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Live In Relationships Is Indian Society is Ready For This
This is a discussion on Live In Relationships Is Indian Society is Ready For This within the The Lounge forums, part of the Entertainment and Recreation category; Ya...everybody has his own perception. Iam dont like this......
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09-25-08, 12:35 PM
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| Good to be Back Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Bangalore Age: 26
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Rep Power: 10   |  Ya...everybody has his own perception. Iam dont like this... |
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09-25-08, 01:24 PM
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Rep Power: 2 | Guys Take it this way... Those who do not want to sensitise themselves to the feelings of their counterpart (The Other Sex) opt for Live-In.' This is a fact. On the contrary it does not mean that they are NOT Sensitive. They are but the term 'Live-In' rejects to senses. Ready for responsibility ? Marriage is the next thing. As far as our society is concerned... its not really welcome affair. Why ? Marriage is not only a ritual !! In fact the start of Relationship is marked by a Ritual (Marriage).... Relationship Is Necessary !! Some call it Live-In... |
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09-25-08, 08:15 PM
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| I know many of us Boys or I will say everyone loves to be in these kinds of relationship, but can you accept that one of your female family member is in the same relation with someone??? NO, Indian Society is not ready for it. |
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09-25-08, 11:02 PM
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| Alligator  Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Pleasure drome
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Rep Power: 10 | Well.. Indian society is slowly getting accustomed to it.. I've myself seen it in my friend circle... Infact One of my friend is in 'live in' relation with a girl at his parent's home(Pune)...  Girl's parent also know bout it(Hydbad)... they r as kool as my friends parent... There r 2 more couples I know who live together along with girl's brother(in both cases  ) in knowledge of their parents... Both brothers never had any problem... And both couples are from Patna... Their parents visit them every now & then... If people from small cities r kool bout it... think of wots going on in metropolitan cities... people there r much more liberal... I can share few more examples which I know... but I guess it will be too much for the stomach of many people here... lol...
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09-25-08, 11:04 PM
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| Bronze Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Age: 30
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Rep Power: 2 |  They can be tricky! They can destroy a lot... or... Heehee... Like I mentioned... a live-in-relationship can be very tricky. They can destroy the relationship, especially respect-wise, they can do a lot of harm to the values the parents have tried to instill in their children... and... well... overall, sometimes it's selfish vs. selfish. The kids are selfish for wanting it, the parents selfish for not wanting it. The thing is, I think, people really have to measure their values and truly see what they are getting into. There is a lot... very serious, sometimes, things that can come along with living with your partner. It has to be a decision made with some wisdom at hand. |
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09-25-08, 11:10 PM
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One other main reason is why it is not allowed is that the people who live in India make others lives hell by talking about them, and no one can live their own lives. I neither think this is right or wrong, because it depends on the age of a person, the maturity and the reasons for living, like i said with the amount of rapes, murders going on which parent would want to allow their boy to live with a girl or their girl to live with a boy, without having no information about who they are and what they do. If you are someone of the age of 23 and above and want to live in with your fiance or long time boyfriend then that is something different to talk about and in this case there are some parents who agree on this. But in my opinion its not necessary to be able to live in with someone to see if you can cope or be with them, and mean what next after this, trial period for having kids! | |
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09-25-08, 11:15 PM
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Very true... | |
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09-25-08, 11:16 PM
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| Platinum Member  | It is not question of "right or wrong" or "moral or immoral". That is not the question. There may be stray incidences when live-in relationship happen with the parents knowing about it. But Indian society frowns upon on this. Question: Is the society ready as yet? Answer: No. When we cannot have programs with adult content, proper sex education, a willingness to look outside the well, this is too much to ask for. In time, maybe we will be ready.
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09-25-08, 11:17 PM
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Rep Power: 4 | well tell me ,will we allow this to our children? |
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