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mickey · 06-01-09, 03:07 PM

i took some of my friends for a very nice hotel in Uttarakhand. a place where film stars visit. these guys of mine are rich and from nice families, but when it came about etiquttes and manners, i was so dumped and sad to see them doing such things..

like for ex. they didnt asked the watchman of the hotel recreation centre that they wanna play some games, but they just pulled some rackets and went to play badminton..

and another one, where they were amusingly finding out money for tipping the hotel staff, before them..awwww,,,...

they were staying on a concessional rate( cause of my links with the hotel-proprietor)

but their behaviour was worst than small kids will do...

i am too ashamed of Indians...i feel we dont know the international manners at all.. how to sit in 4 people, how to talk and what, how to eat food, how to say words to ladies and gentlemen out there...

i have seen the class of rich people of India...purely bogus...they can buy themselves expensive things but they cant buy manners,,,....

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 03:25 PM

well by merely taking some 4-5 of ur frens how can u decide that, that people all around in India aint like this......

I am in no way taking this ****.... prolly u ve come accross ppl like that but that does not mean u can comment so

mickey · 06-01-09, 03:33 PM

just a bunch of good people dont make the society too ,,isnt it so??

i am talking of the general public..am no negative, but when i see negative things, i get freaked...

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 03:46 PM

well how do u say tht general public is so???

mickey · 06-01-09, 03:51 PM

why are you so questioning Aaka, go and watch yourself...and you will know...

how many people spitting on roads, doing sorts of homely activities in public( small finga, big finga- like that)

why are you so questioning Aaka, go and watch yourself...and you will know...

how many people spitting on roads, doing sorts of homely activities in public( small finga, big finga- like that)

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 05:56 PM

not everyone does tht????

overall u can say there's no discipline......but u jus cannot blame Indians like tht.....

mickey · 06-01-09, 06:06 PM

blame whom them>???

meri chalti to ek bar litter karne ke 10,000/- jurmana aur bamashakkat ki saja deta..pitwata alag police se..

06-01-09, 06:23 PM

I agree with aashu, but because of a different perspective.

What you call as manners, will appeal to some others as slavery (the international manners thing, arre bhai we are in india). Talking about what your friends did, I guess all they did was have some fun, and din't intentionally hurt anyone. I don't find anything to be angry of, in it.

Ofcourse when you go abroad its appropriate that you behave accordingly in presence of foreigners, because they are accustomed to it.

Some of how manners are indeed bad as in spitting everywhere, throwing garbage around. but someothers like not saying thank you to ur close friends or eating from same plate etc show our human bonding and not lack of manners. On the whole it can be judjed only according to situation and surroundings.

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 06:30 PM

littering is a problem all around the world than some countries i would say....

i have lived in the UK n i ve seen instances where the English or Europeans, Australians, etc ve littered on the roads n in public places.... Even Malays....

Nothing can stop these ppl ....it ll b only stopped on self reaslisation....! we say thy ve rules n regulations .....but the cops there are much more cautious than Indian Cops....

mickey · 06-01-09, 06:32 PM

HI NpU
am not talking of eating from same plate and stuff like tht..

what i mean basically is about littering , throwing garbage, spitting, making India a hell out of heaven..

and also some guys dont know really how to behave( see traffic for ex)

atleast i dont break the primer rules of my society, so i find such guys bull$#it

06-01-09, 06:38 PM

that like sweety said can best be achieved through concious actions of all citizens. Naturally the problem arises because people think "everybody does it why can I", yea, it can reformed to reasonable extent by having strict laws.

But in a country abound with more serious UNSOLVED problems like increasing crime rate,murders,rapes, we seroiusly have to divert resources to important issues before manners issues can be solved.

mickey · 06-01-09, 06:42 PM

@aashu

i saw policemen beating a nigga for littering his homestuff in the US.

i think our police must start off on this..

more and more criminals should be hanged...and less time should be taken to resolve..

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 06:56 PM

well tht i wonder when it ll happen in India..

