Live In Relationships Is Indian Society is Ready For This

**DZire** · 10-10-08, 12:48 PM

125 post and still ....
Freeze it guys.

**Rameshjeee** · 10-10-08, 12:50 PM

Is there any limit to the no of post in a particular thread....

**Admin** · 10-10-08, 01:00 PM

No there is no limit of number of posts... we can go on for ever... I would send my grand children to post in this thread some day...

**DZire** · 10-10-08, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by Admin

No there is no limit of number of posts... we can go on for ever... I would send my grand children to post in this thread some day...

**itsmemad** · 10-10-08, 01:06 PM

Originally Posted by jee.ramesh1983

I have seen guys making love with more than 1 partner....There must be some loyality towards ur partner....

Well I just responded to ur "physical relation requirement in love" query...
Wot u r saying now is "cheating or infidelity"... That is a completely different issue... and I don't approve that...

**amitkool21** · 01-21-09, 09:18 AM

no india was not ready for that kind of relationships in fact personally i'm also not in favour of these relationships.........but no one can say anything to these guys if all three of them are happy......

**Punch Farce** · 01-21-09, 09:21 AM

Originally Posted by amitkool21

no india was not ready for that kind of relationships in fact personally i'm also not in favour of these relationships.........but no one can say anything to these guys if all three of them are happy......

all three of them?????

-F

**amitkool21** · 01-21-09, 09:26 AM

Originally Posted by farce

all three of them?????

-F

i was talking in the sense when it comes with a married couple......

**Punch Farce** · 01-21-09, 09:28 AM

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i was talking in the sense when it comes with a married couple......

sorry, still doesn't make any sense as related to the topic of this thread.

-F

**Rameshjeee** · 01-21-09, 09:33 AM

Originally Posted by amitkool21

i was talking in the sense when it comes with a married couple......

I think you didn't understand the meaning of live in relationship...when a third person comes between a married couple I would call it an extra marital affairs.& we have have thread for that (extra marital affairs). You can post your view on that...

Btw: itsmemad won the contest for the thread "Extra-Marital Affairs"...It was the 2nd contest...

**amitkool21** · 01-21-09, 09:38 AM

Originally Posted by farce

sorry, still doesn't make any sense as related to the topic of this thread.

-F

no dear this topic is about telling our thoughts about indian views for live in relationship......and i said no for that but i also added the things that we cant say anything to those husband/wife & the other male or female if they are happy..........the living relationship is not only meant for a boy and a girl......i know i was a bit offtopic but i was not wrong

Originally Posted by Rameshjeee

I think you didn't understand the meaning of live in relationship...when a third person comes between a married couple I would call it an extra marital affairs.& we have have thread for that (extra marital affairs). You can post your view on that...

Btw: itsmemad won the contest for the thread "Extra-Marital Affairs"...It was the 2nd contest...

i know the meaning rameshjee but after the new law of court extra marital affair was also come in as same as live in relationship......nd the if the 3rd person is female than she have a rite to say that she was wife of Mr. X

**panchabhut** · 01-21-09, 11:22 AM

In some ways some period of live-in relationship before marriage would perhaps be beneficial for the couple.
Its one thing to meet someone in their best dress and best mood and be all lovey-dovey. Its a completely different proposition to meet that same person in the worst mood and worst physical appearance. Thats when the true test of "love" comes. The other factor is the willingness to adjust and compromise. And then there is the issue of adjusting with the in-laws. Many of the so called love marriages are nowadays ending up in divorce precisely for this.
In a way, it would be a welcome step to have a live-in relationship before marriage. Not just with the future partner but also with his/her family members.

newprouser · 01-21-09, 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by panchabhut

In some ways some period of live-in relationship before marriage would perhaps be beneficial for the couple.
Its one thing to meet someone in their best dress and best mood and be all lovey-dovey. Its a completely different proposition to meet that same person in the worst mood and worst physical appearance. Thats when the true test of "love" comes. The other factor is the willingness to adjust and compromise. And then there is the issue of adjusting with the in-laws. Many of the so called love marriages are nowadays ending up in divorce precisely for this.
In a way, it would be a welcome step to have a live-in relationship before marriage. Not just with the future partner but also with his/her family members.

I like your idea. As you say it will a go long way in helping avoid miserable relationships. But I really doubt if it will be actually practised in our country.

**amitkool21** · 01-21-09, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by panchabhut

In some ways some period of live-in relationship before marriage would perhaps be beneficial for the couple.

