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Preeti_20 · 19-10-2008, 01:36 AM

Do you think that its good to hold on to the past in a relationship or move on with your life and thing of good things!

For example, if you relationship wasn't too good a few years ago but now it is, do you think the past should be remembered, should it be talked about to be clarified, or should it be forgotten?

Evander Leopold · 19-10-2008, 04:27 AM

evil begets evil.
Thou shalt not dwell upon old dump-trucks whilst heavenly flowerbeds lie ahead.
heh heh. but frankly u have hit upon a question i asked myself plenty of times.
and each time i would come up with one answer.
just move with the flow in a direction set by u. better to forget past troubles.they will only bring up bad feelings. have seen it happen.

StarryKnight · 20-10-2008, 02:21 AM

Come on Preeti, u urself must know what u r asking... do u want to just keep on holding on to ur past miseries!?
Past, even if its good or its bad, will just bring u sadness in the present if remembered...

The best choice is to concentrate on building up ur present (and in turn ur future) and learning from ur past mistakes.

Preeti_20 · 20-10-2008, 02:27 AM

Yes it is always good to move on! The most sensible of people and experienced people will always suggest this to move on in life. If you hold onto the past it will practically haunt you in your current life and in the future, and by holding onto your past you wont be able to achieve any success or be happy.

As you hold on your past you will think about it day and night and that will affect your overall ability in life, how you talk, how you react to things, and your overall behavior.

So forget whatever has happened in the past (whether its fights you have had, difficult relationships, bad financial situation or any other bad things in life), and look towards a happier and bright future!

smoothvibes · 20-10-2008, 05:23 AM

sometimes its really good to hold past as it can cherish your life with fun and loving moments.. may be for few minutes or for 2 nites but still it is something which can write history in leave a mark in your mind..

itsmemad · 20-10-2008, 06:32 AM

Past is something which can't be ignored by an individual altogether... You should not hold onto past to haunt your present life... but you should definitely reflect on your mistakes and try to make your future better...

sb21pro · 20-10-2008, 06:46 AM

i would recommend that you hold on to it, why ???
i order to make sure u know , feel , remember the difference 4 ever n ever
and also to make sure that it does not happen again.

itsmemad · 20-10-2008, 07:13 AM

Hey... u just proved wot u said... U held ur past and came back...

I missed u buddy... where were you?? hope to see ya around from now onwards...

sb21pro · 20-10-2008, 07:47 AM

studies, had to finish some projects n training

i missed u all tooo

but i m bak now !!

itsmemad · 20-10-2008, 07:54 AM

See I've raced past u in no. of post... and u were not here to congratulate me this time...

19-10-2008, 01:36 AM	#1
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Delhi Posts: 1,921 Rep Power: 2	Holding onto the Past Do you think that its good to hold on to the past in a relationship or move on with your life and thing of good things! For example, if you relationship wasn't too good a few years ago but now it is, do you think the past should be remembered, should it be talked about to be clarified, or should it be forgotten?

20-10-2008, 05:23 AM	#5
smoothvibes Moderator Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,398 Rep Power: 6	sometimes its really good to hold past as it can cherish your life with fun and loving moments.. may be for few minutes or for 2 nites but still it is something which can write history in leave a mark in your mind.. __________________ ϯ Peace... May God Bless All The Victims Of 26-Nov-08.

20-10-2008, 06:32 AM	#6
itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Patna, Pune Posts: 2,637 Rep Power: 3	Past is something which can't be ignored by an individual altogether... You should not hold onto past to haunt your present life... but you should definitely reflect on your mistakes and try to make your future better... __________________ Kaspersky 2009 Review Hollywood Movie Review Web based free applications

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19-10-2008, 04:27 AM	#2
Evander Leopold The Last Patriot Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: kolkata Posts: 1,941 Rep Power: 2	evil begets evil. Thou shalt not dwell upon old dump-trucks whilst heavenly flowerbeds lie ahead. heh heh. but frankly u have hit upon a question i asked myself plenty of times. and each time i would come up with one answer. just move with the flow in a direction set by u. better to forget past troubles.they will only bring up bad feelings. have seen it happen.

20-10-2008, 02:21 AM	#3
StarryKnight Gold Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Shuttling between Hell, New Delhi n Lucknow Age: 21 Posts: 713 Rep Power: 1	Come on Preeti, u urself must know what u r asking... do u want to just keep on holding on to ur past miseries!? Past, even if its good or its bad, will just bring u sadness in the present if remembered... The best choice is to concentrate on building up ur present (and in turn ur future) and learning from ur past mistakes.

20-10-2008, 02:27 AM	#4
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Delhi Posts: 1,921 Rep Power: 2	Yes it is always good to move on! The most sensible of people and experienced people will always suggest this to move on in life. If you hold onto the past it will practically haunt you in your current life and in the future, and by holding onto your past you wont be able to achieve any success or be happy. As you hold on your past you will think about it day and night and that will affect your overall ability in life, how you talk, how you react to things, and your overall behavior. So forget whatever has happened in the past (whether its fights you have had, difficult relationships, bad financial situation or any other bad things in life), and look towards a happier and bright future!

20-10-2008, 06:46 AM	#7
sb21pro IBB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Darjelling Posts: 1,734 Rep Power: 2	i would recommend that you hold on to it, why ??? i order to make sure u know , feel , remember the difference 4 ever n ever and also to make sure that it does not happen again.

20-10-2008, 07:13 AM	#8
itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Patna, Pune Posts: 2,637 Rep Power: 3	Hey... u just proved wot u said... U held ur past and came back... I missed u buddy... where were you?? hope to see ya around from now onwards...

20-10-2008, 07:47 AM	#9
sb21pro IBB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Darjelling Posts: 1,734 Rep Power: 2	studies, had to finish some projects n training i missed u all tooo but i m bak now !!

20-10-2008, 07:54 AM	#10
itsmemad Alligator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Patna, Pune Posts: 2,637 Rep Power: 3	See I've raced past u in no. of post... and u were not here to congratulate me this time...

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