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    Man I don't know wats ur age but its not at all about tasting grapes, thats basic principle with which human population grow.

    Read science book again : Opposites always attract.

    Baseline is physical attraction if u can eat grapes u say its friendship (sour grapes).

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    did you telling me ? i have already agree with our such comment

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    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    Man I don't know wats ur age but its not at all about tasting grapes, thats basic principle with which human population grow.

    Read science book again : Opposites always attract.

    Baseline is physical attraction if u can eat grapes u say its friendship (sour grapes).
    You didn't understand my 'grapes' post at all did you????

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    what's my age got to do with anything. rest assured that I am
    no spring chicken ;-)

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    Hey all friends,
    It was nice talking to u all and knowing ur viewpoints. It's an open ended question whose answer depends on perspective which a person uses to see.
    Like : which one came before Murgi or Aanda

    I'd like to thank u all for responding my comments.

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    Quote Originally Posted by player View Post
    I dont think so its normal as we grow older and older things becomes more complex not between the boy and girl BUT the surrounding

    Just imagine you are hanging with your best friend and she's a girl and you are roaming here and there and your neighbours or your relatives saw you with her or any other friend who is a girl then they will think that somehting is going on!!!

    Then what you will no matter on how much you say that i am just a friend etc etc but still they will not agree with you completely xD

    Situation changes according to the age factor!!
    well it totally depends as i said earlier the way u want ur relation to b with tht person....!!! plus player i guess its stupid tht if ur neighbours or relatives or nyone saw u arnd wid ur fren n take him or her as ur gf/bf .....i m sorry i wudnt even bother about them n let em think whteva.....

    yes being a girl...this things usually affect the reputation as in tht look @ tht girl ...the way shez roaming wid ht t guy n all....but i find tht very stupid.....first of all i feel thy dont ve a life of their own tht thy want to poke their nose in our personal life.....thnkfully my parents r very fwd n ve a diff outlook towards life n frens....so i m really happy....specially my mom gives it back when sum relatives tell em tht we saw her with sum guys @ this place late in the nite n all....n its def fun when mom replies yes i knew whr my daughter was but do u wanna kno the details of wht n wid whom ur daughter or son was n doing wht??? since u wont b knowing all the truth....

    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    in Starry's post there is a space between girl and friend.

    -F
    LOL..... thnks for spefying starry...i to didnt kno....

    Quote Originally Posted by danny86 View Post
    where is he nw? i guess i copied that avatar 4rm his profile only


    ya its normal in real life, but complex to explain, as there are diff. kinds of friends, situations and people.
    yes totally...... but as its said oppsites attract also...the understnding level of oppesite sexes is also more....

    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    A guy n a girl cannot be good friends, there is always attraction and they end up having affair, it can be good one n can be bad one.


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    well i dont agree to tht....i ve a lot of frens who r my very good frens....n tht means frens....

    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    Yeah, I have seen it that way only.

    tell me one good reason why anyone writing here is attracted to a girl for sake of friendship or due to sheer attraction ?
    well prolly u think only in one direction......i dont understnd to b frens wid someone there has to b tht quality of attraction...thts bullshit ...utter nonsense....

    Quote Originally Posted by aakashbhatnagar View Post
    I mean to say there is always a physical attraction first btw a boy n a gal and friendship can be byproduct of it in rare cases.
    Nope....disagreed

    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    You didn't understand my 'grapes' post at all did you????

    -F

    what's my age got to do with anything. rest assured that I am
    no spring chicken ;-)
    guess so....looks likes he think u r a chotu saa bacha......farcey


    well my answer as earlier is definately yes a boy n girl can be frens...no doubts on tht....
    Dont count wat u lost, cherish wat u ve & plan wat to gain...coz past neva returns but future may return the lost! Think-Decide-Act!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rupu1983 View Post

    [Try to remember did you ever see a single bollywood movie where boys & girls only a friend and without any complexity does not arise from that point please don’t give example of Aamir’s RDB]
    even RDB had a slight hint of such complexity ... i dont know how many people ever noticed it ... or may be didnt take it that way ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    yes they can be friends, i got number of friends who are girls and there is nothing like chemistry or biology and yes we share all of our moments, joys and problems.
    Quote Originally Posted by danny86 View Post
    Means u have a good chemistry vid ur friends
    share all of our moments, joys and problems. Dont u think this is vat is having a chemistry vid ur friends means?

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    Quote Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi View Post

    LOL..... thnks for spefying starry...i to didnt kno....
    till the point was explained, i can imagine what u wud be thinkin of me :lol:

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    Quote Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi View Post
    i feel thy dont ve a life of their own tht thy want to poke their nose in our personal life.....
    I completely agree, This is the main problem.

    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    even RDB had a slight hint of such complexity ... i dont know how many people ever noticed it ... or may be didnt take it that way ...
    communication problem??

    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post

    An analogy can be "Can there be sweet grapes?"

    I say Yes, because I have eaten sweet grapes.

    what Akash is saying is There cannot be any sweet grapes because
    I ate some sour ones.

