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    Hi, I got this as a forward mail.
    Don’t go by the length of the story…
    It hardly takes 10 mins to read it … interesting one..

    Note: Kindly ignore the grammatical mistakes

    Is there any LIFE after break-up???


    May 3 2009: it was a special day for me a year before. But things were changed much in this one year. Our calls were not as long as before, I had not seen her since one month (it not more but for me it was like ages), our conversation was not as good as before. In fact it was not at all a conversation it was just me who was speaking all the time, she used to only yell at me, at times SHOUT. But it was fine it was my sweet girl who was doing it and moreover I deserved it I suppose.

    Things between us were already screwed up, I had asked her to meet me for one last time (off course I had said lie to her that it would be last time) I had no intention in loosing her this early. I just wanted have a good long conversation with her and say whatever I have done (she calls it as irritation, torture etc) that was only because I “LOVED” her like anything in my LIFE and I cant afford to loose her. And somehow clear all the misunderstandings and try to move smoothly. But (the same “BUT” which always comes in between us) she dint agreed to meet . she said we will speak in phone itself. I somehow how convinced her to meet, she said she will meet at 3:30. I was happy for that, she had agreed to meet me !!!!!!!!!!!!!. I messaged her in noon only to hear that she will meet me at 5 PM. I couldn’t have argued again for that, so I said “okay”. I called her at 4:30 I was greeted with a beautiful girl’s voice “The person you have called has not replied.. please call again later.. Thank you” . I wonder whether the girl’s voice was trying to say “Please don’t keep on calling her and give trouble… Please move on in LIFE”. I tried her again few more times but !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. I was kinda angry and frustrated, I decided to go to dharwad itself so that it wont take much time for me to reach there when she calls.

    I was riding my bike and I tried her calling again. This time there was again a beautiful voice but not the Vodafone girl’s it was from the most beautiful girl in this world, it was her ““aaaaaa” (her name)”. Yes she picked this time, I said what’s wrong u said u will meet at 5 its already 6. She gave a reason that few of her relatives had come to home so couldn pick the call and also said she couldn meet me L . That made me a bit angry but I controlled (may be i was not angry or else I would have yelled at her) and said I already reached Dharwad so please come and meet for few minutes. She was surprised hearing that. She finally said she will meet and asked to come near a hotel “Mytri palace”. That was the hotel where we had been for our first “DATE”. I reached near the hotel and called her she said to come near her home. I was so happy that I rushed with my bike to her house and stood just few meters from her house. After waiting for some time, she came with her pep. She was still far but my face started glowing, my tears stopped, my face had a smile a bigggg smile. God !!!!!!!!!! that was the most amazing moment. She was looking beautiful. She had worn a white kurta which again I donno whether the dress made her look more beautiful. She came near me and said “come lets go”. I said we will go to some restaurant. She said “no I don’t have that much time, we ll go to some other place and speak”. Again I couldn’t have argued much with her. We both were riding. I was keep on looking her she had gone a bit lean, I said her “you have become lean” she gave a wonderful smile. Finally we reached some place it was bit isolated area. I parked my bike she was still sitting on her pep. When I stood in front of her she was looking beautiful then ever. My mind was always raising questions “ How I should leave this girl, How I should forget this sweet girl… I mean simply how ???? isn’t it difficult for me ? doesn’t she know it I cant be without her? Did she forget everything about us? Is it easy for her to do that? Or is it REALLY tough for me to accept that?”. These questions in my mind are still just a question for me. But I realized later that some question’s in LIFE should be left unanswered. We simply cant find answer for them.

