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Old 15-10-2008, 04:14 PM   #1
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The other day, not so long ago, ahem , actually yesterday , I was updating my profile on orkut... When I hit upon, "from my past relationships I learnt" I was like, wow thats a neat one... Never paid much attention to it anyway when i was creating my profile... But now that it set me thinking, I can really think of so much that my relationships taught me... So here they are in no particular order:

-Love is not enough in a relationship

-Communication is priceless

-Relationships take a lot of energy from everyone, and sometimes they just arent sustainable

- Sex is often a canary in my relationship at this age... Decrease in sexual intimacy always spells doom

- There is nothing to understand when you break up... Just walk away with as much of your sanity intact as possible

- Nobody deserves abuse (physical/verbal/psychological/emotional)

- If someone changes in a big way right after you get into a realationship, start thinking how to break up... He/she is not the same person you thought you knew

- Some things are worth the possibility of a broken heart (I've been thru it, I know it, for sure.)

- Too Many expectations kill a relationship

- Geographical proximity is essential

- People are neither projects nor goals... Dont try to achieve them

- If you are somebody's second choice, dont bother ( I truly believe in this)

- Go slow and steady in a relationship... Rushing in a relationship will have its own repercussions

- The ultimate test of a relationship is to hold hands at the time of disagreement

And i'm still learning... Each day all of us learn something new in our relationships... Its an ongoing process... I've seen people changing overnite, people cringing, people obsessing, people pining and what not have you... So all you guys and gals out there, let me know what you learnt from your relationships... Waiting for comments...

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u sound politically right,
but im sure u urself have/will not follow/followed at least half those rules, if not all, at some point or the other.
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Well, I just realized them... And yeah... it seems I'm currently following half of them... but would like to improve on my said points in future...
hav u learnt anything from ur past relations(if had any)? if yes, plz share with us...
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excuse.... nmy:
can i come in please

I got a signature about love, please check
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darkness ?
darkness???

thats either a very intense line or a very corny one.
i just cant figure out which!
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excuse.... nmy:
can i come in please

I got a signature about love, please check
Yeah smoothie... sure... shout whatever u've to say...
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Yeah smoothie... sure... shout whatever u've to say...
i already said mate, check it again

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thats either a very intense line or a very corny one.
i just cant figure out which!
For me there is a naughty meaning... now what do you think
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For me there is a naughty meaning... now what do you think

I think this is the point were i should stop thinkin or rather stop voicing my thoughts.
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I think this is the point were i should stop thinkin or rather stop voicing my thoughts.
i think i need to laugh like a devil now...
bwaha ha ha ha ha

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The other day, not so long ago, ahem , actually yesterday people pining and what not have you... So all you guys and gals out there, let me know what you learnt from your relationships... Waiting for comments...
YOU 'VE SHOT THE BULLS EYE !!
I REALLY LIKED THAT. REP FOR YOU (...)

The only thing is that you dont need to follow 100% of these. Following 50% is great untill unless you have these thoughts out of your own mind. This means you know them or you consider them.

Bina aag dhuaan nahi hota.

(ps I think i'll have to rep admin before i do it for you...)
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