dowry law abuse claims victim

Sad story. What do you guys think. I am ashamed at this.

PB.

Treated cruelly by wife, techie ends life

no comments?

Apathy - Indians' bane

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

Sad story. What do you guys think. I am ashamed at this.

PB.

Treated cruelly by wife, techie ends life

no comments?

Apathy - Indians' bane

I really feel sad for the guy. Girls and their parents are taking undue advantage of the dowry law now a days. I know personally a couple of guys who were unfairly sued by the wife and in laws and had to spend huge amounts of money to get out of the legal mess.
Now a days, boys are scared to get married because of this law as they have to be very wary of the credentials of the girl and her parents
It is high time the law is amended suitably to give a chance to the boys to prove their innocence. It is the financial independence which is giving the girls this sort of unnecessary boldness

simple go for pre nuptial contract to avoid such things from happening. Assamese or arunachalis don't take or give dowry so well Soumyo is safe. :-P

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

simple go for pre nuptial contract to avoid such things from happening. Assamese or arunachalis don't take or give dowry so well Soumyo is safe. :-P

:29:

he he

Originally Posted by Kangaroo

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It is high time the law is amended suitably to give a chance to the boys to prove their innocence.

This is what the main problem in India is. You are guilty until proven
innocent. In the US as you might know it is innocent until proven guilty.
In India you are guilty as soon as the FIR is filed and you are labelled
'accused' which for all practical purposes is considered guilty.

the only change should be that if there are false accusations and it
is proved then the accuser has to spend the same amount of time
prescribed for the offender.

PB

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

simple go for pre nuptial contract to avoid such things from happening. Assamese or arunachalis don't take or give dowry so well Soumyo is safe. :-P

pre-nuptial is irrelevant in this case. they can invoke the dowry law
whether you have prenup or not or whether you actually demanded
dowry or not.

you know you can still complain that Soumyo asked for dowry and the
cops will take your word and arrest him?

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

simple go for pre nuptial contract to avoid such things from happening. Assamese or arunachalis don't take or give dowry so well Soumyo is safe. :-P

The dowry concept is a derivative of the Mitakshara HUF (Hindu Undivided Family) prevalent in other parts of the Country where traditionally the right to property used to pass on to the Male heirs only.

However, in Bengal and Assam the Dayabhaga HUF system is prevalent where even traditionally property used to get distributed among all heirs, male or female.

And in many part of NE, its a matriarchal society.

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

pre-nuptial is irrelevant in this case. they can invoke the dowry law
whether you have prenup or not or whether you actually demanded
dowry or not.

you know you can still complain that Soumyo asked for dowry and the
cops will take your word and arrest him?

Well no need I guess I earn enough to feed myself and if it ever happens then even my future kids without soumyo's aid :-P. And if soumyo really asks I will frankly tell him he aint getting anything.

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

This is what the main problem in India is. You are guilty until proven
innocent. In the US as you might know it is innocent until proven guilty.
In India you are guilty as soon as the FIR is filed and you are labelled 'accused' which for all practical purposes is considered guilty.

the only change should be that if there are false accusations and it is proved then the accuser has to spend the same amount of time prescribed for the offender.

pre-nuptial is irrelevant in this case. they can invoke the dowry law whether you have prenup or not or whether you actually demanded dowry or not.

you know you can still complain that Soumyo asked for dowry and the cops will take your word and arrest him?

The main problem of Indian Anti Dowry Law is that for the first seven years after marriage, in case of any complain by the girl or her family, the onus is on the boy/his family to prove that they are innocent.

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

Well no need I guess I earn enough to feed myself and if it ever happens then even my future kids without soumyo's aid :-P. And if soumyo really asks I will frankly tell him he aint getting anything.

You are missing the point entirely, it has nothing to do with money.

If Soumyo has an affair and you want to get back at him, you can
invoke a dowry case and no questions asked, he will be put in jail.

Originally Posted by panchabhut

The main problem of Indian Anti Dowry Law is that for the first seven years after marriage, in case of any complain by the girl or her family, the onus is on the boy/his family to prove that they are innocent.

That is one screwed up system.

Originally Posted by Punch Bala

You are missing the point entirely, it has nothing to do with money.

If Soumyo has an affair and you want to get back at him, you can
invoke a dowry case and no questions asked, he will be put in jail.

Nah I wont do that I will leave him right away I have better reasons to live for. I love him thats a truth but If he cheats on me won't hrt me to leave him and let him live with whosoever he wants and live peacefully :-P

All men are not Gabbar singh. There are heavenly creatures among men too. And such one sided laws will make their life miserable. But we must not forget that such laws are devised for the real needy who actually married a Gabbar singh.

what about males who have married the female Gabbar Singh?

End of the story

Originally Posted by panchabhut

what about males who have married the female Gabbar Singh?

Fulan devi should be the term I guess :-|

Now Punch Bala is banned
Last night we are talking very well
Anyway i have read the story really it's very sad news
I will make my comment later

Originally Posted by Vikram09

Now Punch Bala is banned
Last night we are talking very well

Huh Punch banned? why?

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

Huh Punch banned? why?

probably its time for Farce to move from dwaitabaad (dualism) to adwaitabaad (singularity)

Originally Posted by Pri_dm

Nah I wont do that I will leave him right away I have better reasons to live for. I love him thats a truth but If he cheats on me won't hrt me to leave him and let him live with whosoever he wants and live peacefully :-P

Farce is not commenting on your personal life, he is just giving examples to clarify the point. :4:

Originally Posted by Dragon

Farce is not commenting on your personal life, he is just giving examples to clarify the point. :4:

Thanks Dragonji, finally someone gets my point. It is not about pri.
I had given up on trying to make her understand.

-F

Punch is banned but I have PM'd admin to consolidate everything
so he might be back.

Originally Posted by panchabhut

probably its time for Farce to move from dwaitabaad (dualism) to adwaitabaad (singularity)

If I am dwaita then you are dobhut.
;-)
-F

Why Puncnbala was banned?

I think this law is should be changed.

Punchbala was speaking testicles from a long time.. may be so

Originally Posted by panchabhut

probably its time for Farce to move from dwaitabaad (dualism) to adwaitabaad (singularity)

are you talking about stuff related to forum or stuff related to his personal life ;-)