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padnar · 06-20-09, 05:44 PM

I am doing some research for my script
I would like to know how dad bond with his teenage son.
Any suggestion or opinion is welcome .
Padma

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itsmemad · 06-20-09, 06:13 PM

Teenage is the most confusing period for a male... Testosterone levels are rocketing... They want to know as much as possible about opposite sex and about their own body... During this time, some teenagers avoid sitting with family, especially their fathers...

Its prerogative of a father to take the initiative... He should take the kid out to watch movies, theme parks to start with... They can go out to some restaurants on weekends... And he can sit at home with his son, to talk about his classes, his friends, his problems... Later when they establish some kind of bond... A father should give his son some sex education... That will be very helpful for the kid during that phase and later on in life!

A teenager wants little space and privacy... He should be given that... Else he may turn out to be a rebellion... But he should be always encouraged to socialize with relatives, family-friends and his own friends!

padnar · 06-21-09, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by itsmemad

Teenage is the most confusing period for a male... Testosterone levels are rocketing... They want to know as much as possible about opposite sex and about their own body... During this time, some teenagers avoid sitting with family, especially their fathers...

Its prerogative of a father to take the initiative... He should take the kid out to watch movies, theme parks to start with... They can go out to some restaurants on weekends... And he can sit at home with his son, to talk about his classes, his friends, his problems... Later when they establish some kind of bond... A father should give his son some sex education... That will be very helpful for the kid during that phase and later on in life!

A teenager wants little space and privacy... He should be given that... Else he may turn out to be a rebellion... But he should be always encouraged to socialize with relatives, family-friends and his own friends!

Thanks a lot for the info
padma

06-21-09, 12:32 PM

Yep what maddy said is very true.
it is the thing which is lacking in current generation and teenagers are going in to wrong direction. If father takes time and gives such advices then i am sure many of the problems for the boy's life wull be solved before starting itself

Punch Farce · 06-21-09, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by itsmemad

kind of bond... A father should give his son some sex education... That will be very helpful for the kid during that phase and later on in life!
!

the teenager probably knows more about sex than his dad.

-F

panchabhut · 06-21-09, 10:10 PM

at least more than what his Dad knew at his age.

mickey · 06-21-09, 10:12 PM

According to my belief fathers must be more involved with sons on these issues. In christian countries(except some)they are more than wanted,open to their wards. They will talk like teens themselves with their sons. Watch and party together. Drinking together with family is a custom there. But in India a guy in this sophisticated age needs to be handled with care. Cause as i cited above. An Indian guy will feel more confused and he is typically told about the taboos of this age from the beginning. So that the guy doesnt get spoiled. I think guys were meant for gals and the vice versa. Father too got up from this teenage so he must understand his fruit and his needs. But not spoil him. Theres a limit. I myself am dictatorial. I feel like i will beat my son

panchabhut · 06-21-09, 10:45 PM

was your father dictatorial or liberal?
i'd guess he was too lenient with you

thats why Maa ka Ladla bigad gaya

mickey · 06-21-09, 11:12 PM

^^my Father is liberal, but disciplined person. My Mother is open minded but disciplined too..
both were strict but Mother is good friend, while Papa is friend only about talks of cric, world affairs, religious talks, etc...Mother asks me about my gf, but tells me even the preferences..so we are a strict people with open mindedness...

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Papa never beated me, but Maa beaten me till 5 years back,...
i did horrible mischievs....

Punch Farce · 06-21-09, 11:18 PM

beating kids and that too teenagers is not a good idea

The teenager is going to turn around and beat the hell out of you

-F

06-20-09, 05:44 PM	#1
padnar Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Age: 50 Posts: 76 Rep Power: 2	Dad's bonding with teenage sons I am doing some research for my script I would like to know how dad bond with his teenage son. Any suggestion or opinion is welcome . Padma unk:

06-20-09, 06:13 PM	#2
itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Pleasure drome Posts: 3,790 Rep Power: 10	Teenage is the most confusing period for a male... Testosterone levels are rocketing... They want to know as much as possible about opposite sex and about their own body... During this time, some teenagers avoid sitting with family, especially their fathers... Its prerogative of a father to take the initiative... He should take the kid out to watch movies, theme parks to start with... They can go out to some restaurants on weekends... And he can sit at home with his son, to talk about his classes, his friends, his problems... Later when they establish some kind of bond... A father should give his son some sex education... That will be very helpful for the kid during that phase and later on in life! A teenager wants little space and privacy... He should be given that... Else he may turn out to be a rebellion... But he should be always encouraged to socialize with relatives, family-friends and his own friends! __________________

06-21-09, 10:12 PM	#7
mickey Senior member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Uttarakhand Posts: 4,281 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 10	According to my belief fathers must be more involved with sons on these issues. In christian countries(except some)they are more than wanted,open to their wards. They will talk like teens themselves with their sons. Watch and party together. Drinking together with family is a custom there. But in India a guy in this sophisticated age needs to be handled with care. Cause as i cited above. An Indian guy will feel more confused and he is typically told about the taboos of this age from the beginning. So that the guy doesnt get spoiled. I think guys were meant for gals and the vice versa. Father too got up from this teenage so he must understand his fruit and his needs. But not spoil him. Theres a limit. I myself am dictatorial. I feel like i will beat my son __________________

06-21-09, 11:12 PM	#9
mickey Senior member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Uttarakhand Posts: 4,281 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 10	^^my Father is liberal, but disciplined person. My Mother is open minded but disciplined too.. both were strict but Mother is good friend, while Papa is friend only about talks of cric, world affairs, religious talks, etc...Mother asks me about my gf, but tells me even the preferences..so we are a strict people with open mindedness... . Papa never beated me, but Maa beaten me till 5 years back,... i did horrible mischievs.... Last edited by mickey; 06-21-09 at 11:12 PM. Reason: Automerged Doublepost

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06-21-09, 12:32 PM	#4
kirankumargb Guest Posts: n/a	Yep what maddy said is very true. it is the thing which is lacking in current generation and teenagers are going in to wrong direction. If father takes time and gives such advices then i am sure many of the problems for the boy's life wull be solved before starting itself

06-21-09, 10:10 PM	#6
panchabhut Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New Delhi Posts: 2,298 Rep Power: 10	at least more than what his Dad knew at his age.

06-21-09, 10:45 PM	#8
panchabhut Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New Delhi Posts: 2,298 Rep Power: 10	was your father dictatorial or liberal? i'd guess he was too lenient with you thats why Maa ka Ladla bigad gaya

06-21-09, 11:18 PM	#10
Punch Farce Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 3,141 Rep Power: 10	beating kids and that too teenagers is not a good idea The teenager is going to turn around and beat the hell out of you -F

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