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Old 02-13-09, 05:03 PM   #1
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Can Guys And Girls Be 'just friends', or will there always be a chemistry between them??
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Can Guys And Girls Be 'just friends', or will there always be a chemistry between them??
Yes, sure why not. My best friend in college was a girl.

Although I have to be honest and say some chemistry was involved.
She used to help me out in lab experiments ;-)

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Absolutely.
During my college days three of my best friends were girls. I even helped out in their boy friend problems, and they managed to set me up with my then girl friend
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yes, sure why not. My best friend in college was a girl.

Although i have to be honest and say some chemistry was involved.
She used to help me out in lab experiments ;-)

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Absolutely.
During my college days three of my best friends were girls. I even helped out in their boy friend problems, and they managed to set me up with my then girl friend
cool... u guys have any experience in helping couples to elope...

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A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.
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Yes, sure why not. My best friend in college was a girl.

Although I have to be honest and say some chemistry was involved.
She used to help me out in lab experiments ;-)

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cool... u guys have any experience in helping couples to elope...
i too have similar experience ... specially solving some complex love triangles in my friend circle ...
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A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.
very true, boys can remain life long buddies.
I'm not sure about boy n girl especially if they both r good looking, there is always flirting in the air till one gives up n falls for the other.
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Old 02-14-09, 04:01 PM   #9
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very true, boys can remain life long buddies.
I'm not sure about boy n girl especially if they both r good looking, there is always flirting in the air till one gives up n falls for the other.
very well said ... very true
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very true, boys can remain life long buddies.
I'm not sure about boy n girl especially if they both r good looking, there is always flirting in the air till one gives up n falls for the other.
What if you have two women friends?

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What if you have two women friends?

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thats where the triangles start
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yep.
strangely if u have 2 female friends and one falls for u, the other some how also tries her level best to get u.
seen several such cases. in most of them the guy went for a third girl.
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thats where the triangles start
OK, what if she has a bf or husband?

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OK, what if she has a bf or husband?

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lemme guess the next probable question from you -

what if her husband/bf has another affair ?

oops ... seems the entire thing is getting very complex
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yep.
strangely if u have 2 female friends and one falls for u, the other some how also tries her level best to get u.
seen several such cases. in most of them the guy went for a third girl.
very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.

that's cheating, guy/husband is not worth any of them.

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yep.
strangely if u have 2 female friends and one falls for u, the other some how also tries her level best to get u.
seen several such cases. in most of them the guy went for a third girl.
very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.



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lemme guess the next probable question from you -

what if her husband/bf has another affair ?

oops ... seems the entire thing is getting very complex
that's cheating, guy/husband is not worth any of them.

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A girl & guy can be good friends...but the friendship doesn't lasts long.
Like a friendship between 2 guys long than the friendship between girl & guys.
i dont think so.....i totally disagree with u.....

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very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.

that's cheating, guy/husband is not worth any of them.


very true, girls get so consumed in bitching n proving themselvs.




that's cheating, guy/husband is not worth any of them.
xcuse me .....how many girls do u kno n ve done stuff like tht tht u r commenting in such a way?

i ve a different thing.....two girls can be frens, two guys can be frens n a girl n a guy can also be frens......

i ve 4 best frens......first one is a girl since jr. kg till now, 2nd one is a guy from my college n till now, 3rd one i ended up meeting him after college n hez a fren 4th one i met thru a fren about 10 yrs back n we r buddies till now, 5th one is also a fren from college n shez a fren till now.....!

i can tell all of them r my best frens.....

i ve a lot of frens who r close n good frens......but these above 5 frens are like thy kno me in n out n i kno em as well....we kno how we react....too all kinda situations....!!!!

so i wud say it matter the way u look at ur frenship......

also i dont deny tht while being frens with a guy there might b some closeness n stuf happening....again its the situations....
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i dont think so.....i totally disagree with u.....



xcuse me .....how many girls do u kno n ve done stuff like tht tht u r commenting in such a way?

i ve a different thing.....two girls can be frens, two guys can be frens n a girl n a guy can also be frens......

i ve 4 best frens......first one is a girl since jr. kg till now, 2nd one is a guy from my college n till now, 3rd one i ended up meeting him after college n hez a fren 4th one i met thru a fren about 10 yrs back n we r buddies till now, 5th one is also a fren from college n shez a fren till now.....!

i can tell all of them r my best frens.....

i ve a lot of frens who r close n good frens......but these above 5 frens are like thy kno me in n out n i kno em as well....we kno how we react....too all kinda situations....!!!!

so i wud say it matter the way u look at ur frenship......

also i dont deny tht while being frens with a guy there might b some closeness n stuf happening....again its the situations....
I agree, boy-boy n girl-girl can be friends for ever, but boy n girl is rare.
k, just imagine u n ur friend(1 since kindergarten) are in higher classes in school, n there's a guy in your class for whom any girl would fall, and he is good friends of both of you, n you both like him, then?? Eventually either, you two both forget about him, or u end up losing ur friendship 4 him.
above is just a possible scenario, as u said depends upon the situation.

Just to confirm watch the movie "When harry met sally", i m nt saying this based on that movie completely. I've seen such things(not vats in the movie, but boy-girl friendships) in real life too.
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well its always situational......!!!!

yea i ve seen when harry met sally....such a cute movie....

its also as sumtimes the frenship soo good tht maybe one person is even ready to sacrifice also.....but it again depends....
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its complex..
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yes they can be friends, i got number of friends who are girls and there is nothing like chemistry or biology and yes we share all of our moments, joys and problems.


Offtopic: just saw danny86's avtaar... rememberd... there was a time when our rameshjee use to dance like this

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