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Preeti_20 · 03-12-2008, 06:29 AM

No way, I will try my level best not to be! I wont eat like a pig, and keep myself busy! Will start exercise from now, so that i will still have the routine when i get married

@ Admin, what you said about the kaam wali bai is so true, 90% because of them women put on weight, as they dont do any of the house work and its all left for the bai!

Admin · 03-12-2008, 06:30 AM

LOL she hasent been to the forum lately ... busy with her own stuff so I guess I am safe.

smoothvibes · 03-12-2008, 06:32 AM

ok ok lets come back to topic now

otherwise i know there are lot many people who will say dekho dekho Mod nae ek ladki aur admin ko bhi bigaad diya

icrave4knowledge · 03-12-2008, 08:26 AM

lol lol

itsmemad · 03-12-2008, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by smoothvibes

no this is true, atlease in north india its true, i have seen lot many hot chicks who gain weight like anything means before marriage she will be a cute girl with good fig and weight not more than 54kgs but after marriage she will be a huge aunty ji with wonderful body and weight not less than 90kgs

this really happens i have seen so many sardaarni's and punjabi females, when they sit in saadi marroti the marroti screeams like anything

It happens everywhere in India after marriage... In India its a culture to welcome guests with food,food & food(any doubt? watch 1st half of bollywood movie "Vivah") ... And after marriage girls gain weight mainly cuz they are expected to participate in every family gathering/parties... And being a new member in house, everyone see to it that shez over-eating and having loads of sweets...lol

One of my Kashmiri friend in college joined VLCC before her marriage... and was in very good shape in few weeks... she got married in the holidays after a semester... when she returned to join college after 1 month... She was looking like a mother... I'm sure she had loads traditional Kashmiri dishes during her stay there...

As farce said, weight doesn't increase due to sex... but yes, the outcome of sex(pregnancy) spells doom for a girl's figure... As the girl has to increase her diet to feed the kid... and the kid hanging around in there only helps to increase her size... but there are methods to regain that shape back... doctors should be consulted...

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Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Good topic to start!

I personally think why go out of your married life and go for an affair. If your not happy with your married life, then talk about it to your partner, where things can get resolved!....

....Talking is something which can stop the marital affair from happening!....

....Having trust in your relationship is very important,....

....What the other partner should think is that why would they be with them if they wanted to be with someone else!....

Thanks..
Bullseye! Thats what everyone should always have in mind...

I agree... Lack of communication & trust has huge potential to break a relationship...

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Originally Posted by Preeti_20

The signs which can be picked up if your partner is having an affair, is that your partner will not make any eye contact with you, be away from you, not be involved in what you say, and will always ask for their own privacy, privacy at times is ok, but when they want to be on their own a lot thats what you have to see. Whenever they get a phone call they will always go out of the room (it may be a case that the partner gets a new sim card which you will not be aware of), they will stay out of the home for long.

Tip: go through their phone, their computer and check to see if anything is there!

wow... were u a detective?

Now I know why girlfriends are always suspicious...

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Originally Posted by Preeti_20

Children are highly affected in this kind of situation, and if the couple end up separating and getting a divorce it mentally affects the children and their future, and children need both a father and a mother!

Yeah... I agree with you... & people do sacrifice a lot for their children...

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Originally Posted by smoothvibes

There are few more reasons why people go in such relation, just think about those girls who stay here in India and there husband go outside India for job and all, let me use some open words here now, after marriage man comes in her life and for a few days gives the best taste and all but after few days he disappears from picture and don't come back for 6 months or for 1 year. In this case if a girl goes out or gets involved in any relation then do you think its wrong. Even she have some dreams and needs (yes it is a need and you can not deny this fact)

Thats a very good reason you touched smoothie... I think only solution to it is that a guy should marry a girl only if he knows that he can take her along with him... cuz people need some time to stay together just after marriage to grow the relation emotionally... after some time, its OK to go on official trips alone... As ur spouse can trust u more then... and vice-versa...

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Originally Posted by smoothvibes

Just sit in dark once and think what will you do if you find your dream man or dream girl calling you out for a date or for a happening nite. Be honest, i am bold and true enough to say loud and clear that yes i will grab that opportunity.

What if ur dream girl/man is ur wife/husband? Sit in the dark once... And think why would you want to make ur & ur family's life hell for just few minutes of pleasure?