    With those question’s I started speaking to her. First thing I said to her was about how sweet she was looking that day. Then later I started explaining her why I call her so much and why I irritate her. The reason was only one “I LOVED her like helllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll” (I can type millions of “L” in “hell” because I really loved her a lot). I convinced her to my maximum which I could. But (here comes another “BUT”) she said many things but to summarize

    “Everthying is over between us. We both cant be happy together. There is no understanding between us. I was not COMMITED to you so how can you expect things to work out again?. Its better treat me as only friend and move on in your LIFE. Please don’t torture me. In another year my parents will search a guy for me, what you will do then? For how many days you will shed tears? how should your parents feel? Do they deserve that? How can you spoil your LIFE just for a girl? Please leave me I will be happy even you will be. In future if you get a girl it shouldn’t bother me and if I get a guy it shouldn’t bother you.”

    She said it so casually but I couldn’t take it as easily as she said. As she was speaking things which ran in my mind (I should say devils mind)….

    “Everthying is over between us (atleast she agreed that there was something between us) . We both cant be happy together (were we not happy for 2 bludy years). There is no understanding between us (this is true I always was the person who used to ask sorry, no matter mistake is mine or her’s) . I was not COMMITTED to you so how can you expect things to work out again? (what if she was COMMITTED, what would have she given me reason to break up) . Its better treat me as only friend and move on in your LIFE (It’s so easy for girls to say that about “moving on”). Please don’t torture me (I agree!!!!) . In another year my parents will search a guy for me, what you will do then? (I guess I will convince your parents for me) For how many days you will shed tears? (As long as I am alive) how should your parents feel? Do they deserve that? (I don’t know about deserving part , but they would be happy to see you with me. Please come back L ) How can you spoil your LIFE just for a girl? (Did I really spoiled my LIFE?) Please leave me I will be happy even you will be ( I don’t about you but I wont be happy for sure) . In future if you get a girl it shouldn’t bother me and if I get a guy it shouldn’t bother you. (Ah!!!!!!!!!!!! Warning me for the future) ”

    That was it, we spoke few more stuff but at the end the conclusion was clear she dint wanted an relationship with me. But I was happy at least I had cleared all the misunderstanding. We both had spoken happily after long time (even though it dint well for me, but somewhere deep in my heart I was happy J ). It was already around 7:30 I was getting call from my dad. So she said we will go. In entire conversation the good thing was she was smiling, which made me too smile. After few minutes we decided to leave. While going she said “take care of your self. You have gone dark and lean have food properly. Don’t keep on shedding tears for me. Ride carefully and message me once you reach home. Happy journey byeeeeee”. That was the last time I saw her. That was the last time I spoke to her face to face. That was the last time she spoke to me sweetly. That was bludy last time L L I can still remember the entire scene when she said me “bye” and went on her pep. At that point of time I never thought that would be last.

    I wonder why she was looking so beautiful that day, wonder why she was giving her sweet smile while speaking, wonder why she agreed to speak to me, wonder why she had worn new dress, wonder why she said ride bike carefully, wonder why she said take care of yourself. Was that because that was the last time? Indicating to remember all these when she leaves me? did she still wanted to be my friend? her best friend? Close friend? Or was that GOD gave me a chance to see her beautiful and smiling for last time and keep the same image for rest of my LIFE ?

    May 3 rd again remained as a special day in my so called “LIFE”.

    Frankly speaking I was happy for the conversation which we had. I was returning to Bangalore with a smile on face. I messaged her thanking her for wonderful evening and saying I will try to follow what all she said.

    After returning from Hubli, I guess I had changed a lot (although she dint feel it so). I was calling her less number of times was trying to just speak to her in messages. Trust me it was the most difficult thing to do. I managed to be happy for what I was going through even if she was not able to speak I would try not to cry and not TORTURE her. The same thing continued for few more days, at times we both spoke sweetly and most of the times she ended up yelling and I ended up shedding tears.

