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Kissing in Public: OK or Not OK

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    Kissing in Public: Ok or not OK?

    Recently a couple was caught by the police for kissing in the public (Delhi). They were produced in the court & the couple argued that they were married & the court gave the judgment in favor of the couple. It wasn’t mentioned whether they were kissing or smooching or what ever….

    So, here comes the question: Kissing in public, Is it ok or not?

    Some people may argue that it is not ok, it is not our culture. People kissing in public must be punished, etc, etc.

    Some people may argue that it is an expression of love, when kissing is allowed in the movies then why not people kiss in public, India is the land of origin of Kama Sutra then why say no for kissing in public.

    I myself have seen many times couple kissing in the public. I have seen in the beaches in Chennai, mall/parks in Bangalore. I feel there is a certain limit on how to behave in the public.

    Certain things are acceptable in the public like: Holding hand, holding hands around the waist, kissing on the cheeks/forehead, a gently (few sec) kiss on the lips…

    & certain things are not acceptable in the public like: Smooching, French kiss… Keep these things up to the room & inside the four walls.

    The above things is applicable to both married & unmarried couple.

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    OK.

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    p.s with a time limit of 2 seconds. Anything more
    is not PDA (Public Display of Affection) but PDS.

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    A poll added to the thread will also be better

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    Quote Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm View Post
    A poll added to the thread will also be better
    How do I add a poll...I do not see any option for adding the poll...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    How do I add a poll...I do not see any option for adding the poll...
    Ask the mods or admin.

    Poll is ava oly while creating the thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by newprouser View Post
    Ask the mods or admin.

    Poll is ava oly while creating the thread
    ok...

    now looking forward to your comments/views on this topic...
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    Well its ok as long as its withing a resonable limit.

    PS: what matters more is that as long as people around them aren't jealous, its fine

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    Now first i am giving my opinion that it's ok and one developed & high culture country don't much bother about it that adult's are kissing in public or not but main problem is our country has lots of conservative person also few not literate enough and also not habituated with such thing.They will do oppose specially in rural & village area it will be enormous.So how can any law implement where majority of them do not want to accept it.
    I think a social movement is needed also proper education before such permission otherwise couple will be feel more uncomfortable in such society.

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    OK.

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    p.s with a time limit of 2 seconds. Anything more
    is not PDA (Public Display of Affection) but PDS.
    I second that...

    Time limit inversely proportional to Public Risk...:lol:

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    Showing public affection depend upon the level of affection..As rameshjee already pointed out those thing like holding hand and kiss on cheek. what i believe is there should be decency while showing the affection. Holding hand, Kiss on cheek and giving hug is absolutely within limit and morality in INDIA while kissing i guess that'll feel good to couples but not for other people though they also want same thing

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    Its okay as long its within limits and physical contact is brief.
    if you want to get more intimate, do that privately

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    well, mixed reaction from me on this thing ...

    ok upto a certain limit - just dont make it look vulgar. but police should not be interfering in these matters.

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    Rameshjee's thread was created without a poll option. Unfortunately a poll cannot be added after the thread is created. So this thread is created to add the poll.

    Please do vote.

    And now I have merged the two threads.
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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    OK.

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    p.s with a time limit of 2 seconds. Anything more
    is not PDA (Public Display of Affection) but PDS.
    How will count it with stop watch that.

    Quote Originally Posted by newprouser View Post
    Well its ok as long as its withing a resonable limit.
    What is the limit this parameter is vary one person to another person and deference has present in each cities and villages.
    Quote Originally Posted by gothic_coder View Post
    Showing public affection depend upon the level of affection..As rameshjee already pointed out those thing like holding hand and kiss on cheek. what i believe is there should be decency while showing the affection. Holding hand, Kiss on cheek and giving hug is absolutely within limit and morality in INDIA while kissing i guess that'll feel good to couples but not for other people though they also want same thing
    Kissing mean all kind of kiss why all the time lovers only hold the hand because of other person will protest it what is the problem of others if lovers kiss each other.
    Another what is the morality in India about kissing ?Do you want to mean Indian culture & heritage then if you look old age Indian culture that time i think lots erotic art present in Indian temple(specially Madhya Pradesh,Maharashtra,Orissa,Rajasthan) but unfortunately Indian culture had been changed from the middle age and again this is changing in modern era so we all have to accept it.Finally culture is such thing which is similar to water flow of cascade it's changing in each and every movement.

