Thread: Live In Relationships Is Indian Society is Ready For This

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

At the end even i agree that Indian Society is not ready for that but we can make a difference

U r sounding like a dude man.. yes, we can make a difference...

thats the spirit!! sud we carry out a rally in support of this?? lolzz... :lol:

Originally Posted by itsmemad

Cheers mate! where were u whole day? I was kinda "live in" alone here...

Lot of Projects have come up .. bringing home my work nowadays .. will be busy for a while .... Dont have much login time .... Month before christmas/New Year always tight work

Originally Posted by itsmemad

U r sounding like a dude man.. yes, we can make a difference...

thats the spirit!! sud we carry out a rally in support of this?? lolzz... :lol:

ya we can plan a rally for same.. which city are right these days.. come to delhi i will give you one of my bike to ride
will get some more friends for MURO
MURO = Meet Up Ride Out

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

ya we can plan a rally for same.. which city are right these days.. come to delhi i will give you one of my bike to ride
will get some more friends for MURO
MURO = Meet Up Ride Out

National capital will get us a lot of recognition for sure...

and we can get a good support from lot many collages, BPO's, KPO's, IT and MNC's who are really living this life

apart from this i know few target places in delhi where most of the occupants are in live in relation only

People Are you planning to overthrow the govt ....

Originally Posted by ShAdOwCoN

People Are you planning to overthrow the govt ....

no no nothing like that mate... why are you getting emotional :lol:

Originally Posted by ShAdOwCoN

People Are you planning to overthrow the govt ....

I guess smoothy must b knowing bout the 'live in' relations of guys who r in govt. May b we can overthrow govt... atleast they sudn't ban the after midnight channels...

Hummm this topic is getting some attention

hehehe... it was hot whole day... along with music in pub thread... now since evrybody gone to sleep... we can "live in" here...

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

but according to me its ok and not really a bad thing, as it provides you a good time to understand your partner before marriage and can give you an idea of his/ her personal life that how good he/she is with home work and surroundings.

So what you saying smoothvibes that you would live with someone see how they are, and if you don't like it then move onto the next person.

One thing i have to say i have seen it happen, is that if you think this is a good idea to get to know your future husband or wife then its a bad idea, and the reasons for this is that you will only notice the bad things and not the good things. And being a human it's natural to point of bad things in someone, and that will be something which you do with everyone, but what you got to remember is that no one is perfect and there is going to be no one just like you, so everyone will have their own bad habits.
And for you to overlook their bad habits will be the real test and thats what life is really about, because there is no such relation which is perfect without fights, differences.

I'm not saying that you can over look things like affairs, bringing friends home every day, but the small things which at that time will look big but in fact will be very minor.

@preeti
That was complicated logic

@Vibes
If you r talkin about experimenting with relationships.... If you have a break up it ll really be taxing on ur emotions .... Hard to come out of a break up ,man ... Not such a good idea at all if u ask me ...

Originally Posted by Preeti_20

So what you saying smoothvibes that you would live with someone see how they are, and if you don't like it then move onto the next person.

I never said that preeti, you are not getting that correctly. I said that by this you can understand the person and the needs all the good things and bad but i never asked anyone to move on to next person.
I think preeti you need to read it again and understand.

Eddy same for you too mate just read it again and let me know where am i talking about experiment and when did i ask to keep on changing partners of something like that, i never used this statement that first go for live in and if you don't like your partner then move on for another one. I just said that it can give you some time and space to understand your partner and surroundings thats it.

See guys....
Everyone at the bottom of Heart WUD NOT (like to) ALLOW THEIR KIDS TO BE LIVE IN.

I challenge that !!
Whether World is changing or india is.... its only good to talk as far as parents are concerned. Beleive me.

Additionally... Fathers may to a certain extent allow but mothers ??? No Way !!

Originally Posted by lovelyMe

See guys....
Everyone at the bottom of Heart WUD NOT (like to) ALLOW THEIR KIDS TO BE LIVE IN.

I challenge that !!
Whether World is changing or india is.... its only good to talk as far as parents are concerned. Beleive me.

Additionally... Fathers may to a certain extent allow but mothers ??? No Way !!

Well said.......I support that.....

I think in generations to come it could be adopted in Indian society. Looking into the future, would you be happy if your son/duaghter told you they were going to live with their partner, rather than marry them?

Originally Posted by lovelyMe

See guys....
Everyone at the bottom of Heart WUD NOT (like to) ALLOW THEIR KIDS TO BE LIVE IN....I challenge that !!...Whether World is changing or india is.... its only good to talk as far as parents are concerned. Beleive me.

Additionally... Fathers may to a certain extent allow but mothers ??? No Way !!

Originally Posted by bubble

I think in generations to come it could be adopted in Indian society. Looking into the future, would you be happy if your son/duaghter told you they were going to live with their partner, rather than marry them?

Welcome to the thread Bubble !!!
That's exactly the point on which everyone 's expressing thoughts !!!

I don't think, there is anything bad in this!! More over, I feel this kind of thing suits People who aren't of the same caste.

personally i think India isnt ready for it...
but then again no one waits for anyone to get ready ..
they just shove it in ur face.
lil the bomb blasts.

So i guess live in relationships are somethin we need to wake up to too...

Here i agree with ALexina
No one waits for anyone to get ready
they just shove it in ur face.

Can anyone quote an Example wherein a person KNOWN to them has opted out for LIVE IN Relationship ???

Or can anyone ask their parents for permission ?? Or Can anyone tell their kids that they need not worry if they want to opt for it..

Pls let me know..

Originally Posted by lovelyMe

Can anyone quote an Example wherein a person KNOWN to them has opted out for LIVE IN Relationship ???

Or can anyone ask their parents for permission ?? Or Can anyone tell their kids that they need not worry if they want to opt for it..

Pls let me know..

I know many... Perhaps this post will answer it more elaborately...

http://www.indiabroadband.net/relati...html#post47171

Originally Posted by Alexina

personally i think India isnt ready for it...
but then again no one waits for anyone to get ready ..
they just shove it in ur face.
lil the bomb blasts.

So i guess live in relationships are somethin we need to wake up to too...

First time I guess we r on same side of river...

I know lot many people who are in live in relation and i got lot many friends (boys n girls both) who are in such relation and trust me they enjoy life like anything.

To Be Honest: I don't have a girlfriend otherwise even i don't have any issues to be in live in relation.

Okey so now we come back a full circle !!

Live-in Relationship - What does that mean ?

Staying together or substituting / altering a social phenomena or ritual ??

Dont take it other wise guys but I have had it a lot... Convincingly !!

Originally Posted by smoothvibes

To Be Honest: I don't have a girlfriend otherwise even i don't have any issues to be in live in relation.

I'm not in "live in" right now... but I have had my share of "live ins" in past...

Originally Posted by lovelyMe

Okey so now we come back a full circle !!

Live-in Relationship - What does that mean ?

Staying together or substituting / altering a social phenomena or ritual ??

Dont take it other wise guys but I have had it a lot... Convincingly !!

It depends... most of the time... a couple in "live in" is having an affair... so they start living together... this way they can give each other more time...
If everything goes right...they might eventually get married...

Some "live in" purely for financial reasons... to share the rent...

There r many who "live in" cuz they know the partner from a long time... and they feel its better to live with that particular person than trust an unknown person of same sex...