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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Right...I sudnt have hijacked ur thread.. but thot to post...cuz every1 was sittin here... neways.. my apologies....
    g'night..
    Dont worry just kidding around!

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    Admin The smoke in the sky that u saw were just clouds :31:....

    See now i am dripping wet

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShAdOwCoN View Post
    Admin The smoke in the sky that u saw were just clouds :31:....

    See now i am dripping wet
    Your profile says you are a male...

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    Quote Originally Posted by itsmemad View Post
    Right...I sudnt have hijacked ur thread.. but thot to post...cuz every1 was sittin here... neways.. my apologies....
    g'night..
    No worried mate.. its allright

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    NO NO NO NO NO ....:32:


    your hose Admin ....the think ur holding in ur hand....

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    :lol:

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    what are you holding admin :laugh:

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    Totally totally off topic, all you guys are mad not even mad syco

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    he he he :14:

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothvibes View Post
    preeti why you always speak against me

    j4x here i said this coz i have seen some arranged marriages where people find really hard to digest the fact that they got married to a strange person.

    Most recent thing which i remember is... my friend's girlfriend got married to someone in chandigarh and came back to her parents home just after one month of marriage as she was not happy there and now planing to marry this guy... so whats the harm in getting married on first place.
    If you have already in love with someone, then it would be wrong to marry someone else. I am not talking about the moral crap that is dished out by cinema and TV here. But because you married someone else when in love with someone else, you will be very unhappy. That is a sort of compromise one should never make.

    When compromises are concerned it the compromises such as following that should be made:
    • Late night out with bachelor friends or stag parties
    • Putting spouse or mother in front of the other
    • Understanding that your spouse needs company
    • Understanding that your spouse also need to have the space sometimes
    • Understanding that your spound need aspirations fulfilled which sometimes may clash with your own agenda.
    • etc.

    @shadowcon & others, If you read carefully my very first post on this thread, I have said exactly what you and someone else are saying. Arranged marriages are like a contract amongst families and the girl gets all the responsibility and pressure to make it work.
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    Default A POLL Required...

    Hey guys ... before all of us change our mindsets due to this thread i wud suggest we have a poll
    Married ?
    Luv Marriage or Arranged ?
    ... wherein every member who has posted will cast a vote...

    Lets see where the bias is erupting from...

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    I have no bias. My marriage is arranged but I am not against anyone marrying for love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by just4kix View Post
    I have no bias. My marriage is arranged but I am not against anyone marrying for love.
    Its for people and not you or me yaar .
    i read somewhere that couple with arranged marriages are more mature than their counterparts with luv marriages....... even i am married and that too arranged...

    .... Its just about finding what exactly is the reason a person creates a bias.... ??
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    Correct. Not for you and me. But you asked for a poll. Well not a poll but I responded.

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    Quote Originally Posted by just4kix View Post
    Correct. Not for you and me. But you asked for a poll. Well not a poll but I responded.
    Me too did that (Indirectly) !!!! lol !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelyMe View Post
    Hey guys ... before all of us change our mindsets due to this thread i wud suggest we have a poll
    Married ?
    Luv Marriage or Arranged ?
    ... wherein every member who has posted will cast a vote...

    Lets see where the bias is erupting from...
    Whats the point of a poll.............why do we need a vote on that, i don't understand what you want to get out of the poll!

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    i wanted a love marriage but wht to do already in a arranged marriage .................... ne girl to love me now.............. lol ............ if none there its alrt am still happy no worries...................... hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by parshanth View Post
    i wanted a love marriage but wht to do already in a arranged marriage .................... ne girl to love me now.............. lol ............ if none there its alrt am still happy no worries...................... hehe
    Your greedy dude .... Love your wife thats it ....

    Anyways we def dont need a poll lovely ....thanks for being so thoughtful...

    but each one's needs are different .... in the end Its really their decision nobody else's

    For me i have put my career first , so possibly a late marriage ....Everybody has their own considerations to take care of ...see..

    So No need of a poll ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by parshanth View Post
    i wanted a love marriage but wht to do already in a arranged marriage .................... ne girl to love me now.............. lol ............ if none there its alrt am still happy no worries...................... hehe
    I agree with Eddy, love your wife first ad im sure she love you back, so why complain!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeti_20 View Post
    Whats the point of a poll.............why do we need a vote on that, i don't understand what you want to get out of the poll!
    Okey so no poll. But this means you have a conclusion...... Right ??

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    ppl are pretty confused in here!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelyMe View Post
    Okey so no poll. But this means you have a conclusion...... Right ??
    Aye .... Conclusion ... There is no " 1 fits all answer " ..... you have to make your own choice ...

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    hey moderator shift this topic in the relationship section..it belongs there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShAdOwCoN View Post
    Aye .... Conclusion ... There is no " 1 fits all answer " ..... you have to make your own choice ...
    Yeah Edd !! Preeti said no Poll... i said fine !!
    When she said this, i thought she must have come to conclusion somewhere....
    Makes no difference.... And i guess the answer to this question will be like Size of socks, caps, neck ties etc... one size fits all !! :clown:

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