In a way, it would be a welcome step to have a live-in relationship before marriage. Not just with the future partner but also with his/her family members.

both the things r rite dear........our parents think that what happen if we know everything about the guy/girl before marriage,than we don't have anything to know bout him/her.......but they don't understand that we should've to know bout that person before marriage to know that ur mentality is matching with him/her or not........

**panchabhut** · 01-21-09, 01:02 PM

@ newproser
In some small pockets of the country it is the traditional practice, particularly in parts of North East and tribal areas. In a way they are more progresive than the rest of us.

newprouser · 01-21-09, 01:05 PM

Originally Posted by panchabhut

@ newproser
In some small pockets of the country it is the traditional practice, particularly in parts of North East and tribal areas. In a way they are more progresive than the rest of us.

Interesting , seriously i never knew it existed in India :w00t:

**amitkool21** · 01-21-09, 01:05 PM

Originally Posted by panchabhut

@ newproser
In some small pockets of the country it is the traditional practice, particularly in parts of North East and tribal areas. In a way they are more progresive than the rest of us.

can u plz give some names of these places i just want to c that kind of villages........

**Punch Farce** · 01-21-09, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by powerdoc

Lol...considering live-in relationships to be an indicator of progress !

Why do you find that funny?

-F

**powerdoc** · 01-22-09, 02:30 PM

Because progress stands for growth & in no way does this issue involve any growth.
Probably just a different outlook
Live-in-relationships are a matter of personal choice & society should treat it as such.

**aashaka_gandhi** · 01-23-09, 04:42 PM

Originally Posted by panchabhut

In some ways some period of live-in relationship before marriage would perhaps be beneficial for the couple.
Its one thing to meet someone in their best dress and best mood and be all lovey-dovey. Its a completely different proposition to meet that same person in the worst mood and worst physical appearance. Thats when the true test of "love" comes. The other factor is the willingness to adjust and compromise. And then there is the issue of adjusting with the in-laws. Many of the so called love marriages are nowadays ending up in divorce precisely for this.
In a way, it would be a welcome step to have a live-in relationship before marriage. Not just with the future partner but also with his/her family members.

yea specially the adjusting factor when it comes in.....its really required i feel....!!!! but to an extent wht if thy r not comfortable with each other n than dont want to live togather....thts when the problem starts.....!!!

Our society as if sumthing soo bad has happened will avoid the girl specially......guys too to an extent....cursing em...n sayign wht not to the girl guy n their family....i mean whts the matter... n the same ppl if it works out to be fine than will ve a diff outlook n say to it......

Originally Posted by newprouser

I like your idea. As you say it will a go long way in helping avoid miserable relationships. But I really doubt if it will be actually practised in our country.

its a big question ???

Originally Posted by panchabhut

@ newproser
In some small pockets of the country it is the traditional practice, particularly in parts of North East and tribal areas. In a way they are more progresive than the rest of us.

yea even i ve heard tht....

Originally Posted by powerdoc

Because progress stands for growth & in no way does this issue involve any growth.
Probably just a different outlook
Live-in-relationships are a matter of personal choice & society should treat it as such.

but in India a ppl ve got all the free time to gossip n poke their nose in other ppls life....!

saurav_k · 01-30-09, 07:18 PM

though it is still not accepted in our society i think live in relations are not bad at all ... infact u get to know the person whom u will be probably marrying better

**puchu** · 02-04-09, 04:44 PM

I can't believe it took me so long to find this thread before.Nice thread.

saurav_k · 02-05-09, 12:32 AM

Originally Posted by puchu

I can't believe it took me so long to find this thread before.Nice thread.

so, what are your opinions on this?

**puchu** · 02-05-09, 03:59 PM

Originally Posted by saurav_kataruka

so, what are your opinions on this?

I feel that live-in relationships are ok till certain age, once you get old , I mean mid-aged then some where some how you feel like having a partner to talk to, share your feelings, share your happiness ,be in each other's arms and spend some time watching the sunset. I don't know about people, but I would say I am 28 and I am single. I am not into any live-in or married relationship. I am very comfortable living alone but I won't lie, when I am sick, definitely I feel like having a partner.

Live-in relationships are preferred by people for whom carrier is more important than a life partner ,next are the people who have some aim which can not be achieved if they have a partner because of responsibility, as they don't want to put their partner in trouble because of their own risky life style, and lastly, people who don't want have any responsibilities and would like to roam freely like a wild bull and have fun

without any boundaries.

In a live-in relationship you are free to leave whenever you want, but for a married relationship it’s not that simple, at least I can’t leave a my life partner just like that.

**aashaka_gandhi** · 02-05-09, 05:03 PM

well in a live in relationship there is a sense of commitment as well......

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