    Finally a day came May 26 th . We were chatting casually around 11PM. The message from the other end stopped. I sent her few more messages but no reply. It was around 11:30 I decided to give her miss call (which I usually do if she wont reply, the bad habit of mine). I dialed her number the same beautiful voice of Vodafone girl greeted me “The Vodafone number you called is presently busy, Please stay on the line or call again later… Thank you”. It was “waiting”. I first thought she might be speaking with her friends as it was late night. After 10-15 minutes I again tried. Again the same girl’s voice. Now my devil’s mind started giving me scary thoughts and questions. Whom she is speaking to? With her cousins ? is someone’s birthday? Is her mom using her cell? Or is she speaking with a guy (may be boy friend)?. The last question was enough for my mind to raise few more questions. I again tried her calling, “waiting”. I again tried after 2 minutes “waiting”. Waiting … waiting … waiting!!!!!!!!!! And then I decided to do something (which led to finish EVERYTHING between us). I decided to call the guy whom I was suspecting that she was speaking with. I dialed his number ( I was praying for his number not to come as waiting. If it was “waiting” then I knew that there would be nothing left between me and her ). Fortunately or unfortunately I was greeted again with the same girl saying “The Vodafone number is busy .. please stay on the line …………..”. That’s it took no time for my eyes to fill with tears, it took no time for me to come with the conclusion that she has gone far, it took no time for me to think I have been kicked by her, it took no time for me to realize that I have lost her. But it took time for my tears to get dry and it took time for my heart to fill with anger replacing all the LOVE which I had filled with.

    I dialed her number again ”waiting”. My anger was way above the sky. After few minutes I dialed again, there was no beautiful voice to greet me, and the voice which greeted me with “hello” no longer felt beautiful. She had picked the call. My anger had came down from sky to the ceiling of my room. I just asked her with whom she was speaking. She said “ I was speaking to my cousin”. The ceiling high anger made me to ask the same question again, this time a bit rude. I also said that ”I know with whom you were speaking”. She said “I was speaking with @$%^&*!%. It was long time since he spoke that’s why was speaking ”. I said “how come you forgot, even I dint speak to you after long time. In fact I will be waiting entire day to just speak for few minutes and you speaking with him at this time this long”. She defended herself by giving her own reasons. But I was clear enough that she no longer liked me, she had lost interest in me and replaced me with the other guy just because I irritated her for few months, was that a fair decision? . After all ”LOVE for a person always remain, if you LOVE the person when the person behaves bad more then when a person behaves good to you”. She missed it but I always kept the LOVE inside my heart, strong. I agree that I reacted badly when things where not going well, but replacing me so soon?. She knew that I am the person who is waiting, crying to speak to her, but (again the same “BUT”) she couldn’t see my tears, she couldn’t understand my feelings. She didn’t valued me, my feelings, my tears.

    We fought for more then an hour till the clock was ticking near to 1AM. But nothing was changed my anger was still up on the ceiling and few tears had already rubbing my cheeks. The tears were just because you LOVE her, and anger just because you cant find your LOVE back. Crazy LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!. After some time she started crying and said “please “XXXXXX” (MY NAME).. please go away from my LIFE… I really cant take it anymore… please please….”. She cried a lot I couldn’t take it anymore, I said some few stuffs to her and kept the call.

    After the call my anger had got down, may be to the floor, and that’s when my pillow got wet completely with my tears. I cried a lot again raising questions “what was lacking in me? Didn’t I LOVED her more then myself? How can she leave me like this? Why she is leaving me? Why ? why ?. I really don’t know when I slept with those question running in my mind. But the sleep was not that long it was for few hours. I woke up at 7 and decided not to go office. I tried to sleep again but couldn’t . I then realized that finally a day has come to leave her, to forget her. But was not sure of how I can do it.

