View Poll Results: What are the reasons of break up

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  • Cheating

    9 64.29%

  • Boring Relation

    4 28.57%

  • Over loved

    2 14.29%

  • Over Demanding

    8 57.14%

  • Jealosy/ Possessiveness

    7 50.00%

  • Long Distance

    6 42.86%

  • Different goals in Life

    4 28.57%

  • Physical/Mental Abuse

    3 21.43%

  • Parental Intervention

    5 35.71%

  • None of the Above/ Other

    1 7.14%

  • Ego

    10 71.43%
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Thread: Break up Theory

  1. 03-31-09, 02:25 PM #26
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    EGO till a level is tolerable...... but beyond a certain limit is no acceptable.....
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  2. 03-31-09, 10:27 PM #27
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    Can you guys explain what EGO is in a relationship and how
    it affects relationships, Give and example if you can.

    We are talking in very generic terms about EGO in this thread.

    -F
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  3. 04-01-09, 02:14 PM #28
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    well ego here wud ve a lot of meanings....but as per me major reason would be......more dominant........

    like a couple in which either the guy or girl starts becoming dominant....to an extent one can take it....but once above the level....is really gonna create problems.....n there is no space for any understanding n adjustment level......

    this is one of the aspects....
    Dont count wat u lost, cherish wat u ve & plan wat to gain...coz past neva returns but future may return the lost! Think-Decide-Act!!!!
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  4. 04-01-09, 02:19 PM #29
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    As i think to keep the relation good we have to give up more than expecting...! Both should do this then can have a great relation....!

    If any one has something new the other should let him explain his point rather than disappointing him/her in first instinct...! once or twice disappointing does not make any difference in long term relation but soon it will be come a habit unknowingly and the other will start to feel uncomfortable with the other and the relation starts to get the distance in between....

    Summery is just give each other chances to explain what he/she thinks....!
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  5. 04-02-09, 03:55 AM #30
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    Quote Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi View Post
    well ego here wud ve a lot of meanings....but as per me major reason would be......more dominant........

    like a couple in which either the guy or girl starts becoming dominant....to an extent one can take it....but once above the level....is really gonna create problems.....n there is no space for any understanding n adjustment level......

    this is one of the aspects....
    hmmm interesting. Actually you could be an egotist and not be
    dominating. You could have low self esteem/ego and dominate
    your spouse. I don't think dominating equates to ego exactly.

    -F


    ego is more like, I know I made a mistake but I am not going to
    say sorry to my husband.
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  6. 04-02-09, 04:53 AM #31
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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    ego is more like, I know I made a mistake but I am not going to
    say sorry to my husband.
    Yeah, I agree...
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  7. 04-02-09, 09:47 AM #32
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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    but don't you think you need some ego to keep your self respect too.
    You are right....Life is too short to fight & find faults....
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  8. 04-06-09, 05:52 PM #33
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    yea mayb....its like there is a very small line in btwn self esteem n ego.......n at times we dont realise the difference n go ahead wid it.....
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  9. 05-05-09, 03:44 PM #34
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    the main reason for break up is ego
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  10. 05-06-09, 08:59 PM #35
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    Quote Originally Posted by vikas12 View Post
    the main reason for break up is ego
    can you explain with an example?

    thanks
    -F
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  11. 05-09-09, 07:39 PM #36
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    Why are we discussing this negative issue? lets discuss something happy and positive....................please
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  12. 05-10-09, 12:49 AM #37
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    Quote Originally Posted by bharthiae View Post
    Why are we discussing this negative issue? lets discuss something happy and positive....................please
    Sure, please start a happy and positive thread and I'll be glad to contribute there too.

    -F
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  13. 05-19-09, 08:36 PM #38
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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    sure, please start a happy and positive thread and i'll be glad to contribute there too.

    -f
    ditto
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  14. 05-19-09, 08:46 PM #39
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    yes... lets not talk abt sad things.. nahi to mujhe rona aajayega.. someone pl give me hanky yarr..

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  15. 05-20-09, 01:45 PM #40
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    doc tu aur ronaa......dont even wanna imagine.....
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  16. 05-20-09, 02:24 PM #41
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    ha ha ha.. u know me very well now aashu.. but extra feeling is always injurious to ppl... :lol: u know now veery well.........
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  17. 05-23-09, 03:19 PM #42
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    extra.....overflowing emotions......
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  18. 05-23-09, 04:25 PM #43
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    yes.. but i m proud that i m not in the category so called " emotional fools..!!unk:unk:"
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  19. 05-25-09, 03:27 AM #44
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.Tooth Fairy View Post
    yes.. but i m proud that i m not in the category so called " emotional fools..!!unk:unk:"
    doc i really need to show this post to your gf :devil:
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  20. 05-25-09, 11:44 AM #45
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    :lol:
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  21. 05-28-09, 01:46 PM #46
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    uski gf ko sab pata hi hai ki kitna bada FOOL hai vo
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  22. 07-07-09, 03:08 PM #47
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    Although there are many reasons or a marriage breaking up and all which have been given are reasons for breakup, but is it possible to mend ways, and make the relationship work again?
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  23. 07-07-09, 03:43 PM #48
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tanmaya View Post
    Although there are many reasons or a marriage breaking up and all which have been given are reasons for breakup, but is it possible to mend ways, and make the relationship work again?
    it is possible.

    -F
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