    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    well, mixed reaction from me on this thing ...

    ok upto a certain limit - just dont make it look vulgar. but police should not be interfering in these matters.
    I think we are just spreading this topic to another direction the main question is
    Kissing in Public: Ok or not OK or not.
    I feel that's the question of 'certain limit' or 'vulgar' this parameter are not same to every one so it will be very contradictory unless our society think it wide mind and just neglect such matter because we can't create a proper definition for what lover will do something like time limit.But the problem is our society and many person are still conservative and middle ago shadow is still present in their thinking also lot of the person not educated enough.So question of right or wrong is not matter our society will take lot more time to become liberal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by just4kix View Post
    Rameshjee's thread was created without a poll option. Unfortunately a poll cannot be added after the thread is created. So this thread is created to add the poll.

    Please do vote.

    And now I have merged the two threads.
    Thanks Just4kix,for adding a poll.
    I had in my mind to add a poll but forgot somehow.
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    Finally the much needed poll was added. Thanks.

    I have always loved public displays of affection. But it should occur naturally. Some tend to overdo it (i have come across plenty).

    BTW am surprised by the news posted by Rameshjee. How can a hubby and wife get caught kissing? I mean are they too busy with their lives that they hardly get to spend time together at their home, and thought of kissing in the road/park/car ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm View Post
    BTW am surprised by the news posted by Rameshjee. How can a hubby and wife get caught kissing? I mean are they too busy with their lives that they hardly get to spend time together at their home, and thought of kissing in the road/park/car ?
    I dunno the in depth details about that...They were recently married....
    Are only unmarried couples allowed to kiss in the public?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    Are only unmarried couples allowed to kiss in the public?
    Certainly not. But why take risk, when they have a fully furnished bedroom waiting for them. They need to control their urges instead of kissing out of the blue? And see what it has brought upon them. Undue publicity. Surely i dont wanna be known all over the internet and be subjected to discussions in forum, over the deeds i did with my wife, just because i was careless !!

    Surely man need to learn to tame his urges. Else he is no different from an animal.

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    According to me kissing in public is OK there is nothing bad in it, thats the very simple way of showing love or affection, i got a bald(ganjaa) friend, most of the times he looks very cute so if i kiss him on his head thats just a simple way of showing affection and if i meet any of my friend after a long time and i kiss her in public then its 100% acceptable.

    Kissing in public is OK but it should not be indecent.

    As rameshjee said
    Keep these things up to the room & inside the four walls.
    rameshjee agar room mae chaaro taraf wall hoga tab koi andar kaisae jaayega :confused1:

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    According to me kissing in public is OK there is nothing bad in it, thats the very simple way of showing love or affection, i got a bald(ganjaa) friend, most of the times he looks very cute so if i kiss him on his head thats just a simple way of showing affection and if i meet any of my friend after a long time and i kiss her in public then its 100% acceptable.

    Kissing in public is OK but it should not be indecent.

    As rameshjee said

    rameshjee agar room mae chaaro taraf wall hoga tab koi andar kaisae jaayega :confused1:
    Its fine upto kissing....But no smooching (not smoothvibes) or french kiss in the public..

    its the problem of the couple...y me bother.....
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    ^^ True. Even i am fine with pecks on the lips and the cheeks in public. But a full fledged kiss??

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    Agar sab kuch public mein he karega tho ghar jakar kya karega....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    Agar sab kuch public mein he karega tho ghar jakar kya karega....
    Ghar ja kar nahaayega mummy ka accha baccha aur nayae nayae kapdae badal kar ghoomnae ko jaayega

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    Quote Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm
    True. Even i am fine with pecks on the lips and the cheeks in public. But a full fledged kiss??
    what do you mean by full fledged kiss, as i said its just simple way of expressing love, care and affection. Even lip kiss is not bad in public but it should not look indecent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    what do you mean by full fledged kiss, as i said its just simple way of expressing love, care and affection. Even lip kiss is not bad in public but it should not look indecent.
    Light lip kiss or like i mentioned a peck on the lips is fine. By full fledged kiss i mean something which makes the police come and arrest one and his/her partner for indecency.

