you think they can love each other or they can show care or affection. I really don't think couples meet to make our only or to do erotic kisses.

Originally Posted by amitkool21

if they are husband wife than they wont do it outside of home.......

If your find your partner doing anything cute or lovable then what the problem in kissing or if your partner gets you a nice surprize gift in a mall then don't you think you can kiss him her to show the affection or just to say thanks.

Originally Posted by amitkool21

only those couples do it who are unmarried means boyfriend/GF.....

No, not at all please

Originally Posted by amitkool21

and when they wont found any room than they start it on openly

May be you are correct upto some extend but i really don't agree with this point too

Originally Posted by amitkool21

thats what i think

why you think like that :confused1:

^^^wont a hug can fill the place of kiss in place of everything you explained........

Originally Posted by amitkool21

what ever you guys think....but personally i dont like this.....just imagine what if you are going somewhere with your sister/brother and a couple was lip locked in your way.........what you feel........???

I have scene India's most beautiful erotic art(Ajanta ,Khajuraho,Konarak) with my family and another think that was not restricted for adult because it's India's heritage.We often see a movie where kissing scene is present with our family and so called most of them are family movie(U rated).Now your problem is not new or unique if i am not habituate to wear jeans then initially i will feel not comfortable in jeans like that we are not habituated with such sequence(kissing in public) that's why we will not feel comfortable with our family.But change is the ultimate process of the world if you look the history then you obviously know that circumstances of society has changed in every era and it's a continuing process so being a civilized person we all have to accept it.

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i guess the couples do it only in erotic way........if they are husband wife than they wont do it outside of home.......only those couples do it who are unmarried means boyfriend/GF.....and when they wont found any room than they start it on openly.......thats what i think

Really,may be you are partially correct but still, also in this comment your personal choice is more clear rather than the social thinking.Not always this happen friend some couple enjoy both love & open environment simultaneously but all this depends on personal choice and i hope a sincere couple would know the bound & limit what extent they can enjoy into the open public society.

Originally Posted by rupu1983

I have scene India's most beautiful erotic art(Ajanta ,Khajuraho,Konarak) with my family and another think that was not restricted for adult because it's India's heritage.We often see a movie where kissing scene is present with our family and so called most of them are family movie(U rated).Now your problem is not new or unique if i am not habituate to wear jeans then initially i will feel not comfortable in jeans like that we are not habituated with such sequence(kissing in public) that's why we will not feel comfortable with our family.But change is the ultimate process of the world if you look the history then you obviously know that circumstances of society has changed in every era and it's a continuing process so being a civilized person we all have to accept it.


Really,may be you are partially correct but still, also in this comment comment your personal choice is more clear rather than the social thinking.Not always this happen friend some couple enjoy both love & open environment simultaneously but all this depends on personal choice and i hope a sincere couple would know the bound & limit what extent they can enjoy into the open public society.

i want to say something but i cant explain it in ENGLISH so sorry friend.........and i dont think its good to post that kind of stuff here in HINDI.........