Thread: Can Guys And Girls Be 'just friends'

Can Guys And Girls Be 'just friends', or will there always be a chemistry between them??

Originally Posted by Gary4gar

Can Guys And Girls Be 'just friends', or will there always be a chemistry between them??

Yes, sure why not. My best friend in college was a girl.

Although I have to be honest and say some chemistry was involved.
She used to help me out in lab experiments ;-)

-F

Yes..Of course

Absolutely.
During my college days three of my best friends were girls. I even helped out in their boy friend problems, and they managed to set me up with my then girl friend

Originally Posted by farce

yes, sure why not. My best friend in college was a girl.

Although i have to be honest and say some chemistry was involved.
She used to help me out in lab experiments ;-)

-f

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Originally Posted by panchabhut

Absolutely.
During my college days three of my best friends were girls. I even helped out in their boy friend problems, and they managed to set me up with my then girl friend

cool... u guys have any experience in helping couples to elope...

A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.

Originally Posted by farce

Yes, sure why not. My best friend in college was a girl.

Although I have to be honest and say some chemistry was involved.
She used to help me out in lab experiments ;-)

-F

:lol:

Originally Posted by newprouser

cool... u guys have any experience in helping couples to elope...

i too have similar experience ... specially solving some complex love triangles in my friend circle ...

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.

very true, boys can remain life long buddies.
I'm not sure about boy n girl especially if they both r good looking, there is always flirting in the air till one gives up n falls for the other.

Originally Posted by danny86

very true, boys can remain life long buddies.
I'm not sure about boy n girl especially if they both r good looking, there is always flirting in the air till one gives up n falls for the other.

very well said ... very true

Originally Posted by danny86

very true, boys can remain life long buddies.
I'm not sure about boy n girl especially if they both r good looking, there is always flirting in the air till one gives up n falls for the other.

What if you have two women friends?

-F

Originally Posted by farce

What if you have two women friends?

-F

thats where the triangles start

yep.
strangely if u have 2 female friends and one falls for u, the other some how also tries her level best to get u.
seen several such cases. in most of them the guy went for a third girl.

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

thats where the triangles start

OK, what if she has a bf or husband?

-F

Originally Posted by farce

OK, what if she has a bf or husband?

-F

lemme guess the next probable question from you -

what if her husband/bf has another affair ?

oops ... seems the entire thing is getting very complex :lol:

Originally Posted by panchabhut

yep.
strangely if u have 2 female friends and one falls for u, the other some how also tries her level best to get u.
seen several such cases. in most of them the guy went for a third girl.

very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.

that's cheating:cool2:, guy/husband is not worth any of them.

Originally Posted by panchabhut

yep.
strangely if u have 2 female friends and one falls for u, the other some how also tries her level best to get u.
seen several such cases. in most of them the guy went for a third girl.

very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

lemme guess the next probable question from you -

what if her husband/bf has another affair ?

oops ... seems the entire thing is getting very complex :lol:

that's cheating:cool2:, guy/husband is not worth any of them.

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.

i dont think so.....i totally disagree with u.....

Originally Posted by danny86

very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.

that's cheating:cool2:, guy/husband is not worth any of them.


very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.




that's cheating:cool2:, guy/husband is not worth any of them.

xcuse me .....how many girls do u kno n ve done stuff like tht tht u r commenting in such a way?

i ve a different thing.....two girls can be frens, two guys can be frens n a girl n a guy can also be frens......

i ve 4 best frens......first one is a girl since jr. kg till now, 2nd one is a guy from my college n till now, 3rd one i ended up meeting him after college n hez a fren 4th one i met thru a fren about 10 yrs back n we r buddies till now, 5th one is also a fren from college n shez a fren till now.....!

i can tell all of them r my best frens.....

i ve a lot of frens who r close n good frens......but these above 5 frens are like thy kno me in n out n i kno em as well....we kno how we react....too all kinda situations....!!!!

so i wud say it matter the way u look at ur frenship......

also i dont deny tht while being frens with a guy there might b some closeness n stuf happening....again its the situations....

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

i dont think so.....i totally disagree with u.....



xcuse me .....how many girls do u kno n ve done stuff like tht tht u r commenting in such a way?

i ve a different thing.....two girls can be frens, two guys can be frens n a girl n a guy can also be frens......

i ve 4 best frens......first one is a girl since jr. kg till now, 2nd one is a guy from my college n till now, 3rd one i ended up meeting him after college n hez a fren 4th one i met thru a fren about 10 yrs back n we r buddies till now, 5th one is also a fren from college n shez a fren till now.....!

i can tell all of them r my best frens.....

i ve a lot of frens who r close n good frens......but these above 5 frens are like thy kno me in n out n i kno em as well....we kno how we react....too all kinda situations....!!!!

so i wud say it matter the way u look at ur frenship......

also i dont deny tht while being frens with a guy there might b some closeness n stuf happening....again its the situations....

I agree, boy-boy n girl-girl can be friends for ever, but boy n girl is rare.
k, just imagine u n ur friend(1 since kindergarten) are in higher classes in school, n there's a guy in your class for whom any girl would fall, and he is good friends of both of you, n you both like him, then?? Eventually either, you two both forget about him, or u end up losing ur friendship 4 him.
above is just a possible scenario, as u said depends upon the situation.

Just to confirm watch the movie "When harry met sally", i m nt saying this based on that movie completely. I've seen such things(not vats in the movie, but boy-girl friendships) in real life too.

well its always situational......!!!!

yea i ve seen when harry met sally....such a cute movie....

its also as sumtimes the frenship soo good tht maybe one person is even ready to sacrifice also.....but it again depends....

its complex..:38:

yes they can be friends, i got number of friends who are girls and there is nothing like chemistry or biology and yes we share all of our moments, joys and problems.


Offtopic: just saw danny86's avtaar... rememberd... there was a time when our rameshjee use to dance like this :sad:

LOL :lol:

hehheh....is it....whrs jee.....? vent seen him around....?

well i dont think so its complex its very normal....

I dont think so its normal as we grow older and older things becomes more complex not between the boy and girl BUT the surrounding

Just imagine you are hanging with your best friend and she's a girl and you are roaming here and there and your neighbours or your relatives saw you with her or any other friend who is a girl then they will think that somehting is going on!!!

Then what you will no matter on how much you say that i am just a friend etc etc but still they will not agree with you completely xD

Situation changes according to the age factor!!

Originally Posted by player

Just imagine you are hanging with your best friend and she's a girl and you are roaming here and there and your neighbors or your relatives saw you with her or any other friend who is a girl then they will think that somehting is going on!!!

its my neighbor's problem not mine. I will just let him think what ever he want to and will carry on with my relations. I know what i am doing is correct and there are no bad or that kind of intentions behind that so its alright

ya they totally can be... except with those who always have some other thing on their mind. ... i have quite a few girl friends, no problems there...

what do you mean by quite a few girlfriends starry, can you refer me one or two. I don't have even a single one