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    in Starry's post there is a space between girl and friend.

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    by girl friends i mean, my friends who are girls ... actually my class in school had more girls than boys ... oo u won't like em smoothie...

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnight View Post
    by girl friends i mean, my friends who are girls ... actually my class in school had more girls than boys ... oo u won't like em smoothie...
    ohhh :sad:

    alright if you think so then its ok mate

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    A diplomat is a man who always remember a woman's birth day but not the age....

    Yes they can be friends.... I am.

    i have a girl-friend(both words are separated) we both are very close to each other we share EVERYTHING !!!! and we both are doctors so you can guess what all everything means....! though we share such things there's never been any problem of chemistry......! LOL we were & we are very good friends and now i am the one who has searched a boy for her marriage.... i am happy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirankumargb View Post
    A diplomat is a man who always remember a woman's birth day but not the age....

    Yes they can be friends.... I am.

    i have a girl-friend(both words are separated) we both are very close to each other we share EVERYTHING !!!! and we both are doctors so you can guess what all everything means....! though we share such things there's never been any problem of chemistry......! LOL we were & we are very good friends and now i am the one who has searched a boy for her marriage.... i am happy.
    Hi mate

    great to see you here and i think you may like to say something on these 2 topics
    http://www.indiabroadband.net/relati...rvive-sex.html
    http://www.indiabroadband.net/relati...k-buddies.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    Hi mate

    great to see you here and i think you may like to say something on these 2 topics
    http://www.indiabroadband.net/relati...rvive-sex.html
    yes i have added my thought on it,
    i didnt understand it much by reading the fist post so later ill read a few more post & add my thought about it too...

    Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post

    Offtopic: just saw danny86's avtaar... rememberd... there was a time when our rameshjee use to dance like this :sad:

    LOL :lol:
    where is he nw? i guess i copied that avatar 4rm his profile only

    Quote Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi View Post
    well i dont think so its complex its very normal....
    ya its normal in real life, but complex to explain, as there are diff. kinds of friends, situations and people.
    Last edited by danny86; 02-18-09 at 10:24 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirankumargb View Post
    A diplomat is a man who always remember a woman's birth day but not the age....

    Yes they can be friends.... I am.

    i have a girl-friend(both words are separated) we both are very close to each other we share EVERYTHING !!!! and we both are doctors so you can guess what all everything means....! though we share such things there's never been any problem of chemistry......! LOL we were & we are very good friends and now i am the one who has searched a boy for her marriage.... i am happy.

    Aren't patient records confidential????

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    Aren't patient records confidential????

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    absolutely they are confidential but not between doctors we can access anything from any were
    As we are used to those kind of things being doctor so it really does not make difference even when we talk about our self, to the other person who is listening for him/her i will be just like a patient & same either side...

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    A guy n a girl cannot be good friends, there is always attraction and they end up having affair, it can be good one n can be bad one.


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    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    A guy n a girl cannot be good friends, there is always attraction and they end up having affair, it can be good one n can be bad one.


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    didnt get the bolded part of your post?

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    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    didnt get the bolded part of your post?
    he's talking about the affair, that could end up being a good 1 or a bad 1.

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    Quote Originally Posted by danny86 View Post
    he's talking about the affair, that could end up being a good 1 or a bad 1.
    hmm... got it now

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    yes we share all of our moments, joys and problems.

    Means u have a good chemistry vid ur friends

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    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    A guy n a girl cannot be good friends, there is always attraction and they end up having affair, it can be good one n can be bad one.


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    aakash i think you may like to read my previous posts and why do you think like that, any example or experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    aakash i think you may like to read my previous posts and why do you think like that, any example or experience.
    but his experience is not really relevant to the overall question right?
    The question is "Can guys and girls be just friends". If he has
    experience to the contrary what does it prove? nothing.

    On the other hand people like you and me have experiences
    that answer the question as 'yes'.

    An analogy can be "Can there be sweet grapes?"

    I say Yes, because I have eaten sweet grapes.

    what Akash is saying is There cannot be any sweet grapes because
    I ate some sour ones.

    -F

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    but his experience is not really relevant to the overall question right?
    The question is "Can guys and girls be just friends". If he has
    experience to the contrary what does it prove? nothing.

    On the other hand people like you and me have experiences
    that answer the question as 'yes'.

    An analogy can be "Can there be sweet grapes?"

    I say Yes, because I have eaten sweet grapes.

    what Akash is saying is There cannot be any sweet grapes because
    I ate some sour ones.

    -F
    LOL !! :lol:

    you are really out of the world farce

    can understand mate
    Last edited by smoothvibes; 02-20-09 at 05:40 AM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Let's see if Akash comes back with a reply...

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    sure please, we can wait for his post
    but my reply will remain the same

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    Yeah, I have seen it that way only.

    tell me one good reason why anyone writing here is attracted to a girl for sake of friendship or due to sheer attraction ?
    Last edited by aakashbhatnagar; 02-20-09 at 01:48 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    tell me one good reason why anyone writing here is attracted to a girl for sake of friendship or due to sheer attraction ?
    I read that three times but still cannot figure out what your questions is...

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    I mean to say there is always a physical attraction first btw a boy n a gal and friendship can be byproduct of it in rare cases.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    I mean to say there is always a physical attraction first btw a boy n a gal and friendship can be byproduct of it in rare cases.
    with any girl and all girls you see/meet?

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    I say this for all cases

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rameshjeee View Post
    A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
    Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.
    My reply is quite similar to ramesh.Really practically such friendship ended at some point of time.
    The second thing is that here everybody replying with their own definition about friendship some have very intimate friends some have good but not the such intimate & some have just so called friend that's why indian mythology friends has divided into three category "Sakha","Mitra" & "Bandhav" i have written all this things with a specific purpose and that is everybody replying their own view about friendship or the friends which they get in their first phase of life. Obviously this reply base on personal experience & expectation from the friend.Who can say which is the ultimate sweet grapes in the world.Akash also would have been tasted the sweet grapes like farce but may be that's not fulfill his expectation.

    Now coming to the topic when boys & girls become friend then it has always a chance present to convert it into love and those are saying they have very good girl friend(read separately) may be most of the time the are in co-worker, college mate such friendship will continue with normal process and it can maintain same way in long time but very few time a boy become friend of girl from no where they are not co-worker or else such friendship often converted to love or it will break at some stage of life. One line i have accepted of akash that “there is always attraction" it's biological statement i don't differ it and I also feel thread starter asked this question from practical point of view. Just think if boy or girl anyone become married then boy’s wife or girl’s husband will tolerate if boy or girl both has intimate friendship each other like both went to trip for couple of days what two male friends often did after marriage also lots more think which can create problem.

    So if summarized then in single sentence
    Yes this friendship(in case of intimate friend) can be possible up to one level and specially after one of them married then either this friendship become fade or can be arise few complexity .

    [Try to remember did you ever see a single bollywood movie where boys & girls only a friend and without any complexity does not arise from that point please don’t give example of Aamir’s RDB]

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