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Old 20-10-2008, 08:04 AM   #11
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ohh right!!

congrats to all the promoted members i missed

specially u mad

i c u got 1200+
so how come u don't have a custom title??
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Old 20-10-2008, 08:11 AM   #12
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Thanks... Oh... I forgot about it... I will ask Admin that 1st thing when I log-in again... Thanks again!

btw- lets run away from this thread now... else somebody is gonna hurt real bad...
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Old 25-10-2008, 01:44 PM   #13
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well i ll say definitely move on, but then thats easier on paper than in real life.
but its necessary to keep remindin yourself wat went wrong and the mistakes so that you can watch out for it later in life.

but theres no point in hurtin yourself thinkin of somethin that aldready hurt you. Once the damage is done pick up the pieces and go on.
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Old 25-10-2008, 04:20 PM   #14
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Move On !
But dont forget the Past... That's what makes you a progressive human.
You've always got to pay back and take back !

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Jo Ho Raha Hai Woh accha ho raha hai.
Jo Hoga So accha hoga.

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Old 10-12-2008, 03:46 PM   #15
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sometimes its really good to hold past as it can cherish your life with fun and loving moments.. may be for few minutes or for 2 nites but still it is something which can write history in leave a mark in your mind..
Definately......!!!! though ones past relationship wid nyone hasnt been in terms now.....but there r definately good times which one shud remember n i m sure it ll bring a smile on ur face thinking about it.....!!!!

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Past is something which can't be ignored by an individual altogether... You should not hold onto past to haunt your present life... but you should definitely reflect on your mistakes and try to make your future better...
Well yea any person who tells has moved on wid his life n forgotten his past wud b the biggest liar....!!! no one can forget their past n i wud say one shudnt so tht one can learn from the mistakes committed in the past...!!!!! Its very easy for ppl to tell tht move on wid ur life or i ve moved on wid my life...but acc to me....noone can...!!! yes they can strt a new life....considering the fact tht thy dont want to still stay in the past....n want to ve a good present n a beautiful future...!!!!!

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Move On !
But dont forget the Past... That's what makes you a progressive human.
You've always got to pay back and take back !
I like tht....n follow it soo much!!!!!! I wud say progressive n practical.....human!
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Old 10-12-2008, 03:50 PM   #16
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I try to keep things simple by living in the present.
Holding onto the past is too painful, looking at the future gives headache. Thats why I live in the present.
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Old 10-12-2008, 03:56 PM   #17
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mmmm yea as such plannin too much about future is also no point....as u neva kno whr life takes u....!!!! but yea shud always ve an outline.....tht how u want ur future to be shaped up....!!!

Agreed tht living in the present wud make u much happy than either living in past or thinking about future.....!!!
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i would recommend that you hold on to it, why ???
i order to make sure u know , feel , remember the difference 4 ever n ever
and also to make sure that it does not happen again.
But sometimes when you hold onto your past, it can really destroy you and it doesn't help you in life, as it pulls you back, doesn't give you confidence in anything and also makes you feel upset and depressed. Yes learn from your past but don't think or hold on to it, so that it gives you a big headache.

I agree that you cant move on, but sometimes when your life is going really well and you have a companion who makes your life absolutely wonderful for you, you don't think about the past or the bad things in life!
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Living in the present has its awesome features. Since u are living happily and since what is present today shall be past tomorrow, u will always have a pleasant past to look upto.
As for shaping the future, its definitely a good idea. Wise people start it early, average ones do it in college life, and as for people like me well, we have not figured it out yet.
Maybe we do it when we are 60.
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Old 10-12-2008, 04:08 PM   #20
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hmmmmm believe in living life in moments.....every moment has to be special....be it good, bad, sad, happy, ........!!!!!

as such shaping up future is not toally in our hands....its jus tht one can think about it......rest depends on GOD....but accepting things happily.....is the best thing one can do....!!!!!
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