    -F
    Quite a relevant analogy, some get to taste only sweet grapes, some tastes both kinds, and some people only get to taste sour ones .
    Last edited by danny86; 02-20-09 at 09:17 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    even RDB had a slight hint of such complexity ... i dont know how many people ever noticed it ... or may be didnt take it that way ...
    That's why i have written that.
    Just remember that the last comment of Dara Singh in the movie Jab we met. Now we often see if any boy & girl have any particular special opposite sex friend(not always office mate,college mate type or any other) then few cases(may be 60-40 chance) it converted into love or it become little fade at certain stage so some times people of society always try to speculate about such relation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rupu1983 View Post
    That's why i have written that.
    Just remember that the last comment of Dara Singh in the movie Jab we met. Now we often see if any boy & girl have any particular special opposite sex friend(not always office mate,college mate type or any other) then few cases(may be 60-40 chance) it converted into love or it become little fade at certain stage so some times people of society always try to speculate about such relation.
    vat complexity as saurav is saying was there in RDB? I guessed: "communication problem" cause aamir khan wasnt good with english in the movie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by danny86 View Post
    vat complexity as saurav is saying was there in RDB? I guessed: "communication problem" cause aamir khan wasnt good with english in the movie.
    NO NO NO ... think a bit deeper ... i am not talking about aamir. remember the scene where madhavan proposes soha ali khan to marry ... everybody was dancing and celebrating after that ...

    there was a small emotional scene between siddharth and soha ali khan ... if you dont watch the movie again you wont understand ... this is something what not many people will agree with ... but i read about it somewhere on the internet almost a year ago.... the interpretation of this scene depends on the viewer ... so plz dont make this an issue of argument here ... but there was some chemistry(old) between them.

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    I never mention that relation( Aamir Khan & Alice Patten) because that relation also converted in love at the end i just try to mention Soha's relation with other friends but really bollywood has very rare movie about only friendship of boy & girl.Please any one give me any example.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    NO NO NO ... think a bit deeper ... i am not talking about aamir. remember the scene where madhavan proposes soha ali khan to marry ... everybody was dancing and celebrating after that ...

    there was a small emotional scene between siddharth and soha ali khan ... if you dont watch the movie again you wont understand ... this is something what not many people will agree with ... but i read about it somewhere on the internet almost a year ago.... the interpretation of this scene depends on the viewer ... so plz dont make this an issue of argument here ... but there was some chemistry(old) between them.
    dont remember that scene

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    Quote Originally Posted by rupu1983 View Post
    I never mention that relation( Aamir Khan & Alice Patten) because that relation also converted in love at the end i just try to mention Soha's relation with other friends but really bollywood has very rare movie about only friendship of boy & girl.Please any one give me any example.

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    Rupu1983 - which is the black horse and which is the white one?



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    If above picture any white horse present(according to you) then obliviously it's which "under the shadow of cylinder" is white horse because another one is black it's clearly visible in light.

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    anyone else want to solve this puzzle? (actually the real puzzle is
    why I put this puzzle here?), so you have a 2-in-1 puzzle ;-)


    -F

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    :blink:, any hint? they both look same to me

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    Quote Originally Posted by danny86 View Post
    :blink:, any hint? they both look same to me
    wow, that's pretty cool, you are immune to optical illusions!!!

    -F

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    what's it suppose to mean??
    It is an optical Illusion?

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    The chessboard picture I posted, with two horses.
    That's an optical illusion. What were you referring
    to in your post?

    -F

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    okie ppl....enuf of offtopic.......!!!!!

    get bak to the topic......

    well yes danny i kinda got ur point the same way u told about soha n siddharth.....but every person wud think in a diff way as u said.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    anyone else want to solve this puzzle? (actually the real puzzle is
    why I put this puzzle here?), so you have a 2-in-1 puzzle ;-)


    -F
    Yes i will

    The horse which is not coming under the shadow of the cylinder is the white horse!! and i am pretty much sure about well this is what i think

    Now my reason for that is most of you will say that its clearly visible under the light its black then how come its white, its actually a white horse which is placed under a black square! so thats why from your point of view it is looking like a black horse

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    Quote Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi View Post
    okie ppl....enuf of offtopic.......!!!!!

    get bak to the topic......

    well yes danny i kinda got ur point the same way u told about soha n siddharth.....but every person wud think in a diff way as u said.....
    it was saurav who told us about soha and siddhart not me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka View Post
    NO NO NO ... think a bit deeper ... i am not talking about aamir. remember the scene where madhavan proposes soha ali khan to marry ... everybody was dancing and celebrating after that ...

    there was a small emotional scene between siddharth and soha ali khan ... if you dont watch the movie again you wont understand ... this is something what not many people will agree with ... but i read about it somewhere on the internet almost a year ago.... the interpretation of this scene depends on the viewer ... so plz dont make this an issue of argument here ... but there was some chemistry(old) between them.
    Last edited by danny86; 03-04-09 at 10:35 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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    Quote Originally Posted by player View Post


    Yes i will

    The horse which is not coming under the shadow of the cylinder is the white horse!! and i am pretty much sure about well this is what i think

    Now my reason for that is most of you will say that its clearly visible under the light its black then how come its white, its actually a white horse which is placed under a black square! so thats why from your point of view it is looking like a black horse
    Both horses are the same color!!!

    -F

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