Thread: Why love often lessens after marriage

sometimes love lessens because you think ok your married to the person you want to and its ok, you dont do anything to show your love to them and woo them. But its very important to keep the love alive and this is by showing it all the time, people do love their partner, but sometimes don't show it and it had a bad affect in marriage as the other thinks that their partner does not love them. Do some of the things you did before marriage which keep the love going and your partner will be able to see the love you have for them

yes be it be4 marriage or after......expressing urself is very important......

hi miss aashaka, how are you? you are giving good opinion.

well if thts wht u think.... than thanks!!!!

but i didnt like ur idea here for suree!

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

well if thts wht u think.... than thanks!!!!

but i didnt like ur idea here for suree!

sorry if i upset you miss aashaka. it was not my idea but other people
i know.

well i suppose the forum is all about ur own ideas n ....if u want to talk bout other's point of view u shud atleast quote tht.....

neva mind

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

because after marriage the wife keeps nagging the husband.
Also the wife becomes fat after marriage so love becomes less.

Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol. There are lots other reason where priorities change, we get loaded with responsibilities not just towards our spouse but our kids,spouse' relatives and our own relatives. Before marriage its just about the 2 people in love. Do you think husbands dont nag? They certainly do and everyone does as its human nature a boyfriend or a girlfren nags too.

Coming to your 2nd quote I have seen more fat and bald hubbys then fat wives but if appearance would have been pillar to a happy married life every 2nd family should have a broken relationship.

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol. There are lots other reason where priorities change, we get loaded with responsibilities not just towards our spouse but our kids,spouse' relatives and our own relatives. Before marriage its just about the 2 people in love. Do you think husbands dont nag? They certainly do and everyone does as its human nature a boyfriend or a girlfren nags too.

Coming to your 2nd quote I have seen more fat and bald hubbys then fat wives but if appearance would have been pillar to a happy married life every 2nd family should have a broken relationship.

Me? Nag?? I just ignore.

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol.

miss pri_dm is very funny, she thinks i am school boy. we never
went to school, our mansion/palace will get the teachers to come
and teach. but it was a long time ago.

doesnt matter whteva it is .....but from ur talks we def could see u to be kiddish

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

because after marriage the wife keeps nagging the husband.
Also the wife becomes fat after marriage so love becomes less.

sorry but i found it funny :lol:

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

you mean inversely proportional?

No i didn't. like manish said some people require space.

Originally Posted by masaladosa

I think it is because of the familiarity, it will breed comtempt.Just like when you eat sambar all the time with dosa you will
get bored so you need to mix it up with some podi/ghee for a
change.

:lol: now we know why punchbala has 3 wives :lol:

Originally Posted by just4kix

Me? Nag?? I just ignore.

:lol: I guess armour doesn't provide all round protectin

Originally Posted by newprouser

:lol: I guess armour doesn't provide all round protectin

lol

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

xcuse me?????

this is a MALE Chauvinist.....

i totally dont agree to u.......

n WTF do u mean by tht...?

firstly u dont love the person u r gng to b with all ur life than whts the point of getting married to tht person? if u jus want the looks than fine most of Indian women get fat after marriage is due to pregnancy....go n adopt kids n run afte rthem u ll realise....

n y is it tht wife keeps nagging the husband???? its so not true....jus coz in those stupid daily soaps it shows ...... u come to a conclusion or maybe ppl around u????

if u r married or ve a gf than make em read this n than see wht happens.....? how cud someone have such a thinking ?

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol. There are lots other reason where priorities change, we get loaded with responsibilities not just towards our spouse but our kids,spouse' relatives and our own relatives. Before marriage its just about the 2 people in love. Do you think husbands dont nag? They certainly do and everyone does as its human nature a boyfriend or a girlfren nags too.

Coming to your 2nd quote I have seen more fat and bald hubbys then fat wives but if appearance would have been pillar to a happy married life every 2nd family should have a broken relationship.

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

doesnt matter whteva it is .....but from ur talks we def could see u to be kiddish

well by your posts, its clear that, you both don't know he's from village. watch any typical (village) tamil movie, you'll find wateve he has said to be true...

but anyways whateva he must have talked about is for arranged marriages, coz love marriages are few in villages.

and for the record, 95% of the husbands, if they do talk, they only give orders to wives, neva nag them. the vice-versa is true too.

Originally Posted by newprouser

well by your posts, its clear that, you both don't know he's from village. watch any typical (village) tamil movie, you'll find wateve he has said to be true...

but anyways whateva he must have talked about is for arranged marriages, coz love marriages are few in villages.

and for the record, 95% of the husbands, if they do talk, they only give orders to wives, neva nag them. the vice-versa is true too.

Well now i do know that he is from a village where he is the judge to every possible cases and his judgements are more arruvval centric :-P

:lol:

may sound funny but true

Originally Posted by newprouser

:lol:

may sound funny but true

You bet. But suppose what he says is true he seems like a southie movie anna :-P and thats damn scary

he he

well doesnt make me laugh :-P imagine an angry 3 wife/gf/mistress holder anna in front of you with his scary look and the aruvval in hand woops i will faint off right away :-P

watch some movies . you'll get used to it

Originally Posted by newprouser

watch some movies . you'll get used to it

well there is this movie indra or something dubbed in hindi and few more keeps on coming in set max saw 'em there

I liked Indira very much

Originally Posted by newprouser

I liked Indira very much

dont tell me

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

dont tell me

Lets c wat farce has to say abt it, since he acted in it

Originally Posted by newprouser

Lets c wat farce has to say abt it, since he acted in it

Is farce punch bala?

ask him