Preeti_20 · 03-12-2008, 11:45 AM

Well said Mad, why for a few minutes, hours, days of pleasure you should sacrifice your family and future!

aashaka_gandhi · 03-12-2008, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Admin

LOL @ smoothvibes

I guess girls dont get too much pocket money from parents and whatever they earn goes into thier bank and once they get married they start eating like pigs using hubby money ha ha ha. mcdonalds, pizza huts and dominos and what not... sub way and all that crap.

Any way jokes apart... I guess thats soemthign to do with age as well. coz the girls you are talking about are of young age and they get married and over the years they stop caring about how the look (there are exceptions) and dont bother about their tummies as they know divorces are still not common place in India...
Its a bit different in western countries where I see even middle aged women are very weight concious and even older women... You would find more women in shape in developed countries as compared to India and I think its got something to do with our oil consumption as well and women here in India hardly ever go out they just cook eat and sleep and the kaam wali bai does everything from them and that makes them even more fat.

PS: no offence intended towards anyone.

Absolutely Agreed.....but these days theres been precautions being taken amongst females.....due to the exposure....!!!!! I dunno about north India but definately Western India.....its like females maintaining themselves even after their weddings......n I like the way thy take life...!!!!

I kno soo many middle aged aunties n damn they r more careful than even me....!!!!! damn thy r jus like sooo consious.....!!!!

Yes Age has its own effects but than one cant jus blow up like a balloon.....!

Well i differ to say here......Divorces ve gone up soo much in last 2-3 years.....Its jus crazy.......!!!!! I feel this is happening coz we are tryin to adapt western culture....n in turn we dont remain the tradional ourself or westernised.....!

One more reason to an extra marital is partners not tryin to adjust to each other.....I ve seen it myself....! A family fren .....after 27 years of their wedding....got seperated for soo damn sad reasons that we cudnt do nyhting!!!! I mean the wifes got problems wid female frens of the husband n than husband goes n tries meeting the fren outside...which is worser or the other way round .....!!!! this is also one of the cause.....!!!!

In short, all I wish is whoeva is still single....jus make sure u select the right guy/ girl for urself....which ends up in a great relationship......!!!!!!!

farce · 05-12-2008, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by aashaka_gandhi

In short, all I wish is whoeva is still single....jus make sure u select the right guy/ girl for urself....which ends up in a great relationship......!!!!!!!

Easier said than done. How do we do this? I don't think anyone chosing
a partner says "ok let me chose this person who will be a jerk
and have a miserable marriage and then I'll divorce them".

my point is when you choose this "right" person you only think they are
right, doesn't end up being the right person in most cases.

-F

smoothvibes · 05-12-2008, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by farce

How do we do this? I don't think anyone chosing
a partner says "ok let me chose this person who will be a jerk

LOL

now this is funny farce

-A

farce · 05-12-2008, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by smoothvibes

LOL

now this is funny farce

-A

thanks, what can I say, I am a very funny person with
razor sharp wit (I am not saying this, all my friends do).

My wife sure is a lucky woman...

-F

03-12-2008, 06:32 AM	#23
smoothvibes Moderator Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: New Delhi/ London Posts: 4,398 Rep Power: 6	ok ok lets come back to topic now otherwise i know there are lot many people who will say dekho dekho Mod nae ek ladki aur admin ko bhi bigaad diya __________________ ϯ Peace... May God Bless All The Victims Of 26-Nov-08.

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03-12-2008, 06:29 AM	#21
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Delhi Posts: 1,921 Rep Power: 2	No way, I will try my level best not to be! I wont eat like a pig, and keep myself busy! Will start exercise from now, so that i will still have the routine when i get married @ Admin, what you said about the kaam wali bai is so true, 90% because of them women put on weight, as they dont do any of the house work and its all left for the bai!

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Admin Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: New Delhi Age: 31 Posts: 3,654 Rep Power: 10	LOL she hasent been to the forum lately ... busy with her own stuff so I guess I am safe.

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icrave4knowledge Silver Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: mostly lost, when not m in delhi and gurgaon Posts: 376 Rep Power: 1	lol lol

03-12-2008, 11:45 AM	#26
Preeti_20 Platinum Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Delhi Posts: 1,921 Rep Power: 2	Well said Mad, why for a few minutes, hours, days of pleasure you should sacrifice your family and future!