Corrupt Politicians to Corrupt Officers, to corrupt Govt......

plus the rate of literacy is low as compared to other countries......which is one of the major reasons for such issues....!

still its been much better than it was some 5-7 years ago.

there has been things like cleanliness programs running, lot of family planning issues being sorted out.....etc etc . Above all ....literacy n lot of facilities being given....to poor & villagers

mickey · 06-01-09, 06:59 PM

family planniing sorted out???

have you ever known hindu rate of growth is 2 and that of muslims is 2.5%/ per,,...

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 07:16 PM

sorted out as in .....sorry being sorted.....lol.....my mistake while typing

mickey · 06-01-09, 07:18 PM

lol
ya freezed me for a sec...

aashaka_gandhi · 06-01-09, 07:22 PM

whteva.....

mickey · 06-01-09, 07:24 PM

whateva???
hey dont use this trademark word just evrywhere

if you have some nice reasons post pls..

06-01-09, 07:54 PM

i agree with mail2sc ... but not with his violent suggestion ! police beating citizens

I am not ofcourse talking about all Indians . But majority do not behave well in public .

i dont know about "international manners" but they do lack some basic etiquettes . I think Uncle himself posted a blog entry about it "I slammed the door on a women " or something like that . No i am not suggesting that Uncle lacks manners

...... but its a issue many ppl are highlighting

i think we should get out of this third world mindset and start behaving more like globalised ppl . No i dont suggest piercing your abdomen , just be more refined in our manners ( No i am not suggesting that you are ill-mannered ).

06-01-09, 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ShAdOwCoN

i dont know about "international manners" but they do lack some basic etiquettes . I think Uncle himself posted a blog entry about it "I slammed the door on a women " or something like that . No i am not suggesting that Uncle lacks manners

...... but its a issue many ppl are highlighting

LOL , uncle's post was concerned with his activities while he was abroad. Yep, we have got no excuse for not behaving properly abroad. But in India, we will remain as we please, albeit maintaining basic manners, and not as a "globalised " concept. Every nation hace their own mannerisms based on their culture and not all of them are common.

06-01-09, 03:07 PM	#1
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	We the Indians.. i took some of my friends for a very nice hotel in Uttarakhand. a place where film stars visit. these guys of mine are rich and from nice families, but when it came about etiquttes and manners, i was so dumped and sad to see them doing such things.. like for ex. they didnt asked the watchman of the hotel recreation centre that they wanna play some games, but they just pulled some rackets and went to play badminton.. and another one, where they were amusingly finding out money for tipping the hotel staff, before them..awwww,,,... they were staying on a concessional rate( cause of my links with the hotel-proprietor) but their behaviour was worst than small kids will do... i am too ashamed of Indians...i feel we dont know the international manners at all.. how to sit in 4 people, how to talk and what, how to eat food, how to say words to ladies and gentlemen out there... i have seen the class of rich people of India...purely bogus...they can buy themselves expensive things but they cant buy manners,,,....

06-01-09, 03:51 PM	#5
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	why are you so questioning Aaka, go and watch yourself...and you will know... how many people spitting on roads, doing sorts of homely activities in public( small finga, big finga- like that) why are you so questioning Aaka, go and watch yourself...and you will know... how many people spitting on roads, doing sorts of homely activities in public( small finga, big finga- like that) Last edited by mickey; 06-01-09 at 03:51 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

06-01-09, 06:06 PM	#7
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	blame whom them>??? meri chalti to ek bar litter karne ke 10,000/- jurmana aur bamashakkat ki saja deta..pitwata alag police se.. Last edited by mickey; 06-01-09 at 06:06 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

06-01-09, 06:32 PM	#10
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	HI NpU am not talking of eating from same plate and stuff like tht.. what i mean basically is about littering , throwing garbage, spitting, making India a hell out of heaven.. and also some guys dont know really how to behave( see traffic for ex) atleast i dont break the primer rules of my society, so i find such guys bull$#it Last edited by mickey; 06-01-09 at 06:37 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

