in Starry's post there is a space between girl and friend.
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in Starry's post there is a space between girl and friend.
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by girl friends i mean, my friends who are girls... actually my class in school had more girls than boys
... oo u won't like em smoothie...
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A diplomat is a man who always remember a woman's birth day but not the age....
Yes they can be friends.... I am.
i have a girl-friend(both words are separated) we both are very close to each other we share EVERYTHING !!!! and we both are doctors so you can guess what all everything means....! though we share such things there's never been any problem of chemistry......! LOL we were & we are very good friends and now i am the one who has searched a boy for her marriage.... i am happy.
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yes i have added my thought on it,
i didnt understand it much by reading the fist post so later ill read a few more post & add my thought about it too...
Thanks
Last edited by danny86; 02-18-09 at 10:24 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost
absolutely they are confidential but not between doctorswe can access anything from any were
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As we are used to those kind of things being doctor so it really does not make difference even when we talk about our self, to the other person who is listening for him/her i will be just like a patient & same either side...
A guy n a girl cannot be good friends, there is always attraction and they end up having affair, it can be good one n can be bad one.
Regards
Aakash
but his experience is not really relevant to the overall question right?
The question is "Can guys and girls be just friends". If he has
experience to the contrary what does it prove? nothing.
On the other hand people like you and me have experiences
that answer the question as 'yes'.
An analogy can be "Can there be sweet grapes?"
I say Yes, because I have eaten sweet grapes.
what Akash is saying is There cannot be any sweet grapes because
I ate some sour ones.
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Let's see if Akash comes back with a reply...
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sure please, we can wait for his post
but my reply will remain the same![]()
Yeah, I have seen it that way only.
tell me one good reason why anyone writing here is attracted to a girl for sake of friendship or due to sheer attraction ?
Last edited by aakashbhatnagar; 02-20-09 at 01:48 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost
I mean to say there is always a physical attraction first btw a boy n a gal and friendship can be byproduct of it in rare cases.
I say this for all cases
My reply is quite similar to ramesh.Really practically such friendship ended at some point of time.
The second thing is that here everybody replying with their own definition about friendship some have very intimate friends some have good but not the such intimate & some have just so called friend that's why indian mythology friends has divided into three category "Sakha","Mitra" & "Bandhav" i have written all this things with a specific purpose and that is everybody replying their own view about friendship or the friends which they get in their first phase of life. Obviously this reply base on personal experience & expectation from the friend.Who can say which is the ultimate sweet grapes in the world.Akash also would have been tasted the sweet grapes like farce but may be that's not fulfill his expectation.
Now coming to the topic when boys & girls become friend then it has always a chance present to convert it into love and those are saying they have very good girl friend(read separately) may be most of the time the are in co-worker, college mate such friendship will continue with normal process and it can maintain same way in long time but very few time a boy become friend of girl from no where they are not co-worker or else such friendship often converted to love or it will break at some stage of life. One line i have accepted of akash that “there is always attraction" it's biological statement i don't differ it and I also feel thread starter asked this question from practical point of view. Just think if boy or girl anyone become married then boy’s wife or girl’s husband will tolerate if boy or girl both has intimate friendship each other like both went to trip for couple of days what two male friends often did after marriage also lots more think which can create problem.
So if summarized then in single sentence
Yes this friendship(in case of intimate friend) can be possible up to one level and specially after one of them married then either this friendship become fade or can be arise few complexity .
[Try to remember did you ever see a single bollywood movie where boys & girls only a friend and without any complexity does not arise from that point please don’t give example of Aamir’s RDB]
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