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Punch Farce · 06-18-09, 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by panchabhut

in fact I've become quite friendly with many of my wife's male friends.

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in fact I've become quite friendly with many of my wife's female friends.

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panchabhut · 06-18-09, 01:01 PM

who no longer remains his wife's friends and has become only his friends

aashaka_gandhi · 06-18-09, 02:52 PM

after gng thru all these posts n looking @ the scenarios around me...since a lot of my frens r getting married or engaged......i can sum up that there r usually no major issues to husbands or wives if they talk to their frens of opp. sex.

its the trust n the belief in ur husband or wife tht matters.....

i m sure in todays life most of us would ve a lot of frens in the opp sex n it is a fact too tht usually we tend to talk comfortably with the opp sex than the same sex coz at times due to situations gng on arnd u.....wont b acceptable or understandable to em....

wht i would say is ....if u r having frens with the opp sex ...y not introduce them to ur better half n also make sure thy mingle / gel well....than there wont b much issues around.....

tht is y it is told tht take ur time in knowing n than selecting ur better half...than a hasty decision...... also....if possible .....make sure tht ur better half has a similar lifestyle, social status, career / qualification, family background n culture ....... it would usually help.....

Preeti_20 · 06-18-09, 03:30 PM

You know sometimes i think that sod thinking of all this, whats the point as there is no certainty in life, something maybe right at minute and wrong the other, marriage is a gamble just take it!!!!!

And see what happens in it and play along with how things happen!

ok so your guys are saying trust aswell, well what if that trust breaks for some reason or the other??????????

(you guys are probably thinking i dont stop, but i always am filled with lots of lots of questions)

panchabhut · 06-18-09, 04:01 PM

the whole life is a gamble.
what if u meet with an accident - so don't get out in the road
what if the roof falls down - so don't stay at home
what if u get food poison - so don't eat anything
what if u get infection from water - so don't drink anything

what if analysis are good for the B-schools, they have no use in real life.

masaladosa · 06-18-09, 04:18 PM

Well said dear Panchabhut. Life is a learning experience. Bad relationships
are bound to happen, but like some ancient sage said "That which
doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger"

amol_sm · 06-18-09, 04:32 PM

Yehhh,
It is more depending on Hubby.
His nature, His thinking, His attitude..........Many more thing's.

masaladosa · 06-18-09, 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amol_sm

Yehhh,
It is more depending on Hubby.
His nature, His thinking, His attitude..........Many more thing's.

what many more things???

mickey · 06-18-09, 04:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

after gng thru all these posts n looking @ the scenarios around me...since a lot of my frens r getting married or engaged......i can sum up that there r usually no major issues to husbands or wives if they talk to their frens of opp. sex.

its the trust n the belief in ur husband or wife tht matters.....

i m sure in todays life most of us would ve a lot of frens in the opp sex n it is a fact too tht usually we tend to talk comfortably with the opp sex than the same sex coz at times due to situations gng on arnd u.....wont b acceptable or understandable to em....

wht i would say is ....if u r having frens with the opp sex ...y not introduce them to ur better half n also make sure thy mingle / gel well....than there wont b much issues around.....

tht is y it is told tht take ur time in knowing n than selecting ur better half...than a hasty decision...... also....if possible .....make sure tht ur better half has a similar lifestyle, social status, career / qualification, family background n culture ....... it would usually help.....

Thats like a good gudiya rani...!!

aashaka_gandhi · 06-19-09, 02:22 PM

hehhe thnks m2c.....

yes preeti.....life is totally uncertain......u neva know whts gng to happen next but tht doesnt mean we stop living life......so live life as it comes....rather than thinking much about the future.....should always plan ur future but not totally as there r lot of certainities tht it wont go as planned n than be disappointed over it.......

so live ur present....

06-18-09, 03:30 PM	#24
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: In my Castle Posts: 3,280 Rep Power: 7	You know sometimes i think that sod thinking of all this, whats the point as there is no certainty in life, something maybe right at minute and wrong the other, marriage is a gamble just take it!!!!! And see what happens in it and play along with how things happen! ok so your guys are saying trust aswell, well what if that trust breaks for some reason or the other?????????? (you guys are probably thinking i dont stop, but i always am filled with lots of lots of questions) Last edited by Preeti_20; 06-18-09 at 03:30 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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06-18-09, 01:01 PM	#22
panchabhut Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New Delhi Posts: 2,215 Rep Power: 9	who no longer remains his wife's friends and has become only his friends

06-18-09, 02:52 PM	#23
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	after gng thru all these posts n looking @ the scenarios around me...since a lot of my frens r getting married or engaged......i can sum up that there r usually no major issues to husbands or wives if they talk to their frens of opp. sex. its the trust n the belief in ur husband or wife tht matters..... i m sure in todays life most of us would ve a lot of frens in the opp sex n it is a fact too tht usually we tend to talk comfortably with the opp sex than the same sex coz at times due to situations gng on arnd u.....wont b acceptable or understandable to em.... wht i would say is ....if u r having frens with the opp sex ...y not introduce them to ur better half n also make sure thy mingle / gel well....than there wont b much issues around..... tht is y it is told tht take ur time in knowing n than selecting ur better half...than a hasty decision...... also....if possible .....make sure tht ur better half has a similar lifestyle, social status, career / qualification, family background n culture ....... it would usually help.....

06-18-09, 04:01 PM	#25
panchabhut Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New Delhi Posts: 2,215 Rep Power: 9	the whole life is a gamble. what if u meet with an accident - so don't get out in the road what if the roof falls down - so don't stay at home what if u get food poison - so don't eat anything what if u get infection from water - so don't drink anything what if analysis are good for the B-schools, they have no use in real life.

06-18-09, 04:18 PM	#26
masaladosa Bronze Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: banana leaf Posts: 104 Rep Power: 1	Well said dear Panchabhut. Life is a learning experience. Bad relationships are bound to happen, but like some ancient sage said "That which doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger"

06-18-09, 04:32 PM	#27
amol_sm Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 7 Rep Power: 1	Yehhh, It is more depending on Hubby. His nature, His thinking, His attitude..........Many more thing's.

06-19-09, 02:22 PM	#30
aashaka_gandhi De WatEvaa SweetHeart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ahmedabad Posts: 3,046 Rep Power: 8	hehhe thnks m2c..... yes preeti.....life is totally uncertain......u neva know whts gng to happen next but tht doesnt mean we stop living life......so live life as it comes....rather than thinking much about the future.....should always plan ur future but not totally as there r lot of certainities tht it wont go as planned n than be disappointed over it....... so live ur present....