    Lets get the facts straight. No police would arrest someone for small pecks or smooches. This had to be something gross and even the policemen couldn't take it. And they were arrested.

    And they were let free only due to the consideration that they were legally married. But i am sure the court must have also warned them never to get into the limelight again

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    I agree with you cool techie that Delhi Police will never arrest anyone for a simple kiss or smooch, I still remember my collage day's, Delhi Police only smiles :sneaky2:

    sometimes they even don't react at all and just let these things go on without any restrictions or interference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    Agar sab kuch public mein he karega tho ghar jakar kya karega....
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    Ghar ja kar nahaayega mummy ka accha baccha aur nayae nayae kapdae badal kar ghoomnae ko jaayega
    Ethical Kissing LOL

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    See, everything has its own limit. if limited are crossed you have face consequences

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    It is very difficult to answer this through just Yes or NO.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    I feel there is a certain limit on how to behave in the public.

    Certain things are acceptable in the public like: Holding hand, holding hands around the waist, kissing on the cheeks/forehead, a gently (few sec) kiss on the lips…

    & certain things are not acceptable in the public like: Smooching, French kiss… Keep these things up to the room & inside the four walls.

    As Ramesh said, there should be some limit how you are behaving in the public. A hug or a small kiss or cheek or a forehead will do. but i don't thing India is ready for smooch:winkiss:

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    i dont mind couple kissing in public,its shud be not of sexual nature

    expressing love is not wrong ,but it shudnt cross the decency level,

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    almost everyone's opinion on this thread is exactly the same so far.

    i hope emraan hashmi comes in here and explain things better. remember the public kissing in the movie "tumsa nahin dekha" with diya mirza!!! :lol:

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    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    almost everyone's opinion on this thread is exactly the same so far.

    i hope emraan hashmi comes in here and explain things better. remember the public kissing in the movie "tumsa nahin dekha" with diya mirza!!! :lol:
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    Kissing wit whom? our gf or kissing others gf.....

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    which ever you like, its all your wish mate

    ok we are just talking about the baisc thing like if Kissing in public is or not ok
    what do you think about it
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    Quote Originally Posted by Robdale View Post
    Kissing wit whom? our gf or kissing others gf.....
    Kissing other's GF is going to have much more serious consequences than the ones which the delhi couples had faced

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    Quote Originally Posted by robdale View Post
    kissing wit whom? Our gf or kissing others gf.....:d
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    which ever you like, its all your wish mate :d

    ok we are just talking about the baisc thing like if kissing in public is or not ok
    what do you think about it
    rofl :d

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    i think the couple was making anti social activity, their home is the best place they can need to do,,...kissing in public is not an Indian character, and whats not Indian is not taken in a good sense in our country...

    meanwhile whats the need to kiss someone in an polluted environment,...go to your home and do whatever you want, noone will object and no carbon mono-oxide will enter down your airpipes..
    job takes the child away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robdale View Post
    Kissing wit whom? our gf or kissing others gf.....
    in that case police wont do anything ... ladki ka BF aakar hi pitai kar dega ... :lol:

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    well as per me i dont think so there shud not b any restrictions on kissing in public....!

    but there shud b a sense of decency maintained.....!
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    I think there would be some amount of moral policing should be enforced else things go out of hand. recently i went to a public place with my Girl and there was a couple there. the Girl's head between guys legs.

    First i didn't released what they were up but then i was like What the FCUK man!
    I was totally embarrassed in front my Girl:38:

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    next time when you and your wife are outside and suddenly you feel like kissing her, tell her darling jaldi ghar chalo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary4gar View Post
    I think there would be some amount of moral policing should be enforced else things go out of hand. recently i went to a public place with my Girl and there was a couple there. the Girl's head between guys legs.

