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Old 09-17-08, 02:55 PM   #21
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You said in places to eat thread that blah blah chicken dish is so nice..........how do u know it is if ur a veg?
U posses excellent observation power...
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I know love marriages are ok coz Ive had one myself... alas I cant find out what is it like to get an arranged marriage done
I know this thread is discussing something different... but still wanted to ask u a personal question.. if u don't mind... plz tell me, does ur wife approve of u spending time on the machine... cuz my galfrnd hates it... and I'm wondering wot will happen after I marry her...
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Make sure you infect her with this windows virus before getting married... try finding something she would be interested in
My wife does complain but she has started spending time on the pc as well for some time now so it kind of evens it out now ...
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Make sure you infect her with this windows virus before getting married... try finding something she would be interested in
My wife does complain but she has started spending time on the pc as well for some time now so it kind of evens it out now ...
Hey Admin,
U allayed 1 of my biggest worries... Ur advice sounds good... Experience does count...

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Old 09-18-08, 01:40 AM   #26
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well i guess any marraige is better than none...
but off course i know many would disagree.
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Old 09-18-08, 01:47 AM   #27
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Arranged marriage:-

A few days ago you were strangers and now she is your wife

Tats a bit freaky to me

Love marriage:-

I guess its ok .....Admin ?
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Yeh love marriage is alright.
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You said in places to eat thread that blah blah chicken dish is so nice..........how do u know it is if ur a veg?
i said that i am veg but never said that my dad and my friends are veg.
I hope i answered your question preeti
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Any marriage is good if you get a good girl,may it be arranged or love....I love my parents and also would love, to love her....All i expect after marriage is PEACEFUL life..

Whatever i am going to get married i would take some time to make us both understand each other..which happens by default in love marriage..
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If you are to get an arranged marriage it is good to spend some time with the girl just to get comfortable with each other and know each other, as sometimes things can turn out nasty after marriage if things aren't clear.
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ya its good to know each other before marriage, i know lot many people who just marry without knowing anything about each other and after that they cry for such decision, on other hand sometimes (very rare) it happens that arrange marriage also works good forever
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but then again many say its all about adjustin...
immaterial of love marraige or arranged marraige..

but i dont understand how u can totally adjust to someone who seems from a different planet.
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but then again many say its all about adjustin...
immaterial of love marraige or arranged marraige..
adjusting means compromise and this is something which can not work forever. Its better to understand your life partner before getting married and going for any commitment coz after this it can be a pain for lifetime
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very true..
i dont think i could totally change to adjust for a week forget a whole lifetime.

but then i say my parents generation did a lot of adjustin for marraiges sake..hats off to them.

the current generation is too screwd up, so its impossible for us to exhibit such patience.
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same here arranged marriage and this compromise is really very sick idea for the whole life. One can compromise for a week or so but for the whole life
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my god..some people in here have researched this topic for long and have their own thesis to submit. good

as for me i ll prefer a love marraige..that way if things get screwed up i can i say it was my own choice and blame some else for it..(oh yes wen things get messes we all need som1 to blame)
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Wow this is one of my favourite topics and I am not disappointed . As a writer I posed this question in another forum . Yu will be surprised to know that there also they say marriage work only with compromise . When I said In India only girls compromise and the men do nothing one lady assured me her husband only watches TV and drink beer .
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But all men r not same also... I've a friend who takes care of his spouse more than nething... yes, he goes out to party n stuffs... his wife also accompanies him most of times... n when she doesn't... he makes it a point to return home asap.... shez very cute too... she loves being with him newhr... its been 4 yrs they married... but their marriage nvr looks like a compromise... very good understanding... n yes, its a love-cum-arranged marriage...
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