    It was around 8:30 AM I called her, I was left with only the beautiful Vodafone girl voice. And then after few minutes I called the same guy to whom she was speaking the previous night. He dint pick the call. After sometime she messaged me saying she will speak later (surprisingly I was not happy). After some time the guy called me. As he was my friend in college we just had few casual talks. I then started the serious talks saying “listen there is some problem going on between me and her”. He said “I know it, she said me this morning”. The previous night fight had already reached him. He then said what all wrong stuff which I had done to her. Which then made me say why I have done all that. He then asked me “was she committed to you? Did you get any positive response from her?” I was shocked by hearing the word “positive response” J . (How could I think about “COMMITMENT and positive response” when our relationship had reached beyond that). And why I should tell this guy about all that? But the guy said “see “XXXXXX” (MY NAME), she has treated as one of her best and close friend. But you have mistaken it to some different thing. Its better if you guys be as friend and don’t trouble her henceforth”. That made my anger which was lying on floor to reach up!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I explained him what kind of friends we were and also said him that cant be only friendship it was far more then that. I don’t whether he was surprised or shocked but I guess he dint believed me. I rather never bothered whether he believed it or not. I then asked “what’s going on between you both?”. He said “we are just friends!! I treat her as only friend but I think she has something, because I see some positive response from her”. That was the last thing I wanted to hear about my girl. I felt that her value has gone so down that she is making to feel some guy that she giving “positive response” towards him. Bludy hellll “positive response” . What was the response for me then? Cant I call it as a positive response? Her so called “positive response” was 100 times more then what that guy was sensing. How can she never sense that the two responses, didn’t she thought of me? Didn’t she compared the “positive response” towards me? . Crazy J he just said few more stuffs and we ended the call.

    After an hour I called her, she picked the call. She was almost down. The first thing I said to her was ““aaaaaa” (her name) you made a biggest mistake of your LIFE by being my friend. I really did bad for you”. We kept on speaking about the same thing again and again. She used the word “COMMITMENT” and I tried to explain how she was committed to me. But (here it comes again) she dint agreed, she pointed my mistakes and keep on pointing and hurting me. No wonder that tears from eyes were not ready to stop. There was her friend with her. I spoke to her and said what all had happened. But crazy girls everyone is asking whether she was “COMMITTED” to you. I really don’t understand whether saying to person that “I am committed to you” is necessary. It’s not the matter about saying it, it shows in our relationship, it appears in our eyes, in our body language, in the words which we speak. Was I wrong in my thinking? Do I had to ask her to say the bludy word from her mouth? What if she had done if she had said that? Was I supposed to take her sign on bond paper saying she is committed to me?. No! The matter was clear enough she dint had any feelings left for me. Off course she had feelings for me before but she dint made it strong, rather I dint allowed her to make it strong. I could have made her to miss me and realize her feelings towards me. But it was late in fact it was too late, things had turned really bad.

    I spoke to her friend and said everything about our relationship. I don’t know whether she believed me or not but she tried to convince me that “you cant get your girl back now, she has nothing left for you”. These things very doing nothing but hurting me, hurting deep inside my heart. After some time again I spoke to her (“aaaaaa” (her name)). This time we dint fight which doesn’t mean that things got normal, we had good talks. At one point of time I said “hey I wanted to see you growing old, I wanted to spend my entire LIFE with you, I wanted to sleep on your lap when I am old enough. I simply want to see you growing old granny L ” she sweetly replied “I will meet you when I get old”. Both laughed after long time for a long time for a senseless joke J and then I said ““aaaaaa” (her name), I Love you le” she said “but I cant, I wont be happy with you, you will get a better girl then me. Sorry le please don’t cry, how should I feel if you cry. Do you think I will be happy if you cry? No le even I feel bad. You always wished me good all thought 2 years.. please don’t cry… please…. You will get a better girl then me L ” trust me she was as sweet as before. And that made me to say “le, later some time in LIFE we will go out for dinner, you come with your husband and I will come with my wife. Will have a great time… okay ?” she said “okay J ” and again we both we smiled. And kept the call saying all sweet words to each other.

