Thread: How to select a husband or wife for ur self?

well with time......i guess both of them need to adjust specially the husband and wife.....

the basic personality shudnt change but yes a lot of things wud change.......

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

well with time......i guess both of them need to adjust specially the husband and wife.....

the basic personality shudnt change but yes a lot of things wud change.......

Wo insaan hi kya jo badal jaye..

Yes but expectation and perception changes with time..

exactly........

well to tell u....its best to have a person who can change n act n adjust as per situations......the only thing tht shudnt change is the love , trust belief n respect for each other in the relationship

I don't think this will be fftopic:

Young son : "Is it true, Dad, I heard that in some parts of Africa,
a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?"

Dad : "That happens in most countries son."

LOL.....it can be vice versa too at times.......

Originally Posted by nilact

Eggjhectly..the question i am having..People just decide in few meetings that particular person is good and he/ she can spend his/ her life with that fellow. Most of the time it happens that people try to show their plus point and impress the other person. They never try to show what they really are. That is one of the reason of getting divorce.

Sometimes it also happens that when we meet someone they see all out good bad and not out bad points, and then later on they regret such decision and say that your like this and that. The mere fact is no one is perfect and everyone has something wrong with them, you may talk to others and say that they are so good, they speak nicely with me but they will because they are not themselves and are always going to be polite, as curiosity, and in husband wife relationships there is no such thing as curiosity.
Marriage is like a big gamble and things can turn out bad, and yes sometimes things do end up in divorce, but i suppose its a part of life, and maybe if there is separation and divorce its for the best! One can not understand each other unless they live together, and one thing needs to maybe be understood that its the people close to you who have the right to be angry with you and be themselves, if they cant be themselves its just a fake relationship! Which is why friendship is important in a husband and wife relationship!

My answer to the topic is that marriages are made in heaven... So stop worrying about it! :lol:

Heaven or Hell!!!!!!!!! I hope god doesn't pick hell for me

No harm in being a little optimistic lady... Marriages are always made in heaven... Its us.. the mortals who make our lives hell... Don't be scared... Your husband will certainly reciprocate the same you do to him...

yea.....

its on us to make our life hell or heaven....

common preeti....u sound soo negative when its marriage??? i mean common....life will give u ur own share...... of good n bad things.......so if u vent dont anything bad in ur life than i m sure there only good things to come in the future....

chill babe...

I think she has had some friends who have had bad relationships
and that has caused her mindset. Preeti, a majority of
people have no major problems so maybe you need a
different friends circle. Also talk to your parents.

-F