06-01-09, 06:42 PM	#12
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	@aashu i saw policemen beating a nigga for littering his homestuff in the US. i think our police must start off on this.. more and more criminals should be hanged...and less time should be taken to resolve.. Last edited by mickey; 06-01-09 at 06:42 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

06-01-09, 03:25 PM	#2
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	well by merely taking some 4-5 of ur frens how can u decide that, that people all around in India aint like this...... I am in no way taking this ****.... prolly u ve come accross ppl like that but that does not mean u can comment so

06-01-09, 03:33 PM	#3
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	just a bunch of good people dont make the society too ,,isnt it so?? i am talking of the general public..am no negative, but when i see negative things, i get freaked...

06-01-09, 03:46 PM	#4
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	well how do u say tht general public is so???

06-01-09, 05:56 PM	#6
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	not everyone does tht???? overall u can say there's no discipline......but u jus cannot blame Indians like tht.....

06-01-09, 06:23 PM	#8
newprouser Guest Posts: n/a	I agree with aashu, but because of a different perspective. What you call as manners, will appeal to some others as slavery (the international manners thing, arre bhai we are in india). Talking about what your friends did, I guess all they did was have some fun, and din't intentionally hurt anyone. I don't find anything to be angry of, in it. Ofcourse when you go abroad its appropriate that you behave accordingly in presence of foreigners, because they are accustomed to it. Some of how manners are indeed bad as in spitting everywhere, throwing garbage around. but someothers like not saying thank you to ur close friends or eating from same plate etc show our human bonding and not lack of manners. On the whole it can be judjed only according to situation and surroundings.

06-01-09, 06:30 PM	#9
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	littering is a problem all around the world than some countries i would say.... i have lived in the UK n i ve seen instances where the English or Europeans, Australians, etc ve littered on the roads n in public places.... Even Malays.... Nothing can stop these ppl ....it ll b only stopped on self reaslisation....! we say thy ve rules n regulations .....but the cops there are much more cautious than Indian Cops....

06-01-09, 06:38 PM	#11
newprouser Guest Posts: n/a	that like sweety said can best be achieved through concious actions of all citizens. Naturally the problem arises because people think "everybody does it why can I", yea, it can reformed to reasonable extent by having strict laws. But in a country abound with more serious UNSOLVED problems like increasing crime rate,murders,rapes, we seroiusly have to divert resources to important issues before manners issues can be solved.

06-01-09, 06:56 PM	#13
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	well tht i wonder when it ll happen in India.. Corrupt Politicians to Corrupt Officers, to corrupt Govt...... plus the rate of literacy is low as compared to other countries......which is one of the major reasons for such issues....! still its been much better than it was some 5-7 years ago. there has been things like cleanliness programs running, lot of family planning issues being sorted out.....etc etc . Above all ....literacy n lot of facilities being given....to poor & villagers

06-01-09, 06:59 PM	#14
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	family planniing sorted out??? have you ever known hindu rate of growth is 2 and that of muslims is 2.5%/ per,,...

06-01-09, 07:16 PM	#15
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	sorted out as in .....sorry being sorted.....lol.....my mistake while typing

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06-01-09, 07:18 PM	#16
mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	lol ya freezed me for a sec...

06-01-09, 07:22 PM	#17
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	whteva.....

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mickey Senior Member & Mod Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Delhi Posts: 3,303 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 8	whateva??? hey dont use this trademark word just evrywhere if you have some nice reasons post pls..

06-01-09, 07:54 PM	#19
ShAdOwCoN Guest Posts: n/a	i agree with mail2sc ... but not with his violent suggestion ! police beating citizens I am not ofcourse talking about all Indians . But majority do not behave well in public . i dont know about "international manners" but they do lack some basic etiquettes . I think Uncle himself posted a blog entry about it "I slammed the door on a women " or something like that . No i am not suggesting that Uncle lacks manners ...... but its a issue many ppl are highlighting i think we should get out of this third world mindset and start behaving more like globalised ppl . No i dont suggest piercing your abdomen , just be more refined in our manners ( No i am not suggesting that you are ill-mannered ).

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