Thread: 10 ways to stay happily married

10 ways to stay happily married

Wondering how to keep romance alive in your marriage?
And the ten ways to stay happily married are:

1. Stay spontaneous
Do something that looks unplanned such as dropping in to your partner's office and taking him to lunch, packing a little gift in his briefcase or getting tickets to a concert or the theatre.

2. Make loving gestures
While having dinner, you can put on soft music, light candles and tell your partner how much you've been thinking of him/ her during the day.

3. Make eye contact
Face your partner when he/ she is speaking to you. Eye contact makes you feel more connected.

4. Agree to disagree
Try and avoid arguments with your partner. Next time you disagree, shock him/ her in the nicest possible way by saying: 'You're right.'

5. Embrace change
Surprise your partner by getting a new look. A quick and easy way to do this could be to dye your hair, restyle it or get a wig for fun.

6. Do something unexpected
Offer to do something your partner won't expect, like sensually washing his/her hair in a candlelit bath or having a warm towel ready when he/ she steps out of the shower.

7. Celebrate your love
Do something symbolic such as planting a special bush or buying a pot plant that is your partner's favourite variety and let him/ her know that it represents your love.

8. Do a favour
Try one little chore that benefits your partner directly, such as dropping his laundry at the dry cleaners. Such things take only minutes but show how much you care.

9. Cosy up to your rival
If there's someone in your partner's life you consider to be a rival, such as his best friend or mother, stop arguing about them and surprise your partner by inviting them over for a lovely dinner.

10. Relive the past
Looking at holiday snaps, family photos or wedding pics can also help in making a relationship stronger.

Source: Rediff

very good tips....

Nice one jee... You do all the stuffs ????

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Plz quote source of the article. This same article is available on a few other websites.

DNA: Lifestyle: Ten ways to stay happily married

http://www.b4uindia.com/Life-Style/1...ly_married.txt


Anyways. Nice Thread.

u forgot the most important thing dear,

Always accept defeat in an argument

Good advice for married person.May be it's practical also.
But still i feel for few cases we can't beat our luck whether the person is married or unmarried following 10 or 20 ways luck is the one thing which will decide that the person will be live in this society happily or with agony.
But still your thread is very optimistic also people should think like that way.
Good work
repo for you :thumbup:

The 10 ways are:

10. Don't argue but agree.

9. Don't argue but agree.

8. Don't argue but agree.

7. Don't argue but agree.

6. Don't argue but agree.

5. Don't argue but agree.

4. Don't argue but agree.

3. Don't argue but agree.

2. Don't argue but agree.

1. Don't argue but agree.

^^^
the mark of experience

Good tips Jee, repo for you
cheers :thumbup:

oh ... i can't give it to u right now .. need to spread

Originally Posted by just4kix

The 10 ways are:

10. Don't argue but agree.

9. Don't argue but agree.

8. Don't argue but agree.

7. Don't argue but agree.

6. Don't argue but agree.

5. Don't argue but agree.

4. Don't argue but agree.

3. Don't argue but agree.

2. Don't argue but agree.

1. Don't argue but agree.

Good one. I think is also applicable to Bachelors who intend a peaceful life

Originally Posted by panchabhut

u forgot the most important thing dear,

Always accept defeat in an argument

4th point
Agree to disagree
Try and avoid arguments with your partner. Next time you disagree, shock him/ her in the nicest possible way by saying: 'You're right.'

aweeeee how sweet jeee???? hopefully u n ur wifey follow pretty much about it!!!

m not yet married ....so hopefully when i do...i might require.....em .......dunnno lets c....

Good one Jee :thumbup:

I and my wife always compromise...

I accepts I am wrong and she...agrees to it

thts very sweet of u........!

Nothing sweet, just don't want to loose my husband job, at this recession time:lol:

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hahhahha.... manish u sure r funny!!!!!

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

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9. Cosy up to your rival
If there's someone in your partner's life you consider to be a rival, such as his best friend or mother, stop arguing about them and surprise your partner by inviting them over for a lovely dinner.

What if the rival is some gf???????????

Nice one Ramesh, but do couples actually do all this, do you and our wife do these things? It all depends on what kind of person you maybe or what kind of person your partner maybe, some can be very boring and have nothing in the name of being romantic in them!!!!

Originally Posted by Manish

Good one Jee :thumbup:

I and my wife always compromise...

I accepts I am wrong and she...agrees to it

That's sweet Manish! I bet you make your wife feel special and most importantly happy then???

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

What if the rival is some gf???????????

Nice one Ramesh, but do couples actually do all this, do you and our wife do these things?

Most of it...

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

That's sweet Manish! I bet you make your wife feel special and most importantly happy then???

Why there are Question Marks? (???)

Originally Posted by Manish

Why there are Question Marks? (???)

that's sms language.

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