    First i didn't released what they were up but then i was like What the FCUK man!
    I was totally embarrassed in front my Girl:38:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary4gar View Post
    I think there would be some amount of moral policing should be enforced else things go out of hand. recently i went to a public place with my Girl and there was a couple there. the Girl's head between guys legs.

    First i didn't released what they were up but then i was like What the FCUK man!
    I was totally embarrassed in front my Girl:38:
    I totally missed this post

    WTF, how can they the most embarrasing part was that you were wid your gf,

    then how did you reacted? You should have behaved as you haven't noticed that

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    Quote Originally Posted by mail2sc View Post
    i think the couple was making anti social activity, their home is the best place they can need to do,,...kissing in public is not an Indian character, and whats not Indian is not taken in a good sense in our country...
    What is the 'Indian character' ? who set this parameter ?Do you think 'Indian character' is a living fossils it's need to preserve in the museum if we look back the cultural history of India then we will find lots of 'Indian character' in different ages and it changes in every era nothing is constant.In history we can find romance in public in Gupta(historian says this is best era of cultural history in India), Maruya era.Now the problem is may be you like the middle age culture and i like old age so better people should take the decision which way they want to go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary4gar View Post
    I think there would be some amount of moral policing should be enforced else things go out of hand. recently i went to a public place with my Girl and there was a couple there. the Girl's head between guys legs.

    First i didn't released what they were up but then i was like What the FCUK man!
    I was totally embarrassed in front my Girl:38:
    Maybe she was just sleeping on his lap?

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    Yes right farce..
    I think they can do that in public..:-P
    sleeping like that.,i think i will it
    job takes the child away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by newprouser View Post
    Second that ... totally indecent

    Quote Originally Posted by rupu1983 View Post
    What is the 'Indian character' ? who set this parameter ?Do you think 'Indian character' is a living fossils it's need to preserve in the museum if we look back the cultural history of India then we will find lots of 'Indian character' in different ages and it changes in every era nothing is constant.In history we can find romance in public in Gupta(historian says this is best era of cultural history in India), Maruya era.Now the problem is may be you like the middle age culture and i like old age so better people should take the decision which way they want to go.

    I just saw this thread now ... and really man this is an excellent post ......

    Who has the right to define what Indian Culture/character is ? You may notice that its political parties [power hungry] who do most of this moral policing ..... Every valentine's day some or the other political party people go and beat up all the youngsters they see outside brutally resulting in fractures ..... is that what Indian Culture is ? Thats just Hooliganism , Mafioso mentality .... They show no civility , Discipline and are really a disgrace to humanity ..... Just because they can get away with such things they do it ...... The recent Manglore pub episode is really a shame , In such a case can india be called a democracy ??

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    Quote Originally Posted by mail2sc View Post
    i think the couple was making anti social activity, their home is the best place they can need to do,,...kissing in public is not an Indian character, and whats not Indian is not taken in a good sense in our country...

    meanwhile whats the need to kiss someone in an polluted environment,...go to your home and do whatever you want, noone will object and no carbon mono-oxide will enter down your airpipes..
    Respect your opinion about "kissing in public" but your logic defies me. You need to do some serious introspection.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary4gar View Post
    I think there would be some amount of moral policing should be enforced else things go out of hand. recently i went to a public place with my Girl and there was a couple there. the Girl's head between guys legs.

    First i didn't released what they were up but then i was like What the FCUK man!
    I was totally embarrassed in front my Girl:38:
    WTF!! I thought u were single. And enjoyed being single Ahh times do change ...

    Quote Originally Posted by Manish View Post
    I totally missed this post

    WTF, how can they the most embarrasing part was that you were wid your gf,

    then how did you reacted? You should have behaved as you haven't noticed that
    Yes, how did u react?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Manish View Post
    I totally missed this post

    WTF, how can they the most embarrasing part was that you were wid your gf,

    then how did you reacted? You should have behaved as you haven't noticed that
    That what I was about to say...You should have just behaved as you didn't see anything...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    That what I was about to say...You should have just behaved as you didn't see anything...
    Yes, just ignore them. Both you and your gf are adults, so I don't
    see a problem, just look away. BUT the dynamic changes if you
    have children with you. They should not have to watch X rated
    stuff. If I had children present with me at that time I'd go to them and
    politely ask them to not do that in front of children. I mean
    kissing is OK but nothing indecent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Manish View Post
    next time when you and your wife are outside and suddenly you feel like kissing her, tell her darling jaldi ghar chalo
    LOL....