    I had called her the same night again. I don’t want to Say anything about this call because my girl cried a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttt. She felt like I spoiled her name. she said “I trusted you so much, but I dint expected this from you”. I felt really bad for what I had done. But what about my trust on her? Even I had trusted her that she wont leave me and go this way. She had given me the most happiest moments in my LIFE (so far). And also she is the only person for whom I suffered (again so far) how should I forget her? How I should leave her? At last she said the most hurting thing “@#$%^&* (the guy who replaced me) has come like a god to me. He is like god for me”. These words are still hurting me. And she also said few which hurt a bit “even if you’re the only guy in this world I wont marry you !!!!!!!!!!!!” I guess that was sufficient for me to go away from her LIFE. I really don’t know was she speaking or whether her anger was. People in anger say many things and later when anger goes down they try to stick what they say in anger.

    “Why is that when a person is in LOVE his mouth keeps shut and heart keeps speaking..and why is that when we fight the same heart shuts and our mouth starts speaking” crazy heart

    May 28 th 2009: I tried to call her. But her cell was switched off. I called to her friend and asked to give it to “aaaaaa” (her name). And the she spoke “why did you called again?” I ignored her question and asked “how are you studying for test?” she said

    “why you want, please don’t call me nor my friends. My cell display has gone so its switched off. So please don’t call my friends and trouble. Please leave me and go away from my LIFE don’t irritate me.. bye”

    Those were the last words which I heard from her .

    That was the day, when we actually ended up everything. That was the day when there was no longer a person named ““aaaaaa” (her name)” spoke to me. That was the day which I was scared of going away from her. That was the day which made her so easy to end.

    That was a day… that was the day… that was the day… that was just a simply a day for her and for me………………………………………… a turning point of my LIFE ???????

    LIFE after the day……

    There were days when I used to call her and ask which dress is she wearing. There were days when I used to call her before going for B.F. There were days when I used to scold her sweetly for not waking up early. There were days when I used to share my happiness if I have done some good work in office. There were days when each and every minute I thought about her. But the today there is nothing happening. I never saw nor imagined about this day. I could say I was never prepared for this day. Everything was changed but only one thing was not… I used to think her every minute before but now I guess every second. I lost concentration in work. Used to think about her in my daily status calls. No interest in food. No interest in dress which I wore. No interest in LIFE in short.

    I said what all happened to my parents (which I shouldn’t had done that early). My parents had kept so many dreams about we both, but when they heard about this they were shocked. They tried to convince me by telling the hard realities of LIFE. But this was the time when nothing went into my head. Whenever I spoke about her to my mom, my cheeks would no longer be dry. Seeing that my mom and sister would cry. At a stretch my entire family was crying. My mind raised again questions “How can a girl do this to my family and bring tears in my parents eyes? How should I leave her without taking revenge for what she has done? Why should she be happy and I should be crying?” . But I realized that she had nothing to do with my family, it was me who did all the things in my family. It was my responsible to act maturely in this matter with my parents. I started feeling that she is still an angel a beautiful angel, which I lost by just reacting impatiently.

    By this time I had deleted all her snaps from my cell so that I wont be easily carried to away to see her. But I dint let it to go far I kept a backup of all in my PC (till today I have not touched the folder which has her snaps). The snaps would help me again to think about the past. Surprisingly I was still thinking about past. The memories were killing me, killing me deep inside my heart. Tears were always ready to wipe my cheeks time to time. I cried at my workplace, cried while having food , cried while walking, cried almost whenever I was awake (I don’t know whether I cried while sleeping). I was finding very difficult to go forward in LIFE. I was finding difficult even to walk, it took me more time to walk from my workplace to parking lot nearly half an hour. It was not like I was getting weak, but I dint LIFE in me I took 20 minutes to reach parking. Everything was going slow in LIFE, my bike speed never crosses 30 even when the highway was free. Things had damaged me a lott. I tried to speak to her through her friends, but no one responded well. I was becoming a fool in front of all. But I was not bothered about them I just needed “aaaaaa” (her name) badly L I really missed her L she had left no chance for me to speak with her again. I felt very difficult to remove her from my mind and heart.

