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Old 10-07-08, 08:06 PM   #41
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oh plz state the contradiction so the discussion can reach higher levels.
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oh plz state the contradiction so the discussion can reach higher levels.
Don't argue with him... Hez married & he has more experience in these matters than any of us...
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oh plz state the contradiction so the discussion can reach higher levels.
See if a man is a man he has to think he is a man !!! I cant think i am a woman, being a man....

Secondly, a man has a set mentality... there are certain things which a woman cannot do and vice a versa.... Identify Those things and respect them. THIS is understanding !!!

In some cases woman cannot identify qualities of her man and may be the other way round... this causes Friction.. and dominance takes birth.

After all everyone wants to move ahead !!! Beleive me.. what i do is really simple.. i very regularly do a short swot on me and my wife and distribute responsibilities accordingly... IT WORKS.
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Don't argue with him... Hez married & he has more experience in these matters than any of us...
Its free world i think he can be argued with! I'm sure hes not the only married man on this forum anyway!

No one was talking about LovelyMe i personally but talking in general of men, its not the the educated men but the uneducated and not well to do families, who do treat their wives in a dominant way. And i only say what ive seen and dont make things up!
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Its free world i think he can be argued with! I'm sure hes not the only married man on this forum anyway!

No one was talking about LovelyMe i personally but talking in general of men, its not the the educated men but the uneducated and not well to do families, who do treat their wives in a dominant way. And i only say what ive seen and dont make things up!
I know... I was just kidding with Alexina...
Yeah, illiteracy is a major reason for such things... Thats wot I tried to say in my 1st post indirectly... cuz when I went through this thread... I found few people mentioning the fact that education has nothing to do with this menace... But I don't really agree with that... In general, eduacated women know about their rights... And educated men respect that... Exceptions are always there...
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No one was talking about LovelyMe i personally but talking in general of men, its not the the educated men but the uneducated and not well to do families, who do treat their wives in a dominant way. And i only say what ive seen and dont make things up!
really... even i am not talking about myself... i know its really troublesum to happily settle down in life...

But then ... are un-educated men you are talking of.. married to educated women ??? if not then dominance is bound to erupt.. is'nt it ?
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I know... I was just kidding with Alexina...
Yeah, illiteracy is a major reason for such things... Thats wot I tried to say in my 1st post indirectly... cuz when I went through this thread... I found few people mentioning the fact that education has nothing to do with this menace... But I don't really agree with that... In general, eduacated women know about their rights... And educated men respect that... Exceptions are always there...
Education has got to a lot with this, but this is a common thing in within couples who are educated!
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Education has got to a lot with this, but this is a common thing in within couples who are educated!
Thats cuz no woman like to live with a docile dog like I've 1 in my house...
Its in the nature of two species... Women like their husband to be little authoritative... They expect from husband to provide security & safety to them & their children from outside world... They like to cook good food for their husband & children... It gives them ultimate pleasure... They like to take care of most of household chores... It comes naturally to them... They work too, if they want...

Whereas men like to do other important things for their family... They tend to protect their wife & children from outside world... They like to do the marketing n all for their home needs... They do an uninteresting job until they retire...even if they don't want(no option)... And they don't force their wife into a job if she doesn't want to do... Its natural that a man's emotions get suppressed cuz of the limited options he has in life... and when a wife doesn't try to understand his mental state... he gets irritated... which people call male dominance...
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Yes true but what if the husband is happy with his job life and so one, why is the husband still dominant.

Sometimes when the wifes works too she has to do the house work and all but there is never a helping hand from the husband!

I knew a couple and when the husband wasn't working the wife was she used to come home, and not even get asked for some water! But if that wife raised this issue with her husband he would turn it back on her saying lots of things!
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Yes true but what if the husband is happy with his job life and so one, why is the husband still dominant.

Sometimes when the wifes works too she has to do the house work and all but there is never a helping hand from the husband!

I knew a couple and when the husband wasn't working the wife was she used to come home, and not even get asked for some water! But if that wife raised this issue with her husband he would turn it back on her saying lots of things!
I don't think if a man is happy in his job life... And has a caring wife... he'll ever unnecessarily try to dominate things...

Try to understand that husband's position... Every1 in society must be talking about his failure in life... That he was sitting at home & his wife was working... He must be in depression... No 1 ever raise an issue when a woman sits at home... but there r thousand big mouths which can't be shut when a man sits at home... this hurts.. and the man was pissed-off... so he never asked for water...
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I don't think if a man is happy in his job life... And has a caring wife... he'll ever unnecessarily try to dominate things...

Try to understand that husband's position... Every1 in society must be talking about his failure in life... That he was sitting at home & his wife was working... He must be in depression... No 1 ever raise an issue when a woman sits at home... but there r thousand big mouths which can't be shut when a man sits at home... this hurts.. and the man was pissed-off... so he never asked for water...
I know of this because i have worked and helped a friend in a project in this, so telling you what i have seen and produced in the report!

About the water thing it was common thing every day, and this was something which happened abroad and things like what people say about man not working don't happen there!
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I know of this because i have worked and helped a friend in a project in this, so telling you what i have seen and produced in the report!

About the water thing it was common thing every day, and this was something which happened abroad and things like what people say about man not working don't happen there!
Then he must be lazy & mental...
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Thats what i thought after the first case, but it wasn't just one couple there were lots!

Thats why i was debating on this issue!

Didn't mean offense to anyone or the males!
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Well, I've seen exactly opposite... More women dominating their husbands...
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Or u just saying that because ur a man!
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Yeah... may be cuz of that I'm able to understand sufferings of a man better than u...
& u r good at understanding ur clan...
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Yeah... may be cuz of that I'm able to understand sufferings of a man better than u...
& u r good at understanding ur clan...
I don't think its because of that. Most rules in India support women. Not a single rule for me.
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Thats the problem in our country man... cuz of our ancestor's wrong doings... we r not given same kind of treatment or protection from the govt. or law as women get them... even in private sector they prefer women... this happens only in India...
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cheers to india!
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Official announcement! the topic of this thread is now changed. ting!..tong!..nong!
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