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Old 07-03-09, 10:33 PM   #21
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sorry, that is not my personal opinion, i have just heard lot of
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Old 07-03-09, 10:36 PM   #22
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"love" and "affection" is propotional to the square of distance separating the couple, in some of the cases having the mentioned issue.
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"love" and "affection" is propotional to the square of distance separating the couple, in some of the cases having the mentioned issue.
you mean inversely proportional?
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Agree with most of the people here.

It's like while boy/ girl date each other, they neglect the negative side of each other even they are aware of it. That is why people say "Love is blind". They try to satisfy ego of each other rather than pointing out the fault of each other. This is what happens generally. They have attraction for each other and they consider it love and get married and final result would be Divorce because after marriage both the parties become more responsible and they often think that other person doesn't care of him/ her and they start finding out fault of each other. They become unable to spare time for each other, they were used to before marriage. Hence one may feel that he/ she doesn't love him/ her like it was before marraige.

I don't have any experience but this is what i observed and read.
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I think it is because of the familiarity, it will breed comtempt.
Just like when you eat sambar all the time with dosa you will
get bored so you need to mix it up with some podi/ghee for a
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Old 07-07-09, 03:06 PM   #26
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sometimes love lessens because you think ok your married to the person you want to and its ok, you dont do anything to show your love to them and woo them. But its very important to keep the love alive and this is by showing it all the time, people do love their partner, but sometimes don't show it and it had a bad affect in marriage as the other thinks that their partner does not love them. Do some of the things you did before marriage which keep the love going and your partner will be able to see the love you have for them
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yes be it be4 marriage or after......expressing urself is very important......
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hi miss aashaka, how are you? you are giving good opinion.
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well if thts wht u think.... than thanks!!!!

but i didnt like ur idea here for suree!
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well if thts wht u think.... than thanks!!!!

but i didnt like ur idea here for suree!
sorry if i upset you miss aashaka. it was not my idea but other people
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well i suppose the forum is all about ur own ideas n ....if u want to talk bout other's point of view u shud atleast quote tht.....

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Old 07-14-09, 04:14 PM   #32
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because after marriage the wife keeps nagging the husband.
Also the wife becomes fat after marriage so love becomes less.
Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol. There are lots other reason where priorities change, we get loaded with responsibilities not just towards our spouse but our kids,spouse' relatives and our own relatives. Before marriage its just about the 2 people in love. Do you think husbands dont nag? They certainly do and everyone does as its human nature a boyfriend or a girlfren nags too.

Coming to your 2nd quote I have seen more fat and bald hubbys then fat wives but if appearance would have been pillar to a happy married life every 2nd family should have a broken relationship.
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Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol. There are lots other reason where priorities change, we get loaded with responsibilities not just towards our spouse but our kids,spouse' relatives and our own relatives. Before marriage its just about the 2 people in love. Do you think husbands dont nag? They certainly do and everyone does as its human nature a boyfriend or a girlfren nags too.

Coming to your 2nd quote I have seen more fat and bald hubbys then fat wives but if appearance would have been pillar to a happy married life every 2nd family should have a broken relationship.
Me? Nag?? I just ignore.
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Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol.
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doesnt matter whteva it is .....but from ur talks we def could see u to be kiddish
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because after marriage the wife keeps nagging the husband.
Also the wife becomes fat after marriage so love becomes less.
sorry but i found it funny

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you mean inversely proportional?
No i didn't. like manish said some people require space.

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I think it is because of the familiarity, it will breed comtempt.Just like when you eat sambar all the time with dosa you will
get bored so you need to mix it up with some podi/ghee for a
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Me? Nag?? I just ignore.
I guess armour doesn't provide all round protectin
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Old 07-20-09, 09:03 PM   #38
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xcuse me?????

this is a MALE Chauvinist.....

i totally dont agree to u.......

n WTF do u mean by tht...?

firstly u dont love the person u r gng to b with all ur life than whts the point of getting married to tht person? if u jus want the looks than fine most of Indian women get fat after marriage is due to pregnancy....go n adopt kids n run afte rthem u ll realise....

n y is it tht wife keeps nagging the husband???? its so not true....jus coz in those stupid daily soaps it shows ...... u come to a conclusion or maybe ppl around u????

if u r married or ve a gf than make em read this n than see wht happens.....? how cud someone have such a thinking ?
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Grow up. Seems you still are a school kid lol. There are lots other reason where priorities change, we get loaded with responsibilities not just towards our spouse but our kids,spouse' relatives and our own relatives. Before marriage its just about the 2 people in love. Do you think husbands dont nag? They certainly do and everyone does as its human nature a boyfriend or a girlfren nags too.

Coming to your 2nd quote I have seen more fat and bald hubbys then fat wives but if appearance would have been pillar to a happy married life every 2nd family should have a broken relationship.
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doesnt matter whteva it is .....but from ur talks we def could see u to be kiddish
well by your posts, its clear that, you both don't know he's from village. watch any typical (village) tamil movie, you'll find wateve he has said to be true...

but anyways whateva he must have talked about is for arranged marriages, coz love marriages are few in villages.

and for the record, 95% of the husbands, if they do talk, they only give orders to wives, neva nag them. the vice-versa is true too.
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well by your posts, its clear that, you both don't know he's from village. watch any typical (village) tamil movie, you'll find wateve he has said to be true...

but anyways whateva he must have talked about is for arranged marriages, coz love marriages are few in villages.

and for the record, 95% of the husbands, if they do talk, they only give orders to wives, neva nag them. the vice-versa is true too.
Well now i do know that he is from a village where he is the judge to every possible cases and his judgements are more arruvval centric :-P
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may sound funny but true
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