    “Heart always takes no time to give a special place for a special person… but why an wounded heart always takes more time to remove the same person from the same place for nothing but just to make the place as a wounded scar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” crazy heart again

    As days passed I was getting crazy. With no proper food and no proper sleep my mind started working crazy and started giving crazy thoughts. I thought of giving a call to her father and try to speak to her. But thankfully my friends stopped me from doing that. But they couldn’t stop the thoughts which were coming in my mind. The thoughts were dangerous.. I wanted to sleep. Sleep for EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really don’t know how that could have been done but I wanted to SLEEP. I took two of sleeping pills and slept (off course I knew nothing would have happened) it kept me busy for 7 hours sound sleep. But nothing changed after that. I was still thinking about the past still thinking about the memories of her.

    As days passed I started realizing (which I was made to realize by my wonderful friends who are around) the fact which was clearly in front of me. There is a person who loves a person more then himself but the other person is not even respecting his feelings, then what the hell is point in loving or thinking about that person. This simple hard fact was running through my mind. And that’s when things started changing in me slightly.

    I stopped calling her friends to try to speak to her. I stopped bothering about her. I stopped my mind to get the thoughts about the past and think about the beautiful memories (they are still beautiful). I stopped speaking to the people who made me to feel down. I stopped blaming myself for what all I have done (this one was the important one). Instead I started to read book’s (hell out of books). I started speaking to the people who made me to feel proud. I was not bothered whether it was worth feeling proud for myself, at the end I was happy. I started walking by looking to the sky, which made some positive energy and thoughts to flow into my body. I started writing few quotes and lines (off course about LOVE and LIFE, because I feel am good at it J ). I started enjoying with my friends. Laugh with them do stupid p.j’s. Going for trip every weekend. And I am loving it. In short I started loving myself J J which I had missed from so many months. My LIFE dint had LIFE for it so I decided to give some LIFE to it. My LIFE deserves it.

    “LIFE is all about giving LIFE to LIFE, sometimes we miss it by giving LIFE to some other LIFE… forgetting the hard fact that LIFE also needs our own LIFE” give LIFE to LIFE it will do wonders for you.

    These days I hardly think about her. These days my tears wont come to wipe my cheeks. These days I wont cry at my workplace, I wont cry while having food , wont cry while walking. I fall asleep as soon as I fall into bed. I walk fast as before, I reach parking lot in less then 5 minutes. Everything is going fast in LIFE, and my bike speed never comes down below 30. I have come out of it completely (I guess J ). Not forgetting with help of ““aaaaaa” (her name)” she just changed her number and bingo!!!!!!!! Everything is solved. I am happy. She kept me happy even when she went away from me J

    At the end it’s all about controlling your feelings and thoughts. If everything goes well that would be a god’s gift, if not then it’s again the GOD’s gift. We have learnt a lot from our failures. Try not to repeat it again in later point of LIFE. That’s all. Patience is the key to LIFE. Don’t try to hurry up things let it take it’s own time. No matter anything in LIFE (not only relationship) trust, patience and loyalty are the things which should be looked into, and that can be done only by ourselves. Doctor’s suggest the tablet, it has to be we have to swallow it. Friends, parents etc all suggest it’s you who have to make up your mind.

    “It’s tough to make up our mind but once made, it makes our tough LIFE easy.. Making up our mind, makes our mind work completely opposite what our mind thinks… that’s why it’s the most daring thing to do which many minds miss it J it take care of your mind it takes care of everything”

    Coming back to the title “Is there any LIFE after break-up???” Well you guys tell me whether you find a LIFE in me. Am sure everybody will say yes. To be honest I really don’t know the answer. I really don’t what am doing and what I did was right. Couldn’t I tried to still hold on my feelings for her ? am I still having feelings for her ? if not then why did I wrote this letter ? couldn’t I avoided the fight with her on 26 th night? Why I am not trying to get her new number? Why did I came out so easily and so fast? Wasn’t it LOVE? What should I do if I see her somewhere at some point of my LIFE?