    well gaurish......yes being adults...u or ur gf shudnt ve had problems but yes it wud be embarrassing....!!!

    well here we r discussing only about kissing in public....n nothing els.e.....! obviously there r better places to do things like these.....than in a public place.....i really wonder.....but than the only option we ve is not b bothered n walk off.....!

    obviously there has to b some limits ....
    as per me....kissing is fine in public but things apart from that....naah i dont think so......

    i myself ve seen lot of things happening in a park or some garden or cars.....n these ppl r not even bothered sorts.......it more or less embarasses us.....!
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    Quote Originally Posted by cool_techie_tvm View Post
    WTF!! I thought u were single. And enjoyed being single Ahh times do change ...



    Yes, how did u react?
    Being Single does not mean i can't date anyone I just don't want to commit, as my priorities are different.

    well, what would i say man!
    I was too embarrassed to say anything,but my GF said "Hey, look! how disgusting"


    PS:I posted about this here, as someone here pointed out we shouldn't have moral policing at all. I just wanted to say, some amount of moral policing is need of the hour

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary4gar View Post
    Being Single does not mean i can't date anyone
    Lol. True indeed

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    I will again like to highlight that kissing in public is not an Indian character.sorry for being against whats others are saying.but i think that kissing is very intimate thing.very personal emotions are expressed by kiss.its just like having $€# in public.i think the word itself is very humble and intimate.we dont just kiss anYONE.we kiss either our mates or to those who are our spouse.i feel kissing is not just involving of mouths or lips.but its more than that.i will really feel embarrassed if my mate will do it in public.infact i feel that a normal Indian girl must feel about doing it in public.sorry for my such believes,may be i am an oldee,not changing with the world.but kissing affection and love are very sacred for me.its like eating food,which you cant eat nicely in open.rests your wish.its my feeling that one who has real emotions will never show off rather catch her/his arms hold her/his neck and leave it there no her/his lips.the patch of tenderness and sincerity for someone.thats i think is going to be uncomfortable in public.
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    Forget normal people kissing in parks & restaurants and getting bashed up by police... India isn't a safe place to show affection publicly anywhere by anyone... Who knows it better than Richard Gere & Shilpa Shetty...

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    I love a Russian girl.and she herself says that kissing is intimate thing.and that she feels uncomfortable doing it to someone she love in public.she is from a more modern society where kissing is normal thing.but even she feels so.she says sex culture is in last stage in Russia.many young people arent virgin but still she and many people like her feel so.meanwhile the Russian govt. Has declined senate members kissing each other because it introduced cultural degradation of the society.in eastern european states new norms are set for public morality.so what ways are we taking up?is it really very very important to kiss in public?
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    its it totally depends on person to person....every individual ve their own point n thy follow the same.....
    Dont count wat u lost, cherish wat u ve & plan wat to gain...coz past neva returns but future may return the lost! Think-Decide-Act!!!!

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    Yes i just try to mean that suppose i am conservative person but it's my personal view how can i expect everybody should be same.Which culture i like this is my choice another person may have different life style and culture and one liberal society should give such freedom to all the person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gary4gar View Post
    I think there would be some amount of moral policing should be enforced else things go out of hand. recently i went to a public place with my Girl and there was a couple there. the Girl's head between guys legs.

    First i didn't released what they were up but then i was like What the FCUK man!
    I was totally embarrassed in front my Girl:38:
    now these are the people that need to be bashed up (just a figure of speech) , instead, it is them who are harmlessly enjoying their time together ... India is a screwed nation.

    i mean WTF!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    now these are the people that need to be bashed up (just a figure of speech) , instead, it is them who are harmlessly enjoying their time together ... India is a screwed nation.

    i mean WTF!!!
    enjoying what? Harmlessly? And if two of your kids passed by?
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