    AND “Am I really enjoying my LIFE without her… after break-up (or should I call it as divorce)??????”

    Some question are better unanswered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Can someone else read this and give me a short summary?

    thanks
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    I'll also wait...

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    Can someone else read this and give me a short summary?

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    Quote Originally Posted by newprouser View Post
    I'll also wait...
    It will hardly take 10 min...I am sure...its worth reading..
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    OK, you've convinced me. I am going to read this.

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    could you pl give us the summary farce..

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    Quote Originally Posted by newprouser View Post
    could you pl give us the summary farce..
    sure, let me read it first ;-) summary thamaasha irukkum ok-vaa???

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    OK, here is what I understand.

    there is this dude who was in love with this girl.
    He called her one day and listened to a beautiful voice,
    it was not his girlfriends voice but the vodafone
    operators voice. he got really pissed off that she
    was not answering, then on May 26the they had a
    big fight (which lasted 1 hour) then they decided to split.


    She changed her phone number Since he thought
    his family would feel sad, he pretended to let go of her.

    then he is wondering if he still misses her or if she is
    totally out of his mind and if that ended up good for him.

    the end.
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    The grammatical and syntactical errors make it very difficult to read such a long post. In my opinion this is one side of the story.

    So this guy was obssessed with one gal, they had (probably) a good relationship in the beginning and then they started to fall apart. Ultimately they split on not such good terms. She wanted to move on; he didn't. He tried to claw his way back but she wouldn't let him. After a few days or months, the guy realized that he had a hopeless case in his hands and it was time to move on. He says he did. EOS.

    Moral: Be mature and you will never end in a situation like above or even if you did, you may find it easier to move past.

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    thanks for the summary -F and -JK

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    Quote Originally Posted by farce View Post
    sure, let me read it first ;-) summary thamaasha irukkum ok-vaa???

    -F

    OK, here is what I understand.

    there is this dude who was in love with this girl.
    He called her one day and listened to a beautiful voice,
    it was not his girlfriends voice but the vodafone
    operators voice. he got really pissed off that she
    was not answering, then on May 26the they had a
    big fight (which lasted 1 hour) then they decided to split.


    She changed her phone number Since he thought
    his family would feel sad, he pretended to let go of her.

    then he is wondering if he still misses her or if she is
    totally out of his mind and if that ended up good for him.

    the end.
    @ Farce, was it worth the effort of reading?
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    Is there any LIFE after break-up???

    Answer to this in one word is yes. Why he don't see other gal to get married is beyond my comprehension. Of course he will have feelings for her but time is a great healer of this kind of trauma.

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    love stories too need lot of patience!!!

    is it an real story? doubt it

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    Quote Originally Posted by newprouser View Post
    thanks for the summary -F and -JK
    yes, thanks a lot

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    Quote Originally Posted by panchabhut View Post
    @ Farce, was it worth the effort of reading?
    Is that a rhetorical question?

    Well, let me say it is an experience of a person and some might find
    it interesting. Personally it didn't do anything for me for two reasons.
    One, I have had much more interesting stories in my personal life.
    Two, the writing style is quite laborious as Kix mentioned, the prose
    wasn't as elegant as I would write a story. Maybe I should give a
    a few stories I wrote many years back (that can be shareable?)

    -F

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    To make a story readable (if not interesting), correct grammar, punctuation and paragraphs are a must.
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    Quote Originally Posted by just4kix View Post
    To make a story readable (if not interesting), correct grammar, punctuation and paragraphs are a must.
    Kix is English teacher!
    If it is good he will give you good repo else ****!

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    seems like story of a looser

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